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Garlicdep

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I'm so pleased you feel you can share your experiences here. The problem with Melissa's stories is she always talks like things only happened to her, she almost implies she was singled out & abused. Your insight shows you were deeply affected by events too. Melissa cannot comprehend anyone else suffered but her, because narcissistic people can only see pov from their perspective.

You mention Melissa had a boyfriend come to the house. Melissa's love story with shag bandit is always told as he was her 1st & only boyfriend? Can you confirm or deny if she is lying by saying Andrew was her only boyfriend?
Right?
She uses the excuse “I was a child” an awful lot, but so was he? But she treated him so poorly and fails to take any form of accountability. It’s ok to say “I fed up, I didn’t understand”.
She used the same excuse for the step son who is 18+, which is funny because that excuse can only be used when it suits her.

There’s a photo of her with some lad on her mums FB..
 

GossipGal

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Shag bandit was the gardener to Mel's grandma. It looks to me like he got the low down on her grandkids as she told him about them. He then shagged his way through all three female grandkids (Mel & her 2 cousins) & got with the one who'd be mug enough to pay for & take on his 4 kids from 2 other women. Why else would he sleep with three cousins? Shag Bandit acts all innocent. I've never liked the look of him. He's definitely lazy, he's lived in that house over a year & all he's done is pull up a carpet! 😱 Clearly too zombified from his 🌿 to do house renovations.
 

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FML I'm just here to raise awareness to childhood abuse says Mel, FCUK OFF you are there to be heard over & over & over. You are there to trash anyone who crossed you. You are there to get revenge, nothing more nothing fcuking less. Talks about what narcissists do & how they do what they do to switch the narrative back onto themselves 😂😂😂 so here's Mel who started all this, fcuked off cos her brother spoke out against her lies & this is her switching the narrative back onto HER 😂😂😂 cos she's a fcuking narcissist. And what's fcuking hilarious is she can't even see what she's doing 😭 😭 😭
The actress wants all eyes on her, she's soooo raging that her brother's popped up to defend his kids and debunk her performances. She's the one who's been switching the real narrative for over a year clearly. I've never really understood what a narcissist is but I googled the word and every description is of a narcissist is soooo Mel it's scary 😱
 

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I'm so pleased you feel you can share your experiences here. The problem with Melissa's stories is she always talks like things only happened to her, she almost implies she was singled out & abused. Your insight shows you were deeply affected by events too. Melissa cannot comprehend anyone else suffered but her, because narcissistic people can only see pov from their perspective.

You mention Melissa had a boyfriend come to the house. Melissa's love story with shag bandit is always told as he was her 1st & only boyfriend? Can you confirm or deny if she is lying by saying Andrew was her only boyfriend?
I've watched her say Andrew was her only boyfriend aswell 🤔
 

Abbie T

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Boy oh boy this is all a little crazy…

Abbie here, the best friend of Mel for 12 years.

I’ve dipped into this forum every now and then, first caught wind of it around the page 12 mark, then didn’t check back till it was a chunky 50 odd. THEN Tom found his voice and I’ve been enjoying his little fables whilst on the night feed. He’s saved me loads tbh because normally I shop! But you see my name has been mentioned a few times now and I love that because it gives me a free pass to speak up.

Now I’m not here to spout lies because that does jack all let’s be honest. Lies hurt, lies expire and the truth always comes out. (You’d be wise to remember that yourself Thomas).
I’m just here to clear some stuff up.

  • Mel has done 🌱 twice in her life and I was present both times because I was the one that had it 😂 fair to say she wasn’t a fan. Neither was I actually, whitied which we all know is a rookie mistake. End of that.
  • Her husband is also NOT a 🌱 smoker, maybe back in the day but in the whole 8 years I’ve known him I’ve not seen a single spliff in that mans hand. Shut it down.
  • Mel has never laid her hands on anybody, never has and I know she never will. It’s not in her nature to do so.
  • Yes Mel did throw a plate (you guys and bringing up this plate, it’s like you’re all Greek or something how often you bring it up!) BUT spoiler alert… the plate was not thrown at her husband. So case closed.
  • I have had MANY nights out with Melissa, we did 3 years of uni together. Yes we got into some drunken states, haven’t we all?? Mel isn’t a heavy drinker though, hasn’t been since Uni in all honesty.
  • oh aye Mel loves me & I love her right back but unfortunately for those of you that fantasise about it, me & Mel have never had sex. Although I will say (because no lies here) we have kissed, mainly on nights out (but I would give you a £1000 if you could find a bunch of girl friends who haven’t kissed each other on a night out) oh and once for a play we were cast in at Uni. Sorry to kill that theory for you all.
  • Yes I did walk into Toms house and at some point in the first 5 minutes of me being there ask him to turn his sty music off. It just wasn’t my scene & I felt uncomfortable. Did he balls tell me to get the “do out of his house” though. You think I would have continued to stay if he had? Although I must add, this was 11 years ago. I was still a teenager. I think we’ve all changed from who we were as teenagers so cut me some slack here people.
  • Mel pays for her own blinking teeth, yes her birth dad helped with a small down payment but she’s footed the rest. Nothing wrong with accepting some help, the same how he also helped pay for Tom’s driving lessons and first car.
I know an awful lot you see because me & Mel speak every day, have done for 12 years. Sad I know but hey we don’t care. That’s our friendship, it’s not me being manipulated or gaslighted by her. It’s just our dynamic and also what happens when you live miles apart.

