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I don't think anyone was policing what people say or trying to dictate to anyone either. I think it was purely people voicing things they don't approve of as it may be harmful to others. I personally really couldn't give two hoots if I don't like something I scroll by. I'm certain I say things people don't like and again couldn't give two hoots. I wouldn't be rude to anyone who disagrees though. The nature of this page is reason enough to know you're going to read things that don't match your opinion. I just don't think people should be jumped on if they voice their concerns or opinions

RosieJo said:

I personally have never called her fat because I suffer with issues around my eating. I have made comment about how much she eats and the fact she trys to make put she doesn't and the fact that she uses filters all of which are harmful to people especially those who are vulnerable and follow her. But I don't say anything about people's opinions on that I just scroll on. I have however broached how people say things in the past because of people on the thread experiencing issues surrounding their body image and food. I was always respectfully treated when I have mentioned this. However making comments about her makeup and clothes being awful wouldnt trigger as much of a reaction as calling someone fat who yes has weight on but I wouldn't call any such thing. If you feel that it's OK and she's fair game to make comment on that then that's your perogative and people who don't agree will mostly scroll on by as we mostly do but nobody else seems to feel Lurkey was trying to label anyone or making them out to be anything. They were simply putting their feelings and thoughts across only in less of an aggressive manner than you and that is the issue here, not what you said. If we show support to someone we feel has maybe been upset then that's our perogative also. They have also apologised for any offense caused which tbh they didn't have to.

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I certainly do have an aggressive blunt posting style but i don’t hide it or change it or sugar coat it depending on the type of post or who I’m responding to. It can be a joke, a normal post or disagreement and it’s always the same. People may take issue with that but I’m not bothered as I think not everyone is another’s cup of tea. People should just scroll or put me on ignore. Also people should know by now I’m not actually being rude.

And she wasn’t trying to label, she did label. There is no debating what was said or meant. My response was it was a crock of s and it’s the sort of thing you expect in Aimee’s comment section not this forum. If you don’t take issue with the label then fair enough but it’s fair enough that I do. And if someone starts a post with ‘people will probably disagree’ then when people disagree get upset (your words) then don’t post things that you know people might disagree with. For me it was done and dusted then I seen the comments in here the next day. And it’s a shame as that post I disagreed with then mine spoilt a really good vibe in A’s thread that we had going on after the Jo saga.

I understand you guys all have your little friendship group and want to have each others backs, I appreciate that, it’s good you all have that and that you guys use the forum for a deeper purpose than me. I don’t want to derail this thread as I’ve said, people enjoy it and it needs to stay that way. I just felt you’d took the time to explain where you are coming from so I’ve given the courtesy of responding (unintentionally aggressive or rude if that’s how it’s coming across). Maybe I should use more emojis

And I like Lurker. We tagged teamed and took down Jo together I just didn’t agree with her post, but it was not deeper than genuinely.

Eitak58 said:

And I like Lurker. We tagged teamed and took down Jo together I just didn’t agree with her post, but it was not deeper than genuinely.

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Thank you for saying that!
I do think sometimes the tone in messages can be misinterpreted and I was shocked when I first read it I won’t lie about that, I don’t do conflict! Obviously I have explained what I meant and my reasoning behind it. The makeup, the non filter comments do not bother me and it’s not even me defending Aimee in my original post like the Huns would, I just felt I didn’t want people bigger than Aimee reading it or people who have struggles and feeling awful about it.
I just didn’t phrase it right at first

thelurker66 said:

Thank you for saying that!
I do think sometimes the tone in messages can be misinterpreted and I was shocked when I first read it I won’t lie about that, I don’t do conflict! Obviously I have explained what I meant and my reasoning behind it. The makeup, the non filter comments do not bother me and it’s not even me defending Aimee in my original post like the Huns would, I just felt I didn’t want people bigger than Aimee reading it or people who have struggles and feeling awful about it.
I just didn’t phrase it right at first

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I don’t have an issue with you not wanting to make fun of or insult her regarding her weight. That’s absolutely fair enough. I get the reasons. It was honestly just the label part. I just can’t afford her that kindness as she is rotten to her core. The ironic thing is my most used phrase on here is fat meff and I’m bigger than her

I apologise if I did upset you, it was unintentional and maybe I do need to start being bothered by how my posting style is coming across. I don’t really know how to make it come across different though that’s the pickle.

Eitak58 said:

I don’t have an issue with you not wanting to make fun of or insult her regarding her weight. That’s absolutely fair enough. I get the reasons. It was honestly just the label part. I just can’t afford her that kindness as she is rotten to her core. The ironic thing is my most used phrase on here is fat meff and I’m bigger than her

I apologise if I did upset you, it was unintentional and maybe I do need to start being bothered by how my posting style is coming across. I don’t really know how to make it come across different though that’s the pickle.

