I think food and alcohol is her only love and company, but consumed in large quantities, it’s never a great outcome. I think this weekend really highlighted to us how unhappy she is deep down. Fine staying one night over at family’s home but then adding on extra unplanned days speaks volumes. It really shows she’s got nothing to rush back home to. I don’t think Sedat has even missed her, he’s probably loving life having the house to himself and dreading her coming back
Sevda.Ela @sevda.ela
SPOT ON.
One of her biggest mistakes was taking on tik tok full time and giving up her job. She’s turned into a totally unlikeable person, smug, selfish and just generally in her own little world with no clue about what’s going on in the outside world. God knows what conversations she has with Kuki and Tom. K&T are intelligent and I can imagine they talk to each other about politics (like she did in her video the other day), education etc and just general every day issues and topics. I can’t imagine Seagull having that level of intelligence to hold a conversation like that. Anyway she’s still young and eventually will have to go back out in the real world to a job. She will find it difficult
I’m not body shaming, but the sister’s outfit today is horrible, I don’t think it would look good on anyone.
I bet Sevda takes control of the food situation at Kuki’s because she is obsessed with her own “cooking” and doesn’t want to have to eat Kuki’s meals. Heaven forbid Kuki hands her that granola (?) and dried fruit breakfast bowl 
I think Sevda always outstays her welcome and she will NOT consider that Kuki, Tom and their two girls may not have had ‘set’ plans but would have done stuff as a family spontaneously over the last few days. She just thinks about herself and what SHE wants to do. Then you’ve got Kuki who has a very good, kind soul, who probably picks up on Sevda’s neediness/sadness not wanting to just stay at home…and that kindness of Kuki takes over and she ends up saying “Sure, come over!” Kuki may even be concerned for her brother if there’s a miserable Sevda staying at home!
I don’t think Kuki is feeling well at all. She’s trying to perk up and put up a front.
Yes, I think you hit the nail on the head. We can all guess varied reasons why they genuinely have a sad marriage, but the one thing most people with intelligence can spot a mile off watching the way they interact with each other is…they do NOT have a healthy dynamic. You can see the ‘put on’ rehearsed replies and few comments made by Sedat are indeed…put on!
Very nice, thank you is all he says.
She is drunk in that eat with me and outstayed her welcome with no consideration for her SIL health or the plans they had as a family… why does she always have to make herself out to look good.. I made dinna, I cleaned up, I ordered the kids pizza - which by the way - we all know she will eat those last two pieces.. kids we’re probably going to eat them but she told them not too so she could have some.. if the host is going to bed in daylight hours - 
you have outstayed your welcome - be it health reasons or otherwise.. so rude to say she cleaned up but it might not look like it - suggesting that the house is a mess.. well Sevda at least it’s filled with love, pure relationships and genuine laughter and a home.. unlike your place. If it’s that messy do off back home to your care home
you have outstayed your welcome - be it health reasons or otherwise.. so rude to say she cleaned up but it might not look like it - suggesting that the house is a mess.. well Sevda at least it’s filled with love, pure relationships and genuine laughter and a home.. unlike your place. If it’s that messy do off back home to your care homeI’m literally laughing out loud
There’s something off with Mine. She has to pause and think of her words. She holds her hands oddly and don’t get me started on the sounds she makes. And her conversation would put an insomniac to sleep!Oh, this has made me laugh out loud! Waste disposal!
I’m willing to bet that Begda tried to get people to come over to her house for play dates (drink dates for her), hang out in the hot tub, etc…but none of her usual suspects were available. So back she went to Kuki’s so Ela could be entertained for free and Begda didn’t have to shell out money for activities like Gravity, movie theater, arts/crafts places, etc.
Seems like developmental delays run in the family…
It’s just sad all around. You guys are right saying she’s clearly missing something at home. She’s probably hating that sedat isn’t more like his sister in the way that he talks, acts and behaves. Kuki clearly worked hard to better herself through her own education, getting a nice house and having intelligent kids, yet sedat can barely string 2 sentences together, hasn’t furthered his career, is a smoker and has no social life. But you’re no better Begda, you couldn’t even handle your pharmacy job without complaining how tired you are despite thousands of other ppl doing the exact same and still managing to have energy to be a proper parent and cook proper meals. Give your head a shake. She’s prob gone to Kukis to see how much longer they’re able to afford their mortgage before she’s going to have to head back to an actual job.
She seemed really pissed off and passive aggressive that Kuki had gone to bed and she had made all that Burek and organised the kids dinner. I don’t believe for one second she only had the one g and t, which is why she couldn’t drive home, more like she had a few. Typical Beg, playing the victim and martyr as usual.
If she’s that unhappy with her situation she can do something about it, as she has a support network around her, unlike some women in unhappy home or life situations.
There is something definitely wrong with Sedation. One of her bbq videos from way back, they were sat outside and he was slumped over the table like an old man smoking a cigarette and hairy turtle looked like he was trying to interact with him unsuccessfully. All he seems to do is go to work, be waited on hand and foot, eat piles of food while hunched over the table and go to sleep. He clearly has something going on.
If she’s that unhappy with her situation she can do something about it, as she has a support network around her, unlike some women in unhappy home or life situations.
There is something definitely wrong with Sedation. One of her bbq videos from way back, they were sat outside and he was slumped over the table like an old man smoking a cigarette and hairy turtle looked like he was trying to interact with him unsuccessfully. All he seems to do is go to work, be waited on hand and foot, eat piles of food while hunched over the table and go to sleep. He clearly has something going on.
Go home Begda, you’ve outstayed your welcome and take a hint.
Omg Sevda’s witchy cackle towards the end of Kuki’s day in the life video (when Tom was on the trampoline). Her worst cackle yet - went right through me 