mjbyrnex - Mel

Garlicdep

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Her middle brother was hurting and her exposing everything was hurting him more, why can’t she see that she’s played a massive role in fing up their relationship?

I agree with most of the points he made about her, actually they are facts. Truth hurts.

I don’t think she should have done that video, just leave him alone because now he’s getting slated in the comments. She wouldn’t like it.
 
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Of course he's getting slated in the comments. That's why she posted it.
She needs her clingons to validate her upset.
Any true friend would be telling her to stop now. She's said what she wanted to over the course of a year so why does she need to carry on?
She's provoking him and she will revel in anything that he throws back at her.
The more I see, the more alarmed I get about her behaviour.
It's psychotic.
 
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Probably why they've not re-wallpapered. Not much point if half a lasagne's going to be lobbed at it 😳
Poor joking aside, I bet throwing plates is just the tip of the iceberg with Melvyn.
She's not this poor frail simpering little mess that she portrays herself to be.
She's a violent bully if she doesn't get her way.
I'm repeating myself but why has a young woman of that age only got one friend?
 
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Following on from Melvyn only having one friend..

Why doesn't Dopey Andrew go out with his friends? When was the last time Melvyn said "blah blah blah blah oh and Andrew's out having a pint with his friends tonight"..

She's got him on a leash. She'll no doubt retort saying that he can go out whenever he wants but I bet he daren't because the inevitable inquisition won't be worth a couple of pints.

It's very coercive.
 

CalmDownSid

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I've just watched Melvyn's video about her middle brother and it's very hard to disagree with his messages that she reads out. I nodded in agreement at every single one of them. He's bang right.
Sid is a bully, what she's doing online is bullying. She controls her husband on a tight leash, mocks & patronises him & she bullies her estranged family. I think she's only friends with the girl from uni that she's still mates with because she slept with her & fell in love with her at uni. She keeps calling her her platonic soul mate, it's deffo more than that. I think the relationship with shag bandit is a front, always have. If her mate Abbie wanted Mel like Mel wants Abbie Mel's life would be very different. I thought it was just me until someone else said about her gay vibes the other day.
 
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I didn't think I'll end up doing this but this is the only way to get though to Melissa.

I have tried to message you on tiktok on a account I made myself with our last name as I don't do hiding behind fake accounts.

I messaged her on Whatsapp and she messaged me back but deleted it.

I have left a voice note because someone on here or someone who has some vendetta on Melissa has reported her to the police and made stupid allegations and quite frankly they should be ashamed themselves as it's not a game it's their kids life's and I wouldn't dare do this as its immoral.

That's why I am here to ask for peace on this towards my sister.

You all have your opinions thats true but you don't understand how damaging for all parties.

My name has been plastered all over this forum which is bang out of order.
I had to block every single social Media account to protect my family.

Am guessing all this drama is lightning up your day but seriously some of you need to look in the mirror.

I don't understand these forums it doesn't make sense.

So finally this directly aimed at Melissa.

You can talk about yourself and your traumas but like I said the other night you don't have the right to talk about my traumas that was the only issue I had but now you have deleted the video I thank you. But the damage has already been done. I had workmates asking about me due to the attention your tiktok got. Like I said before to you on Whatsapp that how YOU cope with things and that's talking about it but some of my best friends didn't even know this happened. You know I only told my fiance and people I love. Yet thousands of strangers now know.

I don't care if you speak about me in future because I stand by why I said as I believe it's the truth.
 
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katemck

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I really don’t understand the point of this series as it’s just a rehash of everything she’s told us already but I really really don’t understand why she’s would do one on her middle brother. She’s insinuated it was him who made that complaint about her and she’s said before he’s gone to the police about her TT - she’s just asking for trouble??! Obviously she named the series things her family did so she had to include him but why even do it! She’s asking for trouble and at the end of the day the kids will suffer - the police talking to the kids should have been a line in the sand for her irrespective of what they think about her TT (as she’s said they are supportive blah blah). She’s the adult and she should have realised she’s caused this and whether it’s right or wrong about her being silenced etc she’s got to do what’s right for the kids. She’s looking for trouble - which will create drama for her TT and she has no consideration of the impact it could have on those around her - her middle brother is going to be raging. She also said after that police visit she was going to change how she approaches her content so I thought maybe she had had a rethink but no she’s decided let’s get even more targeted - it’s madness. Andrew needs to grow a pair - it’s not about whether a victim should be able to have their voice (which I agree they should, just not sure if Mel is as much of a victim as she makes out) when innocent kids are being dragged into it. Being an adult / parent / step parent means doing what is in the best interest of your kids even if it’s not right for you. Mel having her voice is important if she is a victim but at what cost? Is it worth it when your step kids get questioned about whether anything inappropriate happened with her which will have an impact at some point - esp if this keeps happening. I just don’t understand it.
 

