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Standupifyouhateaimee said:

Twinnie first things first, you are never a burden...ever
I'm glad you do feel supported by me as I feel towards you how I do with my friend's and I honestly mean that too.
I feel we are so unlike so I know how you feel and I really do have empathy for it because unless you are that way it's easy to say write it off. I think I've got a little better as I've got older but I also feel it's because I see people much less. I think I've mentioned on here before, how sometimes I've not got back what I've put into friendships and I'd always be upset when others couldn't give 2 ss.
You are a good person and yes I do see it as do others. You are very well liked and with good reason. I have questioned that too about myself with being on that other thread but only because we are good people. Then I've just watched her and her mums TT and it's really angered me and I know exactly why I'm there. There they are on a little trip with H and all they are on about is drink and how they don't have to worry about driving as they are in the centre! Never mind you have a child with you, you absolute wasters! So yes A, her mum and vile vav are a different breed. I see creators I like and some I don't like but I never look for a thread on the ones I don't like because none of them are that vile. So with A she is not nice, she's a narc and more or less touts it.

The fact you didn't know that user was around shows that you are not on here as much as again the mind boggles why you had 3 posts. And I know why anyone but I am on here as much, if not more than you so I don't get it. I can only imagine the rage that one post made you feel. I felt rage when that jiggy (although I think same person) said we had claimed to have bad childhood's....like I wished we were lying so seeing it aimed at your daughter, I get it totally.

I will always be here for you and i hope you will stay (but of course no pressure)

Poor boy seems ok just got and bothered. Going to take him out in a bit but still roasting here.

Haha I haven't spoke to her in a little while she'll be cursing me. Ill call her tomorrow xxxx

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Standupifyouhateaimee said:

*A like not unlike

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noseyneighbour said:

Wow...just read that response over there from that person just wow....

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Standupifyouhateaimee said:

Ah twinnie I know I just seen it.
Why don't you reply and tag her on here to see if you can sort it or at least have your reply, if you want to that is. It's horrible to see this and I know you will be upset. Xxx 🩷

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noseyneighbour said:

I'm done. Beyond upset xx

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noseyneighbour said:

I'm done. Beyond upset xx

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noseyneighbour said:

Wow...just read that response over there from that person just wow....

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RosieJo said:

I've left the group to and will probably leave this group aswell soon. Sending healing and love to those that need it

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noseyneighbour said:

I've replied and left group. I'm on here still..for now. Hopefully that person will stay the do away. I can't type anymore atm twinnie..can't really see as really upset. Love you tho xx

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Standupifyouhateaimee said:

Oh no I echo what you have said above and I think I might do the same, especially if you two are both leaving
It's sad as I have really enjoyed connecting on here and with some funny, beautiful souls but when it goes off it's not nice to see and I know how much nosey is upset by it I will keep coming here for a bit to see if nosey comes back so I can get connected off of here.
Take care @roseyjo
It's been lovely chatting with you and hopefully we will do again in the future

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RosieJo said:

I've left the group to and will probably leave this group aswell soon. Sending healing and love to those that need it

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Standupifyouhateaimee said:

Honestly twinnie I could cry for you as I feel your hurt. I hope you are now sleeping and glad you are staying here. I will sort that page out and let you know what it is so we can connect away from here. Love you too

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RosieJo said:

Hi @noseyneighbour I thought I'd pop over here and chat to you. It's not OK how you have been left feeling and tbh it is sort of feeling a bit mean girls over there at times now. Some people's opinions matter more than others and I've felt like that for a while so I don't post as much as I used to. Or at times I post what I think to get it off my chest and leave. But if it's going to be a group of people not being empathetic to peoples struggles and pretty hateful towards one another and people sticking up for those that are being hateful then I don't think I'll be around for long either. There are a few good souls but I do feel that the tides turning and it isn't so much a supportive place anymore. How dare anyone have human emotion eh? I hope you're OK, you need to take care of you, people who don't try to understand are most certainly not worth feeling bad about either. Sending lots of love

