Lou @Lifewithloux
Agreed. He's nothing but a scrounging scum bag who thinks he's some hard roadman. He is quite possibly the worse person she could be around at the moment. He's contributed heavily to where she is now and she'll never get better with him there. She picked him over her beautiful little kids. Impressive for a scrawny, ugly bloke with the IQ of pondlife.
I remember this.
I don’t believe that she was fleeing DV from James, he was a complete div but didn’t seem violent just a donut plus her mouth is so big she wouldn’t have hid that she loves the role of victim she would have been crying on stories constantly back then!
Now if she is in a DV situation with Ste which is highly likely because he’s absolutely vile, she would know that’s what attributed to her losing the kids and be aware of not being so open about it!
No one deserves to be hurt not even bloody Lou but sometimes you reap what you sew
Finally steeled myself to watch the last million stories. She’s got all the buzzwords hasn’t she? I’m looking forward to the new “pos-i-iv” Lou. We’ve never heard that one before have we? 
So everyone, stop trolling, stop mentioning her on stories, stop being snide. NewLou
is here! Onwards and upwards!!
So everyone, stop trolling, stop mentioning her on stories, stop being snide. NewLou
is here! Onwards and upwards!!
She isn't allowed to work with children, which is what she wants to do so to get she can't work
Oh my lord I'm now blind in one eye since looking at that threadWell I’ve just come on here to catch up on Begatrons thread and someone had posted on the Joe Brady thread. Not knowing who this person is, I clicked on the thread. Good lord. My fing eyes!
Who's this been with, Dawne?
Seen it mentioned a few times on here so will just mention that if you're using dark mode the option to reply goes away for some reason. It works on light mode, don't know why.
Re James and dv I think I believe some of it. She was too scared to tell him she was pregnant with Molly. We can see the state of her room now, I think she was always scruffy and dirty maybe the pill abuse drove him over the edge, not that makes it right. Has she ever admitted to anyone the timeline of her addiction, what pushed her from codeine further along the track?
I don't believe James beat her, I really don't. He absolutely kicked her out of the house, because he was sick and tired of working all day and then going home where she'd done sod all except neglect the kids and get high. The rest is spot on, she was living in a little flat, having the kids at weekends. Enter Ste to the picture. I believe he trashed her place and beat her, because she did end up in refuge where other dv escapees lived and she enraged a couple of the women there because she posted photo's on facebook sat in the communal gardens and it kicked off, because they were terrified of their accommodation being exposed and their violent ex's finding them. If she'd have stayed away from Ste like she was told, she'd be set up in a nice little home now, with baby Alfie, Oscar & Molly. She chose Ste, so lost Alfie within 2 hours of him being born. In this country, it's extremely difficult and rare for fathers, especially unmarried fathers, to even get access to their kids, let alone get full custody and parental rights. That's why I don't believe Lou's accusations of dv against James.
Ahh the positivity phase of the Lou cycle. Good times.
Give it until she's run out of codeine to snort before we get tears and snot again
Give it until she's run out of codeine to snort before we get tears and snot again
Who's this been with, Dawne?
It was tramadol she got I think and that started her off she was taking handfuls of them and used to inbox people asking for some. I’m not sure about James as he was never on her story but if he got custody I’d imagine he was fully investigated with spot checks etc and they’d interview everyone like her mother etc., I thought for some reason she was with ste when she was still with James I don’t know why
Yes I’d agree regarding James there it’s very rare and he’d have had to jump through more hoops than she would . She also is allowed see them but chooses not to
The face picking was drugs I reckon. And why was Carol sending them Christmas presents for the kids, she started lou's begging behaviour. James went along with that, and laughed about her faked suicide. But if he's OK with the kids...
Remember her fweezer door being *accidentally* left open every week
it's still a long fall, she lives like a homeless person now, amazing. Ooh, just remembered, she was crying on her stories about Oscar's teacher telling her she had to make an effort with her speech because Oscar had picked it up. No mention that it was a speech impediment.
I agree with this 100% my husband took his ex wife to court for custody of his 2 children. He had evidence of drug use, alcohol dependency, self harm, child neglect, a revolving door on her knickers and suicide attempts. They were married when they were born and he had full parental rights yet he only got joint custody. We went through mediation, CAMHS, social services and CAFCAS. She never turned up to court and reused all recommended interventions For James to get full custody and Beggy Lou to not even get visitation there mustve been some serious evidence
Im not from Redcar, was just there with work for the day, I popped into B&M at lunch break and instantly recognised him from Lou’s IG he was sitting in a closed shop doorway opposite, in a sleeping bag, smoking, I think it was around the time they split up / baby was born not exactly sure when it was, but he was asking for money.