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Yeah that part was meant to be like you’re good people, not meant as an insult I just didn’t notice it didn’t come across how I meant it

thelurker66 said:

Yeah that part was meant to be like you’re good people, not meant as an insult I just didn’t notice it didn’t come across how I meant it

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No I understand that now you have explained. I think we all are good people just A brings out are inner rage so for most of us it’s anything goes, well certainly is for me.

Eitak58 said:

No I understand that now you have explained. I think we all are good people just A brings out are inner rage so for most of us it’s anything goes, well certainly is for me.

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I get that, she brings out a rage in all of us otherwise we all wouldn’t be members here!
I’m happy to just get back to business now, I feel like it doesn’t need to be dragged on further, we can be quite the duo when we want to be

thelurker66 said:

I get that, she brings out a rage in all of us otherwise we all wouldn’t be members here!
I’m happy to just get back to business now, I feel like it doesn’t need to be dragged on further, we can be quite the duo when we want to be

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Agreed, let’s say no more. Yep we sure can be .. just ask Jo

I'm here girlies!!!! and I've already cried I'm only wearing one bracelet that my niece made me to match my tattoo I'm honestly so not prepared for Marjorie at all. Wish me luck Let's go Nanna

Eitak58 said:

Agreed, let’s say no more. Yep we sure can be .. just ask Jo

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Thelma and Louise aka Lurkey and Eitak sniffing out Jo

allaboardthebirkeybike said:

I'm here girlies!!!! and I've already cried I'm only wearing one bracelet that my niece made me to match my tattoo I'm honestly so not prepared for Marjorie at all. Wish me luck Let's go Nanna

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Love it birkey
Beautiful

@Eitak58 and @thelurker66 glad that's sorted as "love" ya both !!

TillyLou said:

Hi I’m ok, thank you for asking I’ve just had a few days away, not even wanted to catch up on what skanky mama has been up to. I’m in the process of catching up on all of the posts, it may take me until tomorrow morning of none stop reading to catch up though
Hope you are doing ok? And everybody else xx

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Hey lovely, hope you are doing ok today ? Did you manage to catch up at all? Xxx

PecanPieCrust said:

Bikey you are in for a treat!!! I have no words for how fantastic she was!!!!! The 3+ hours flew by Have a great night, she's amazing, her voice live is something else xxx

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glad you had such a good time xxx

@noseyneighbour i know you may just be partying the night away but you are usually catching up around this time (call me Martha at this point ) you ok?

@Eitak58 I had to search to find out who was my fellow westlife lover currently listening to them

thelurker66 said:

@noseyneighbour i know you may just be partying the night away but you are usually catching up around this time (call me Martha at this point ) you ok?

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I've had to work today was still logged on til about half 7!
So now catching up on jobs and my son came round to get his father's day present for his dad!
Need to get ready for holiday but I'm lacking motivation.
Oh and my recent ex messaged....
Partying the night away..as if...putting kettle on maybe
You ok?

noseyneighbour said:

I've had to work today was still logged on til about half 7!
So now catching up on jobs and my son came round to get his father's day present for his dad!
Need to get ready for holiday but I'm lacking motivation.
Oh and my recent ex messaged....
Partying the night away..as if...putting kettle on maybe
You ok?

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Aww! Yes kettle on and relax that’s an order!
Oh noooo what did he want? Dont even reply!! Why isn’t he blocked lady I’m joking! but listen to lurkey none the less!

thelurker66 said:

Aww! Yes kettle on and relax that’s an order!
Oh noooo what did he want? Dont even reply!! Why isn’t he blocked lady I’m joking! but listen to lurkey none the less!

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He said... "It's been a while now..how are you?"
I've been feeling pretty s and sad about it all lately but pissed me off with his first sentence again...just like before! Meaning..."nothing has changed but u have had enough time and should be missing me and wanting me again...all forgotten"
Speaks volumes of the delusion and lack of acknowledgement and understanding.
I do miss parts of being with him but I don't want to back to more of the same.
The last message I sent 2 months ago said...don't message again as I'm sick of your s!
It's hard as I have been crying a lot and part of me still loves him. There are so many things wrong tho...and I've reflected on how controlling and hurtful he has been.
I just don't know what to do...I invested 2 years in the relationship...it's hard to just ignore him as I'm not a horrible person but on the same note I need to protect myself emotionally too.
So fing hard!!
Sorry waffle waffle as usual x