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noseyneighbour said:

@Standupifyouhateaimee it wouldn't let me reply on other thread. I still haven't caught up on the goings on. Had busy long days at work and just knackered. I got to about page 80 ish on other thread before I fell asleep. I'm gonna have so much to read now
I'm just reading and thinking wtf has gone on...I've been filled in on the jist of it by Lurkey but it's all gone to s!
Someone tagged me on A thread so I read that this morning. I am not sure if they were insinuating that I was included in the theory going round. I'm squeaky clean and hope most of earlier members know that I'm genuine. Work picked a sure time to be manic. I'm not whether it's a good thing or a bad thing i missed it all....I cudnt hv kept up if I was on. I really don't know what to say (for once) on the subject. Stunned...confused and sad.
Thanks for checking on me. You re a kind soul Are u ok and are u going away tomorrow..is it on Sunday? xx

Edited to say...I am not sure I'm gonna stay on the threads. It seems to be a free for all..all of a sudden. I don't know who's who and there were a few TT ppl who made quite rude comments about 'us over here' and said they were staying away amongst other things blah blah. I'm not sure what has changed and* I feel unsettled. Maybe it's because I haven't been on for a while...or bit shocked what went on and just feeling a bit shell shocked and mistrusting. I don't think anyone ever wanted a divide between groups Inc me but it got quite unpleasant at times and it wasn't all about Jo if I remember correctly. Nothing to do with me personally who joins or doesn't join but I feel confused about who's who and who to trust. Its very unsettling as it is when there is an influx of members but it seems that some tattlers hv been here undercover for a while and now saying who they are. There is one thing reading the thread...just as we read TL ( I haven't for a while) as anyone can freely *read so why only admit it now. Sorry I don't know what to think. These are just floating thoughts and I do not mean offence to anyone. Being tagged this morning by a username i didnt recognise...made me think i wasnt trusted as i hadnt been on which is not a nice feeling..especially when im not familiar with them or who's who. Just being honest about how unsettling it feels. Just don't want the drama and having to prove myself just cuz I've had a few busy days at work. I think it was agreed that we could be honest and have an opinion. I haven't sworn (good for me) or tagged or made capitals.
Sorry for rambling but 🫣

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thelurker66 said:

We’ve known the TL members who have been here a while’s users for a while nosey sazza came on here and said who she was when her comments about us were shared here, some have rejoined yesterday.
I think it’s fair to say a lot of the friction was around Jo and her antics. We were defending against it. But in reality they were right in the end.
I hope you stay nosey, I’m sure the person who tagged you didn’t mean it the way you are thinking, it may be because someone was exposing those who followed jo on TikTok and I think you were one of them who followed her? If I remember correctly so it may be just a letting you know kinda thing.
Don’t worry about the fact the pages have now shot up in amounts the old thread has now been added to the new one if that makes sense.
Don’t worry about the drama, it’s been dealt with now so don’t worry about catching up with that, normal antics have resumed and we did get an apology for being called “bellends” of TL (Sazza)

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Standupifyouhateaimee said:

If you go to the previous page there is a post from nosey and she IMO is definitely not jo. She works long hours, going through a break up and like lurkey said she is an over thinker (I am too ) she has also on the previous page done a post about how sad she is feeling and feeling unsettled. I really am not trying to say to do this and not sure if you actually can but can you delete this post ? I just think if she reads it she will be so so upset. I know it's sounds like I am trying to control your post or sway your opinion but I'd put my life on it she isn't Jo.
I get why we are all paranoid but she is struggling at the moment and I think if she sees this it will be hurtful to her. I know you wouldn't mean to buy I really think it will. Sorry if I have offended you x

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thelurker66 said:

Done here

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iamlauraj said:

Ok done you’ll need to delete your reply

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noseyneighbour said:

@Standupifyouhateaimee it wouldn't let me reply on other thread. I still haven't caught up on the goings on. Had busy long days at work and just knackered. I got to about page 80 ish on other thread before I fell asleep. I'm gonna have so much to read now
I'm just reading and thinking wtf has gone on...I've been filled in on the jist of it by Lurkey but it's all gone to s!
Someone tagged me on A thread so I read that this morning. I am not sure if they were insinuating that I was included in the theory going round. I'm squeaky clean and hope most of earlier members know that I'm genuine. Work picked a sure time to be manic. I'm not whether it's a good thing or a bad thing i missed it all....I cudnt hv kept up if I was on. I really don't know what to say (for once) on the subject. Stunned...confused and sad.
Thanks for checking on me. You re a kind soul Are u ok and are u going away tomorrow..is it on Sunday? xx