Mel is a genuine person, a human being who has had a real rough time with her childhood at the hands of her family. Just because you as people do not choose to talk about your issues publicly doesn’t then provide you the right to berate another for it.

Yeah I get it, freedom of speech and all but come onnnnnnnnnn!

I, myself have nothing to hide from you or anyone in this world and I already know that Tom will come on here and reply to what I’ve got to say with supposed “dirt” on mine & Mels friendship.

But you see this is what Tom does, he always believes he has to have the last word and will go to such lengths to get it.

I have had the pleasure of being in Tom’s company far too many times. I agree with Mel, he is well was the best out of a bad bunch but he lets himself down so much.

I know because I’ve also received lots of lovely messages off him over the years. Plus some of the events he is telling you about, I was also witness too or have seen screenshots of the conversations…

Too right everyone is allowed to share their own story, but not when it comes at the expense of someone else. Yes Mel made a video about Tom. It got deleted and apologised for, move on.

The hypocrisy of this man gets me the most.
I’ll quote him “I don't understand these forums because it's just full of people enjoying gossip and drama”.
That’s all he’s done since joining this page.

Another good one:
“People that know me well no I do not like people who b or ate two-faces”. This is coming from the man who A- can’t get “know” and “no” correct but uses a Low IQ as an insult. And B- has spent majority of his time on here bitching about someone.

Get this corker too…you trolls continuously rip the hell out of Mel for mentioning her own mother’s abortion on TikTok and yet good ol Thomas mentions my own termination on here and you’re all hush hush?

I will say this though Tom, just pause for a minute and look at the absolute chaos you have caused. Saying you want to keep your childhood trauma to yourself because you want to keep it private and aren’t ready to deal with it yet, but you go and showcase it all over here for everyone to read? Make your mind up.

You just won’t stop but you’re going the wrong way about it. Creating multiple and I mean MULTIPLE social media accounts to pry on Mels life. Even going as low to follow me on your many a profiles just to catch a glimpse. It’s giving Baby Reindeer vibes.

Your know your own kids will find this one day, they will read what you’ve said, they will read how you’ve spoken about someone (whether they have Mel in their lives or not) they will see that their Dad spoke about someone in the most disgusting of ways. Your daughters will read that you belittled a woman on her appearance, that you egged on and encouraged the disrespect towards her too. That you did everything in your power to degrade and pull her down.

You speak on how your family is all about love not money but what are you showing your children here? Where are your morals? What example are you setting? That it’s okay to cyber bully? That it’s okay to make public derogatory remarks?

As a Dad it’s one of your responsibilities to show your children the type of man they need to be or the type of man they need to be with and I sure as hell would keep my girls far away from a man like you.

And FYI I would happily come and say this all to your face, come to your house & knock on your door because you don’t intimidate me Tom, never have done. I have nothing to lose when it comes to you do I?

You don’t need to come on here and air your dirty laundry just to gain some attention. It’s sad. You clearly want to talk about what happened to you, I’d say you’re actually desperate for people to know, gagging for it. That’s cool, just find a better way to do it pal, write a book, start your own TikTok for heavens sake. But not on here, have some self respect. These people don’t actually care, give it a month and they’ll be slagging you off too- it’s what they do best. Misery attracts misery and that’s all this forum is.

Mels army will forever be stronger than yours because let’s face it, you don’t have one. I haven’t come on here because I’ve been told to, I’m here to protect her at all costs because that’s what love is. Us fruit flies won’t stop but at least she has them. You’ve had no choice but to come on here to gain support, from trolls, the lowest of lows. You don’t even know their first names pal. They’re not here to support you, they told you that, they just want to hear your side of things to prove themselves right. It’s all self gain. Wake up Thomas, you’re being played.

