Stephanie Vavron @stephanievavron

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This is what made my spidey senses go when I looked at their video but what does Barrhead have to do with it πŸ€” I have said to a couple of the girls about suspect people who just came in
Just when I saw them following Aimee too .lexilou comments on her thread too . @lexilou does this make sense to you ?
 

Aitkens Rowie

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This is what made my spidey senses go when I looked at their video but what does Barrhead have to do with it πŸ€” I have said to a couple of the girls about suspect people who just came in
Thing is there can be any amount of lurkers, not all nasty people looking to suck up Vavs arse. Most are likely here just to read, I was one myself until I took the plunge and commented. but we know Vav herself reads here and Tattle
 

cntybawz

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It was minions 4 we went to. He was so excited to go! My one keeps them separate too, once we are out the gate it's done, there's no talking to him about it. It's "i can't remember" Can I ask, did he make friends in secondary or are they from primary school? My son talks to kids in his class but has no friends 😭 we tried are few times with play dates at soft play but he just wonders off and ignores them. I think it's the separation thing. Can't have them here at the house as he doesn't cope with others touching his things and is VERY bossy when playing. It's got to be his games his way or he crys. We are working on it and so are the school but I'd love to know if there might be hope for secondary. Sounds like you are doing amazing to meet your sons needs πŸ₯°

He's had the same friends since primary. But they have been on and off over the years. It is very rare he spends time with them out of school too and if so it is only for an hour at a time.
I find asking any questions later after tea rather than straight after school I get more information out of him regarding school, seems to work okay for us. The school emails parents when children receive merits and demerits. I asked one day what he got a merit for and his answer was "doing nothing" πŸ˜‚ so I contacted the school. All the kids in his class were mucking about and carrying on except him so he gained a merit for being respectful. Technically he wasn't lying when he said he got it for "doing nothing".
It can be so hard for them to maintain friendships and I know for us parents it can be such a worry and quite sad thinking they have no friends. But if they are happy in their own little worlds that's all that matters. He speaks to kids in his class so maybe that is enough for him socially. As I've gotten older I've realised I'm not really a people person. The whole masking and being sociable and putting on a front is actually quite tiring and draining. I find it easier to type to people than actually talk. Unfortunately with my work I do have to talk on the phone and after a shift I'm mentally drained sometimes. My daughter is the exact same very bossy and games have to be played her way. I'm sure over time it will get easier. Just keep trying and with consistency hopefully his social skills do improve and if they don't but he is happy that's all that matters ❀️ we're not failing our kids and their needs so long as we keep trying for them.
 

VAV_THE_DRAB

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Wish it was as calm as they were in they pics🫠 but they loved it, we’re literally just in the doorπŸ’™always out doing something with them. Hope you have a great weekend lovely xxxx

Bless you ❀️❀️ boys are feral sometimes 🀣πŸ₯΄ I know mines can be. So glad they had the best time my love. Thank you we sure are the weekends just go so fast tho xx
 
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I suggest reading any of @easilyannoyed114 posts to help show you how to let it all out. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

I agree I love @easilyannoyed114 posts as they are written with such gusto πŸ˜‚ infact they say and write exactly what I am thinking but manage to convey it in writing with a lot of passion for our mutual hatred of Beefy and Shameless πŸ˜‚