Lou @Lifewithloux

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They're claiming to be the person who drove to check in after the Loucide beg. If that's the case, wow - that's a blast from the past. It'd be great if you could prove it somehow.

I completely understand the desire to reach out to her to try and help. She tells a tragic story - and i've been tempted to reach out myself. But the key thing to remember is Lou chose this. She abandoned her kids. She repeatedly shacked up with Ste. She was warned that if she didnt stop with the crack she'd lose Alfie. She burned her followers on instagram and then moved over to tiktok for fresh victims. She's had endless good samaritans and nice people reach out, and she will inevitably either:
  • Ignore them completely
  • Try and extract money from them
  • Try and extract time from them to "moderate" her streams, so she can extract money from others.
  • Use them as an outlet for sympathy to get attention.
She's got the support of a recovery program, which she makes a mockery of (using her own definition of "clean" to claim victory while necking pregabs, codeine, and a host of others). She's got supported housing, and has just had a big chunk of back pay (allegedly). There was a mini intervention thing the other day that she showed up to, promised she wanted to change for her kids, and then proceeded do very little.

My honest advice - don't feed the beast. No money. No followers. No sympathy. She needs to want and work for positive change. Right now, she's not doing that - because she's comfortable in her grotty pit. The next pivot point I can see is when Ste gets sent down (assuming he does get sent down) - that could create a scenario where she's forced to change her lifestyle a bit, because she won't have someone bringing her drugs on demand.

This all sounded quite harsh, but I genuinely want her to do well - but I see no sign that she's willing to put in any effort to do that.
If someone could let me know who I sent that message to I'll happily screen shot it from my side to prove its me 🤣 I can't remember that far back on who I sent it too 😅

Yeah you're right I'm not going to change anything when ultimately she doesn't want to change herself...
 
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Just found this chat I had with Carol after the Louicide.
How many years ago is that?
How’s it working out for you Carol?
Sorry - there’s a lot of screenshots!
Mid 2019 wasn't it?
'we don't know her story' . Oh do do off, Carol. Does she really believe that Lou has any other story other than whatever bullshit she's been told privately, and that what she posts on social media is not the real her.

Carol is right in that she's not being mugged off. Going by her smug replies, she knows *exactly* what she is doing by gifting all that stuff. Must be one of those insanely wealthy weirdos that has the spare cash to throw around, interfering with and causing chaos just to sit back and watch the s show for no reason other than because they can
 
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Hey up disability benefit pending, carers really Lou, you ain't been bad, been poppin pills again, the pins and needles is a trapped nerve in your back, i suffer the same only i went to gp and you know the reason, all the extra weight your carrying, also gp can refer you to a slimmers group free of charge for 6 weeks, but you won't do that either just like NA meetings
 
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She’s not been welly well guys!!!

dead leg and pins and needles and her carers have had to come in!!! What fing carers!!!!!

and Lou ,what you have is a walking stick not a crutch you dumb s!!!

her life style I think is finally catching up with her.
If she does have pins and needles or pain in her back and leg it is without a doubt down to the fact she is morbidly obese and still gaining weight daily. Maybe if she got off her arse and got some exercise it might help. Falling asleep sitting up won't help matters either and she seems to do that at least a few times a week. The weight gain is another thing she will do nothing about because its something she has to do for herself. If someone could do it for her it would be a different story. When she wants to go to the shop or chemist she manages to get up and walk there absolutely fine. Lou has no motivation to do anything for herself and is only interested if it's being done for her, gifted or handed on a plate.