Boy oh boy this is all a little crazy…
Abbie here, the best friend of Mel for 12 years.
I’ve dipped into this forum every now and then, first caught wind of it around the page 12 mark, then didn’t check back till it was a chunky 50 odd. THEN Tom found his voice and I’ve been enjoying his little fables whilst on the night feed. He’s saved me loads tbh because normally I shop! But you see my name has been mentioned a few times now and I love that because it gives me a free pass to speak up.
Now I’m not here to spout lies because that does jack all let’s be honest. Lies hurt, lies expire and the truth always comes out. (You’d be wise to remember that yourself Thomas).
I’m just here to clear some stuff up.
- Mel has done
twice in her life and I was present both times because I was the one that had it 
fair to say she wasn’t a fan. Neither was I actually, whitied which we all know is a rookie mistake. End of that.
- Her husband is also NOT a smoker, maybe back in the day but in the whole 8 years I’ve known him I’ve not seen a single spliff in that mans hand. Shut it down.
- Mel has never laid her hands on anybody, never has and I know she never will. It’s not in her nature to do so.
- Yes Mel did throw a plate (you guys and bringing up this plate, it’s like you’re all Greek or something how often you bring it up!) BUT spoiler alert… the plate was not thrown at her husband. So case closed.
- I have had MANY nights out with Melissa, we did 3 years of uni together. Yes we got into some drunken states, haven’t we all?? Mel isn’t a heavy drinker though, hasn’t been since Uni in all honesty.
- oh aye Mel loves me & I love her right back but unfortunately for those of you that fantasise about it, me & Mel have never had sex. Although I will say (because no lies here) we have kissed, mainly on nights out (but I would give you a £1000 if you could find a bunch of girl friends who haven’t kissed each other on a night out) oh and once for a play we were cast in at Uni. Sorry to kill that theory for you all.
- Yes I did walk into Toms house and at some point in the first 5 minutes of me being there ask him to turn his sty music off. It just wasn’t my scene & I felt uncomfortable. Did he balls tell me to get the “do out of his house” though. You think I would have continued to stay if he had? Although I must add, this was 11 years ago. I was still a teenager. I think we’ve all changed from who we were as teenagers so cut me some slack here people.
- Mel pays for her own blinking teeth, yes her birth dad helped with a small down payment but she’s footed the rest. Nothing wrong with accepting some help, the same how he also helped pay for Tom’s driving lessons and first car.
I know an awful lot you see because me & Mel speak every day, have done for 12 years. Sad I know but hey we don’t care. That’s our friendship, it’s not me being manipulated or gaslighted by her. It’s just our dynamic and also what happens when you live miles apart.
Mel is a genuine person, a human being who has had a real rough time with her childhood at the hands of her family. Just because you as people do not choose to talk about your issues publicly doesn’t then provide you the right to berate another for it.
Yeah I get it, freedom of speech and all but come onnnnnnnnnn!
I, myself have nothing to hide from you or anyone in this world and I already know that Tom will come on here and reply to what I’ve got to say with supposed “dirt” on mine & Mels friendship.
But you see this is what Tom does, he always believes he
has to have the last word and will go to such lengths to get it.
I have had the pleasure of being in Tom’s company far too many times. I agree with Mel, he is well was the best out of a bad bunch but he lets himself down so much.
I know because I’ve also received lots of lovely messages off him over the years. Plus some of the events he is telling you about, I was also witness too or have seen screenshots of the conversations…
Too right everyone is allowed to share their own story, but not when it comes at the expense of someone else. Yes Mel made a video about Tom. It got deleted and apologised for, move on.
The hypocrisy of this man gets me the most.
I’ll quote him “I don't understand these forums because it's just full of people enjoying gossip and drama”.
That’s all he’s done since joining this page.
Another good one:
“People that know me well no I do not like people who b or ate two-faces”. This is coming from the man who A- can’t get “know” and “no” correct but uses a Low IQ as an insult. And B- has spent majority of his time on here bitching about someone.
Get this corker too…you trolls continuously rip the hell out of Mel for mentioning her own mother’s abortion on TikTok and yet good ol Thomas mentions
my own termination on here and you’re all hush hush?
I will say this though Tom, just pause for a minute and look at the absolute chaos you have caused. Saying you want to keep your childhood trauma to yourself because you want to keep it private and aren’t ready to deal with it yet, but you go and showcase it all over here for everyone to read? Make your mind up.
You just won’t stop but you’re going the wrong way about it. Creating multiple and I mean MULTIPLE social media accounts to pry on Mels life. Even going as low to follow me on your many a profiles just to catch a glimpse. It’s giving Baby Reindeer vibes.
Your know your own kids will find this one day, they will read what you’ve said, they will read how you’ve spoken about someone (whether they have Mel in their lives or not) they will see that their Dad spoke about someone in the most disgusting of ways. Your daughters will read that you belittled a woman on her appearance, that you egged on and encouraged the disrespect towards her too. That you did everything in your power to degrade and pull her down.
You speak on how your family is all about love not money but what are you showing your children here? Where are your morals? What example are you setting? That it’s okay to cyber bully? That it’s okay to make public derogatory remarks?
As a Dad it’s one of your responsibilities to show your children the type of man they need to be or the type of man they need to be with and I sure as hell would keep my girls far away from a man like you.
And FYI I would happily come and say this all to your face, come to your house & knock on your door because you don’t intimidate me Tom, never have done. I have nothing to lose when it comes to you do I?
You don’t need to come on here and air your dirty laundry just to gain some attention. It’s sad. You clearly want to talk about what happened to you, I’d say you’re actually desperate for people to know, gagging for it. That’s cool, just find a better way to do it pal, write a book, start your own TikTok for heavens sake. But not on here, have some self respect. These people don’t actually care, give it a month and they’ll be slagging you off too- it’s what they do best. Misery attracts misery and that’s all this forum is.
Mels army will forever be stronger than yours because let’s face it, you don’t have one. I haven’t come on here because I’ve been told to, I’m here to protect her at all costs because that’s what love is. Us fruit flies won’t stop but at least she has them. You’ve had no choice but to come on here to gain support, from trolls, the lowest of lows. You don’t even know their first names pal. They’re not here to support you, they told you that, they just want to hear your side of things to prove themselves right. It’s all self gain. Wake up Thomas, you’re being played.
Put your phone down, go visit a therapist to process your trauma and set an example to your children and soon to be wife on how a decent human behaves. It’s not hard.
Oh and one last thing: OneHitWonder was me, I had good fun with that!
Perks of having a poorly baby who will only settle & sleep in my arms, I have to keep myself awake somehow (safe sleeping and all that before you lovely bunch start berating me too).
I didn’t have to write it delete it, write it delete it like you said, I have a decent IQ so it actually came quite naturally- A* in English A Level is paying off.
This post though, oh I’ve slept on this. Debated on whether I stoop to your level but the thing is, it’s not possible. You’re your own worst enemy. You publicly humiliate yourself so well already.
Toodle loo Mr T,
Sending love
