It was actually heartbreaking to see a little girl so scared of being in her own kitchen
Dreadful. She is justifying it by being ‘mummy’s job’ - I get what she says about being at the pharmacy and was out all day, Ela missed her. But, being at home, having areas out of bounds is not good. I couldn’t imagine telling my kids when they were younger, to keep away when mummy fwiwming. Parents do have to go out to work, it’s life. It would be better her going out to a proper job. This isn’t it. There are things can be done around school hours, I did. I wasn’t lazing around doing easy videos for money. I have a spinal disability. I still work, in care. Just got to crack on. What exactly is she doing? To get another dog also, so that Ewa can have a puppy to cuddle, no!!!!! She will lose interest once it gets too big to pick up (roughly). I have been asked by my eldest son for years ‘can we get a dog’ I always said no. One because I have a bit of a phobia from childhood incident, 2 because we are not home enough to look after. Then I met my partner last year, he got a little dog, but we don’t live together- and he is able to take him out and about on his work. I absolutely love him, but he is a working dog breed, they are not toys. He needs lots of exercise, and he gets it, from my partner and his son. I get the cuddly bits, pet therapy, he eases my pain when sitting on my lap. So as I say, I’m not a dog person (cat person) but even I can see it would be wrong to get a dog just cos your kid demands it. The novelty will wear off. They are too tying. She hasn’t done research. There is a reason of the saying ‘dogs are for life, not just for Christmas’ because people don’t realise what they are getting into. This is what they are doing. They don’t take appropriate care of the dog they have got, they simple can’t get another. A dog will be loyal but it goes both ways, they need the respect as to their needs. As I say, this is coming from someone who doesn’t really know much about dogs, but I understand enough from my partners dog. Ela hasn’t been taught how to be around dogs as they haven’t researched enough. Sorry long post, hope sevda reads and thinks things through sensibly.