Kuki may be a little eccentric and crazy, but she certainly knows how to spend quality time with her girls (even if the older daughter is going through typical teenage times). You can tell she loves & takes an interest in Ela too when she sees her. In Turkey she was in the pool a lot to help Ela try to learn to swim and playing water games with her and Sasha for fun. Where was Sevda? We all know… on her phone or buying pastries and cakes. I feel so incredibly sorry for Ela in as far as she just does NOT have good parents who bring her on in life, who help her learn and mature at a rate a child should and who have zero interest in taking her anywhere for fun, adventure, experiences, etc, as well as all those things at home! Sevda just shoves her off to a 5 year old’s house or to Bobby, her neighbour’s son’s house. She thinks she’s doing something really fun for Ela, allowing her to go there. No Sevda, YOU are doing nothing. The parents of the 5 year old friend of Ela and Lisa, Bobby’s mum are providing some fun for Ela. YOU are doing NOTHING for Ela! If anything, YOU are enjoying her out of the house so you do NOT have to bother with her.
Ela even got excited the other day about going to a free Math’s lesson! She was probably just happy to get out of the house and going somewhere!! So sad.
Sevda, you should never have had a child.
And although you don’t want any more children and I think you know yourself you’re just not into being a responsible parent….
…I find myself relieved that although it’s sad you & Sedat are in a dysfunctional loveless, dull, void of a marriage….at least you no longer are intimate in a way that could produce a child! I’m actually glad there’s no chance of an accidental pregnancy. Those are harsh statements to make, but after seeing how you disregard Ela in so many ways as part of raising a child and making sure she’s educationally, mentally and physically getting all she needs to grow, mature, and socially engage well through to adulthood…..I’m astounded at such neglect on your part. You are NOT a responsible parent.
It was made by someone on Tattle showing a compilation of clips of Sevda not being able to speak English properly 
on the breakfast video ela said she misses Turkey but then went on to say missing playing in the pool with Sasha and Kuki that just says it all 
Speaking of Ewa and her swimming, did she ever finish those lessons a few weeks back? I would think if she had, Begda would let us all know how well she did. Just curious.
