Stephanie Vavron @stephanievavron

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The difference here is you’re not making him sit in the house 24/7 you’re trying to improve his social skills. M doesn’t get the option of helping his except with his dad and at school. Away from her. I’m sure you’re both doing a grand job for your wee lad x
Thanks lovely. I often feel I should be doing more but I know he needs alot of chill time, he's 8, very very highly emotional. Crys at anything and everything. And it's not quiet 🙈 loud, high pitched. We tried the cinema a few times and he can do about half an hour then starts asking when it's home time constantly and gets really restless then loud. We go to a quiet cinema. We are not too far from her so these things are all options for her. She chooses not to try. It's sad for that boy. If she goes to Buchan Braes Dentist (I remember reading here she was going to go there?) Then surely she can take M to the loopty lous additional needs sessions they hold once a month?! Although the lovely HAHM takes her kids to them so she would have to say it with her chest there 😂
 

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The difference here is you’re not making him sit in the house 24/7 you’re trying to improve his social skills. M doesn’t get the option of helping his except with his dad and at school. Away from her. I’m sure you’re both doing a grand job for your wee lad x
At least your trying; that’s all you can do and I’m sure you do an amazing job🩷 she doesn’t bother her arse with him.
 

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Thanks lovely. I often feel I should be doing more but I know he needs alot of chill time, he's 8, very very highly emotional. Crys at anything and everything. And it's not quiet 🙈 loud, high pitched. We tried the cinema a few times and he can do about half an hour then starts asking when it's home time constantly and gets really restless then loud. We go to a quiet cinema. We are not too far from her so these things are all options for her. She chooses not to try. It's sad for that boy. If she goes to Buchan Braes Dentist (I remember reading here she was going to go there?) Then surely she can take M to the loopty lous additional needs sessions they hold once a month?! Although the lovely HAHM takes her kids to them so she would have to say it with her chest there 😂
My son is the same and needs a lot of time to decompress and chill even more so now he is in secondary school. He copes well at the cinema BUT only if it's something he is interested in. So it's often hard to find something him and his sister will both enjoy. Minions 4 was the last movie we went to see. He keeps school and home separate so it's often difficult for him to socialise with his very few school friends. He does sometimes after school go and meet up with one friend for an hour then comes home for his tea. There have been things we do as a family he doesn't enjoy the first time but we try them again and again because every day is different.
 

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Mrs don’t send me things I don’t want to see it I’m staying in my own lane yada yada 😂
Casper needs to get these up! Mrs staying in her own lane going after the drama and gossip! It’s nae secret we don’t like you vav ya t! And everyone that’s ever said it from profiles that are open get blocked 🤣🤣 away and boil yer head ya prick
 

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Wouldn't max be too loud to take to the cinema? I don't want to sound like I'm discriminating against anyone and I know he's as much right as anyone else to be there but to be honest I'd be pretty pissed off if id paid money to see a film and max was sat behind me screaming .
Cineworld in Aberdeen do ASN viewings. First and last Sunday of the month so be perfect for him . She's no excuse.
 

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See her morning video has gone down well with her huns 🤔 Incoming boosts to authenticate the 498.8k followers? She’ll have already bought the giant confetti popper to celebrate breaking the not authentic 500k. Tiktok and all platforms should be doing something about bots and fake accounts like Musk is doing with Twitter/X. Not just for spam etc but for accounts like hers
 
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I remember her taking him to Windford Farm and having to phone her mum for help cos he had a meltdown 😳 she’s taken him to the minky cocket hat place with Nana remember? But he was unwell there and nana spoon fed Steph her soup!!!
See that video she recorded of her being fed soup..it makes me want to lash my phone out the window. She can’t take him anywhere by herself and she won’t do it. She needs help or just won’t take him. It’s a disgrace
 

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See that video she recorded of her being fed soup..it makes me want to lash my phone out the window. She can’t take him anywhere by herself and she won’t do it. She needs help or just won’t take him. It’s a disgrace
What made that worse was both her and her nana thought it was good content to post. Can’t remember if mad Pam was also there, i think she as so that’s 3 adults not adulting. Including L that’s 4 generations of learned puerile behaviour. It was 5 generations at one point.
 
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What made that worse was both her and her nana thought it was good content to post. Can’t remember if mad Pam was also there, i think she as so that’s 3 adults not adulting. Including L that’s 4 generations of learned puerile behaviour. It was 5 generations at one point.
They’re all the same. Vile bastards. Her mum was there too. And she’s filming it. Posing as she’s talking. It was all for show cus it was receded. The t loves herself more then she loves her kids
 

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No need for her blow job type video with that pickle. And the faces she’s pulling. fing hell staff.. get a proper job. This “content” is se. Just like your tits. s.
I doubt she‘s given many BJs going by this and similar videos. She’s the vanilla pillow princess remember. Selfish in all parts of her life
 

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Exactly this, we all try from what I can see. Her though everything is so negative M can't do this, M won't like this and she doesn't give him a chance at all. It's so sad!!
It is so sad, there's lot my son struggles with but there is also even more he can do. They ALL have their strengths and that's what should be focused on and what they can't do helped with baby steps at a time. No matter how long it takes. The mums on here seem amazing and always put their kids first, not sure why she seems to think she's so high and mighty when she really could take a leaf out of everyone here's books.
 

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My son is the same and needs a lot of time to decompress and chill even more so now he is in secondary school. He copes well at the cinema BUT only if it's something he is interested in. So it's often hard to find something him and his sister will both enjoy. Minions 4 was the last movie we went to see. He keeps school and home separate so it's often difficult for him to socialise with his very few school friends. He does sometimes after school go and meet up with one friend for an hour then comes home for his tea. There have been things we do as a family he doesn't enjoy the first time but we try them again and again because every day is different.
It was minions 4 we went to. He was so excited to go! My one keeps them separate too, once we are out the gate it's done, there's no talking to him about it. It's "i can't remember" Can I ask, did he make friends in secondary or are they from primary school? My son talks to kids in his class but has no friends 😭 we tried are few times with play dates at soft play but he just wonders off and ignores them. I think it's the separation thing. Can't have them here at the house as he doesn't cope with others touching his things and is VERY bossy when playing. It's got to be his games his way or he crys. We are working on it and so are the school but I'd love to know if there might be hope for secondary. Sounds like you are doing amazing to meet your sons needs 🥰