Edited to say...I am not sure I'm gonna stay on the threads. It seems to be a free for all..all of a sudden. I don't know who's who and there were a few TT ppl who made quite rude comments about 'us over here' and said they were staying away amongst other things blah blah. I'm not sure what has changed and* I feel unsettled. Maybe it's because I haven't been on for a while...or bit shocked what went on and just feeling a bit shell shocked and mistrusting. I don't think anyone ever wanted a divide between groups Inc me but it got quite unpleasant at times and it wasn't all about Jo if I remember correctly. Nothing to do with me personally who joins or doesn't join but I feel confused about who's who and who to trust. Its very unsettling as it is when there is an influx of members but it seems that some tattlers hv been here undercover for a while and now saying who they are. There is one thing reading the thread...just as we read TL ( I haven't for a while) as anyone can freely *read so why only admit it now. Sorry I don't know what to think. These are just floating thoughts and I do not mean offence to anyone. Being tagged this morning by a username i didnt recognise...made me think i wasnt trusted as i hadnt been on which is not a nice feeling..especially when im not familiar with them or who's who. Just being honest about how unsettling it feels. Just don't want the drama and having to prove myself just cuz I've had a few busy days at work. I think it was agreed that we could be honest and have an opinion. I haven't sworn (good for me) or tagged or made capitals.
Sorry for rambling but 🫣

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noseyneighbour said:

I'm not Jo... I joined around a week after Lurkey. I've been here ever since with a break during my relationship trouble. If u had been round from the start u wud 'know' who I was.
This is exactly why I prob won't stay tbh. 2nd post made that I've seen so far.
Yes..I admit I write loads but that won't be a problem anymore. I've been genuine all the way thru... I hv enough emotional crap in my head and a stressful job without being put under the microscope unduly...

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thelurker66 said:

@noseyneighbour i can see you’re around don’t abandon me it’s been a stressful few days I’ll share my biscuits with you

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noseyneighbour said:

Was working my way thru the other thread 'silently' as I wanted to catch up. Still haven't, but so tired so off to sleep now. Just doesn't feel nice to be mentioned at least twice in that way. No one else wud like it, I'm sure. Did upset me and annoyed me at the same time. Will see how I feel tomorrow....

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noseyneighbour said:

Was working my way thru the other thread 'silently' as I wanted to catch up. Still haven't, but so tired so off to sleep now. Just doesn't feel nice to be mentioned at least twice in that way. No one else wud like it, I'm sure. Did upset me and annoyed me at the same time. Will see how I feel tomorrow....

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Standupifyouhateaimee said:

Hey my lovely twinnie.
I thought you must of been busy on long days and to be honest from my memory of them that's enough...full stop ! So with life and anything that's going on I am not surprised you are knackered. I just wanted to check you were ok but also I missed you
I also thought you might be unsettled with everything that's gone on on here. I completely understand and if I'm honest I have similar feelings. I am not sure about you but I've never joined anything like this before so it was quite alien to me and it's having connections with you and others have made it much more than just a gossip site (didn't know they existed until catpiss advertised it !) It's been a laugh (mostly) but sometimes less is more. I get what you are saying about trusting people, it really does do give you a brain do thinking about it don't it! I not sure about you but sometimes I don't say too much as I have no desire to get into arguing but I definitely see more than I say but I promise you, I know what you are saying I have just carried on with chatting about Aimee (and vav) thrown in the odd funny (IMO ) comment and carried on like nothing has happened. I really really do not want you to leave but obviously if you feel it's best for you then completely understand. But perhaps just see how it goes, carry on connecting with who you know and trust and see how you feel. Even if you just read it, catch up and then see what you make of it. Maybe there are newer accounts who don't know you but we oldies all do and I'd would give away my right leg ( it's better than my left!) if I was proved wrong ...
So I know the Jo thing is actually quite sad but please know that you would be so missed if you left and not just by me.
You have always been a big part of this thread!
So maybe see how it goes but I will be here if you ever need a chat

Ps I'm ok thank you and it's Sunday can't wait.
Xxxx

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Standupifyouhateaimee said:

@noseyneighbour

Just checking if you are still around and ask how you are ? Xxx

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thelurker66 said:

Only just seen this! My apologies!
I know it isn’t nice nosey, I got accused of people two faced, throwing my toys out the pram etc and many more over the past few days! Maybe stay hiding here until you feel ready to venture to the other thread.
Do whatever is best for you nosey, but you’re not allowed to leave I’m afraid, we are in this together!

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noseyneighbour said:

It's fine...don't worry.
No..none of that is nice or true..I agree. I think it's the fact I was suspected of being someone I'm not...twice...by a name I was unfamiliar with. To tag me so drew unnecessary attention to me and potentially hv others think the same.
I think u and a few of the others know I'm just me and i appreciate that and hope that gives ne some credibility. I always write loads..always have...that's just me...a rambler. It's like therapy for me. No one is made to read it tho...and my personal essays have generally been on here. I'm not entirely happy that it is now swamped by loads of others and ppl I'm not familiar with and that they can read my s but i guess thats my own fault for overcharging my relationship crap. I will take accountability for that. You and some of the other's hopefully know i don't just have that unhappy...overthinking side of me. I do have a sense of humour and also care for others....genuinely. I've been this way personally and professionally all my life xx

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