Put your phone down, go visit a therapist to process your trauma and set an example to your children and soon to be wife on how a decent human behaves. It’s not hard.

Oh and one last thing: OneHitWonder was me, I had good fun with that!

Perks of having a poorly baby who will only settle & sleep in my arms, I have to keep myself awake somehow (safe sleeping and all that before you lovely bunch start berating me too).

I didn’t have to write it delete it, write it delete it like you said, I have a decent IQ so it actually came quite naturally- A* in English A Level is paying off.

This post though, oh I’ve slept on this. Debated on whether I stoop to your level but the thing is, it’s not possible. You’re your own worst enemy. You publicly humiliate yourself so well already.

Toodle loo Mr T,
Sending love ❤️
 
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Boy oh boy this is all a little crazy…

Abbie here, the best friend of Mel for 12 years.

I’ve dipped into this forum every now and then, first caught wind of it around the page 12 mark, then didn’t check back till it was a chunky 50 odd. THEN Tom found his voice and I’ve been enjoying his little fables whilst on the night feed. He’s saved me loads tbh because normally I shop! But you see my name has been mentioned a few times now and I love that because it gives me a free pass to speak up.

Now I’m not here to spout lies because that does jack all let’s be honest. Lies hurt, lies expire and the truth always comes out. (You’d be wise to remember that yourself Thomas).
I’m just here to clear some stuff up.

  • Mel has done 🌱 twice in her life and I was present both times because I was the one that had it 😂 fair to say she wasn’t a fan. Neither was I actually, whitied which we all know is a rookie mistake. End of that.
  • Her husband is also NOT a 🌱 smoker, maybe back in the day but in the whole 8 years I’ve known him I’ve not seen a single spliff in that mans hand. Shut it down.
  • Mel has never laid her hands on anybody, never has and I know she never will. It’s not in her nature to do so.
  • Yes Mel did throw a plate (you guys and bringing up this plate, it’s like you’re all Greek or something how often you bring it up!) BUT spoiler alert… the plate was not thrown at her husband. So case closed.
  • I have had MANY nights out with Melissa, we did 3 years of uni together. Yes we got into some drunken states, haven’t we all?? Mel isn’t a heavy drinker though, hasn’t been since Uni in all honesty.
  • oh aye Mel loves me & I love her right back but unfortunately for those of you that fantasise about it, me & Mel have never had sex. Although I will say (because no lies here) we have kissed, mainly on nights out (but I would give you a £1000 if you could find a bunch of girl friends who haven’t kissed each other on a night out) oh and once for a play we were cast in at Uni. Sorry to kill that theory for you all.
  • Yes I did walk into Toms house and at some point in the first 5 minutes of me being there ask him to turn his sty music off. It just wasn’t my scene & I felt uncomfortable. Did he balls tell me to get the “do out of his house” though. You think I would have continued to stay if he had? Although I must add, this was 11 years ago. I was still a teenager. I think we’ve all changed from who we were as teenagers so cut me some slack here people.
  • Mel pays for her own blinking teeth, yes her birth dad helped with a small down payment but she’s footed the rest. Nothing wrong with accepting some help, the same how he also helped pay for Tom’s driving lessons and first car.
I know an awful lot you see because me & Mel speak every day, have done for 12 years. Sad I know but hey we don’t care. That’s our friendship, it’s not me being manipulated or gaslighted by her. It’s just our dynamic and also what happens when you live miles apart.

Mel is a genuine person, a human being who has had a real rough time with her childhood at the hands of her family. Just because you as people do not choose to talk about your issues publicly doesn’t then provide you the right to berate another for it.

Yeah I get it, freedom of speech and all but come onnnnnnnnnn!

I, myself have nothing to hide from you or anyone in this world and I already know that Tom will come on here and reply to what I’ve got to say with supposed “dirt” on mine & Mels friendship.

But you see this is what Tom does, he always believes he has to have the last word and will go to such lengths to get it.

I have had the pleasure of being in Tom’s company far too many times. I agree with Mel, he is well was the best out of a bad bunch but he lets himself down so much.

I know because I’ve also received lots of lovely messages off him over the years. Plus some of the events he is telling you about, I was also witness too or have seen screenshots of the conversations…

Too right everyone is allowed to share their own story, but not when it comes at the expense of someone else. Yes Mel made a video about Tom. It got deleted and apologised for, move on.

The hypocrisy of this man gets me the most.
I’ll quote him “I don't understand these forums because it's just full of people enjoying gossip and drama”.
That’s all he’s done since joining this page.

Another good one:
“People that know me well no I do not like people who b or ate two-faces”. This is coming from the man who A- can’t get “know” and “no” correct but uses a Low IQ as an insult. And B- has spent majority of his time on here bitching about someone.