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noseyneighbour said:

I am so sorry you have got backlash as a result of me. I respect you for standing for what you believe in. I've been made to feel like I'm crazy (admittedly I am a bit) and you saw things through genuine unbiased eyes and was just honest. I feel sad and also responsible that you got crap from vouching for the way things were. I thought it would continue and someone else would be next but I'm particularly sorry it's you.
If everyone else can say what they want and others can't be offended than we should be able to too. Pot kettle. I was hoping to stay on here..at least for a whole so hope it can be kept separate conversations unless it's a calm conversation. Otherwise it will be like TL and CC all over again. Some hv short memories. No one is a dictator or controller on here..never has been and never should be.
I did try and move on..hard as it was but they came for me again. I hv been very upset, hurt and disappointed. It's not what it was. Just takes a few...umm strong characters and it will go down the pan more. Who will be next...hopefully no one.
Im sorry again @RosieJo and thank you for your support xx

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RosieJo said:

You don't have anything to be sorry for. The same thing happened a few months ago where I stood up for someone against them. Was the same sort of reception. So don't worry about it, I just don't like anyone being talked to that way and I don't think anyone should belittle or invalidate how anyone feels. The group isn't the same. I've felt it for a while. I almost left silently a few times in the past couple of weeks. So it was coming anyway. You look after yourself. I'll stick around for a few days maybe. But if things kick off on here then I'm off lol I'm not wasting my time or energy

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noseyneighbour said:

I hadn't been around much on there either..mainly cuz of my s going on but maybe subconsciously I was moving away from a sense. I've missed lots. Maybe it was wrong to come back on there with a woe is me post as one of my first posts back...
I occasionally skimmed and even broke the break to comment support to one of the others as felt I wanted to and they needed it. Puffy I think. Nothing against them at all btw anyone..just making reference! I've had no beef at all with them. They are another say it like it is person but personally I have never taken it as rude or insensitive..more light hearted.
I edited my last post to say..if i stay a while..please do too. Obv not if u get s and i think that's unfair if anyone comes giving s when no names been mentioned other than positive about puffy. It seems some have been scanning all the messages all day...I personally dont want to argue anymore or have the strength to. We are allowed a voice though...
Do i remember right u are a MH nurse? Makes sense if you are..

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RosieJo said:

You don't have anything to be sorry for. The same thing happened a few months ago where I stood up for someone against them. Was the same sort of reception. So don't worry about it, I just don't like anyone being talked to that way and I don't think anyone should belittle or invalidate how anyone feels. The group isn't the same. I've felt it for a while. I almost left silently a few times in the past couple of weeks. So it was coming anyway. You look after yourself. I'll stick around for a few days maybe. But if things kick off on here then I'm off lol I'm not wasting my time or energy

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RosieJo said:

It's just not the same anymore. There's always a few bad will spoil the broth and that's what's happening. I don't want to be in a group where someone can insult someone and people sit back and allow it. It's a group to talk about one person, not to personally attack those in the group. I also am a person who cant stand people being rude or belittling others. Its disgusting behaviour. I can't be bothered with it anymore, life's heavy enough without that sort of energy being wasted. I will stick around to make sure everyone is OK but can't see me keeping my account long. It has been lovely getting to know you and Nosey and a few others. I just wish it wasn't getting so toxic

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RosieJo said:

I have nothing against any of the rest of the members of the group but I think as a whole it's just become something I don't want to be a part of anymore. I cant really describe the shift in the energy in it, it kinda feels competitive in some way and like some are ignored and others are listened to more, I can't articulate it right atm lol this though by all means is their perogative, as long as other group members aren't being insulted and attacked. That's the bottom line really. Yes we are allowed a voice so never let anyone stop you saying what you need to. Yeah I'm a mh nurse so I completely understand where you are coming from professionally and through lived experience

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