Get this corker too…you trolls continuously rip the hell out of Mel for mentioning her own mother’s abortion on TikTok and yet good ol Thomas mentions my own termination on here and you’re all hush hush?

I will say this though Tom, just pause for a minute and look at the absolute chaos you have caused. Saying you want to keep your childhood trauma to yourself because you want to keep it private and aren’t ready to deal with it yet, but you go and showcase it all over here for everyone to read? Make your mind up.

You just won’t stop but you’re going the wrong way about it. Creating multiple and I mean MULTIPLE social media accounts to pry on Mels life. Even going as low to follow me on your many a profiles just to catch a glimpse. It’s giving Baby Reindeer vibes.

Your know your own kids will find this one day, they will read what you’ve said, they will read how you’ve spoken about someone (whether they have Mel in their lives or not) they will see that their Dad spoke about someone in the most disgusting of ways. Your daughters will read that you belittled a woman on her appearance, that you egged on and encouraged the disrespect towards her too. That you did everything in your power to degrade and pull her down.

You speak on how your family is all about love not money but what are you showing your children here? Where are your morals? What example are you setting? That it’s okay to cyber bully? That it’s okay to make public derogatory remarks?

As a Dad it’s one of your responsibilities to show your children the type of man they need to be or the type of man they need to be with and I sure as hell would keep my girls far away from a man like you.

And FYI I would happily come and say this all to your face, come to your house & knock on your door because you don’t intimidate me Tom, never have done. I have nothing to lose when it comes to you do I?

You don’t need to come on here and air your dirty laundry just to gain some attention. It’s sad. You clearly want to talk about what happened to you, I’d say you’re actually desperate for people to know, gagging for it. That’s cool, just find a better way to do it pal, write a book, start your own TikTok for heavens sake. But not on here, have some self respect. These people don’t actually care, give it a month and they’ll be slagging you off too- it’s what they do best. Misery attracts misery and that’s all this forum is.

Mels army will forever be stronger than yours because let’s face it, you don’t have one. I haven’t come on here because I’ve been told to, I’m here to protect her at all costs because that’s what love is. Us fruit flies won’t stop but at least she has them. You’ve had no choice but to come on here to gain support, from trolls, the lowest of lows. You don’t even know their first names pal. They’re not here to support you, they told you that, they just want to hear your side of things to prove themselves right. It’s all self gain. Wake up Thomas, you’re being played.

Put your phone down, go visit a therapist to process your trauma and set an example to your children and soon to be wife on how a decent human behaves. It’s not hard.

Oh and one last thing: OneHitWonder was me, I had good fun with that!

Perks of having a poorly baby who will only settle & sleep in my arms, I have to keep myself awake somehow (safe sleeping and all that before you lovely bunch start berating me too).

I didn’t have to write it delete it, write it delete it like you said, I have a decent IQ so it actually came quite naturally- A* in English A Level is paying off.

This post though, oh I’ve slept on this. Debated on whether I stoop to your level but the thing is, it’s not possible. You’re your own worst enemy. You publicly humiliate yourself so well already.

Toodle loo Mr T,
❤️
you said I did countless fake accounts yet you said.......

"Oh and one last thing: OneHitWonder was me, I had good fun with that!".

So how do we know you have done countless fake accounts? What about that Shakespearean comments before?.

If it wasn't for your lovely best friend Melissa telling us all your intimate details of your relationship how your fella spoke to you like s had an affair with his best mates mum. Melissa was gonna stop you from being made of Honor because the baby would have been born around near the wedding.

She was going to ban your partner from coming to the wedding and then all for the sudden as soon as you got back together and she was admiring in him for the help at the hen do for making the food 🥴

Saying she couldn't do it without him.
You for kind of forgot a lot of bullet points you missed out that Andrew slept with my cousins who are twins by the way.

I for one did not mention your name Melissa's tagged you in tiktoks so people know who you are.

You even kicked off at Melissa for not making a journey down to you after she had a crash and then you had a massive fallout because of it then you come up here and buy a 30 presents for her 30th birthday yet she didn't do that for you? 🤔
 
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You said you Melissa was making it up for this driving anxiety and you said that she was being unreasonable and lazy.



Melissa told us everything even the fact that he can't have sex with you without sex toys 🤷 this is your best friend telling all this information about you to me and my fiance.



This is what Melissa does you see she releases information about her best friends and in-laws and family members to vent because she can't believe it and has it go at people for saying it 🤦



I'm sorry but you should be talking about other people's intimacies and personal information Melissa it's pretty simple.



It's not common behaviour I understand sharing your stresses and frustrations in life but not talking about your family and friends in that way.



You don't understand how much information she spoke down about you and your partners relationship because she thinks she's got a better even though Andrew cheated on Melissa with his ex.



So a baffles me how you can sit back and just be okay with all this.



Be okay with her snide disgusting behavior and this is exactly how my mother moved.



My mother did this to all her friends she even stop being friends with somebody because a fortune teller told her that's how pathetic my mother was and it's this is exactly the same with Melissa she thinks she's better than everybody else she thinks her life is better than everyone else and if you disagree that's it you're an narcissist you're the enemy



So think what you will but I will never ever dare have a friend like Melissa after all the horrible things she said
to us about you and your fella.
 

Abbie T

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Couldn’t help yourself could you. Textbook Tom.
17 months ago we had this conversation and your STILL bringing up my sex life 😂😂 I love it.
 

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So the flying monkeys were sent to attack, now we have the pot smoking, spendaholic, actress best mate who clearly should be focusing on her massive debts rather than wasting time defending the indefensible. What gives these people the impression Basher Byrne needs protecting? What are they or Mel scared is going to come out about Mel? Mel has bigger balls than any of you or her husband, Mel isn't anybody's victim, she's a psychotic, attention seeking nobody with glaringly obvious undiagnosed personality disorders. Poor Mel doesn't need her bestie or the flying monkeys to defend her honour, A, because she has no honour to defend and B, she absolutely loves the drama she's caused. Mel's life is so boring she herself intentionally set out to cause biblical drama! Mel has a new loving family, a loving husband, she's had top tier paid for therapy, she & her old family parted ways, her future was tickety boo, then she decided to blow the doors off herself & her new families life by pure attention seeking. How boring must ones life be to intentionally blow the doors off your own life, for what? Some Tik Tok fame with some bought followers? 🤣😭
Now we have a 2nd actress wanting the light shining on her, with respect who gives a flying duck if you had an abortion actress Abbie? It looks to me you're looking for a thread of your own! Id be careful what you wish for. Abbie & Mel might be the heroes in their own lives but online, you both look like extremely bored housewives seeking drama to me. Isn't there a local amateur dramatics you could both go join instead of making an absolute tit of yourselves online? 🤔
 

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Couldn’t help yourself could you. Textbook Tom.
17 months ago we had this conversation and your STILL bringing up my sex life 😂😂 I love it.


You full on doxxed him just know the police wont take kindly to this especially if they already on mel for harrasment your just giving tom more reason to get the police reinvolved with this whatever has happened you have no right to dox him knowing “mels army” could see that and harass him what a joke mel cries about these forums but quite clearly condones bullying and harassment i dont want to hear anymore word from her about this being harassment
 

Abbie T

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So the flying monkeys were sent to attack, now we have the pot smoking, spendaholic, actress best mate who clearly should be focusing on her massive debts rather than wasting time defending the indefensible. What gives these people the impression Basher Byrne needs protecting? What are they or Mel scared is going to come out about Mel? Mel has bigger balls than any of you or her husband, Mel isn't anybody's victim, she's a psychotic, attention seeking nobody with glaringly obvious undiagnosed personality disorders. Poor Mel doesn't need her bestie or the flying monkeys to defend her honour, A, because she has no honour to defend and B, she absolutely loves the drama she's caused. Mel's life is so boring she herself intentionally set out to cause biblical drama! Mel has a new loving family, a loving husband, she's had top tier paid for therapy, she & her old family parted ways, her future was tickety boo, then she decided to blow the doors off herself & her new families life by pure attention seeking. How boring must ones life be to intentionally blow the doors off your own life, for what? Some Tik Tok fame with some bought followers? 🤣😭
Now we have a 2nd actress wanting the light shining on her, with respect who gives a flying duck if you had an abortion actress Abbie? It looks to me you're looking for a thread of your own! Id be careful what you wish for. Abbie & Mel might be the heroes in their own lives but online, you both look like extremely bored housewives seeking drama to me. Isn't their a local amateur dramatics you could both go join instead of making an absolute tit of yourselves online? 🤔
Spoken like a true fan 👏🏼
 

Abbie T

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You full on doxxed him just know the police wont take kindly to this especially if they already on mel for harrasment your just giving tom more reason to get the police reinvolved with this whatever has happened you have no right to dox him knowing “mels army” could see that and harass him what a joke mel cries about these forums but quite clearly condones bullying and harassment i dont want to hear anymore word from her about this being harassment
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Please enlighten me on how I’ve shared private information about Tom? He’s just repeated on here what he said to me 17 months ago…