katemck

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Can you see the video?
Yes! And tbh I totally agree with your post & im sorry for any distress any posts of mine may have caused you - I don’t think it’s right for Mel to speak about your experiences for what it’s worth. I’d be devastated if someone shared my personal experiences on their social media platform
 

NotBuyingIt

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What confuses me is when she does these POV videos reenacting scenarios with her mother she keeps on saying ‘mum’ this and mum that. As someone with an extremely narcissistic mother I’ve always struggled to call my mum ‘mum’ as weird as that sounds. She was a very cold distant person so it never felt right or comfortable to do that. So yeah really not buying it. Maybe it’s to make clear her videos are about ‘narc mother abuse’ to get more followers? Either way just no…..
 

icallBS

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I didn't think I'll end up doing this but this is the only way to get though to Melissa.

I have tried to message you on tiktok on a account I made myself with our last name as I don't do hiding behind fake accounts.

I messaged her on Whatsapp and she messaged me back but deleted it.

I have left a voice note because someone on here or someone who has some vendetta on Melissa has reported her to the police and made stupid allegations and quite frankly they should be ashamed themselves as it's not a game it's their kids life's and I wouldn't dare do this as its immoral.

That's why I am here to ask for peace on this towards my sister.

You all have your opinions thats true but you don't understand how damaging for all parties.

My name has been plastered all over this forum which is bang out of order.
I had to block every single social Media account to protect my family.

Am guessing all this drama is lightning up your day but seriously some of you need to look in the mirror.

I don't understand these forums it doesn't make sense.

So finally this directly aimed at Melissa.

You can talk about yourself and your traumas but like I said the other night you don't have the right to talk about my traumas that was the only issue I had but now you have deleted the video I thank you. But the damage has already been done. I had workmates asking about me due to the attention your tiktok got. Like I said before to you on Whatsapp that how YOU cope with things and that's talking about it but some of my best friends didn't even know this happened. You know I only told my fiance and people I love. Yet thousands of strangers now know.

I don't care if you speak about me in future because I stand by why I said as I believe it's the truth.
Don’t understand how you can come on here and say you don’t understand these forums etc .. your sister keeps indirectly sending her followers here .. she loves it . Your sister has massive issues and we all collectively believe she needs help .
I first came across your sister when I was searching about narc mums cus of personal issues .. I enjoyed listening to her till she repeated herself , things didn’t make sense and then bam a video with her panicking and found this forum ..
 
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I didn't think I'll end up doing this but this is the only way to get though to Melissa.

I have tried to message you on tiktok on a account I made myself with our last name as I don't do hiding behind fake accounts.

I messaged her on Whatsapp and she messaged me back but deleted it.

I have left a voice note because someone on here or someone who has some vendetta on Melissa has reported her to the police and made stupid allegations and quite frankly they should be ashamed themselves as it's not a game it's their kids life's and I wouldn't dare do this as its immoral.

That's why I am here to ask for peace on this towards my sister.

You all have your opinions thats true but you don't understand how damaging for all parties.

My name has been plastered all over this forum which is bang out of order.
I had to block every single social Media account to protect my family.

Am guessing all this drama is lightning up your day but seriously some of you need to look in the mirror.

I don't understand these forums it doesn't make sense.

So finally this directly aimed at Melissa.

You can talk about yourself and your traumas but like I said the other night you don't have the right to talk about my traumas that was the only issue I had but now you have deleted the video I thank you. But the damage has already been done. I had workmates asking about me due to the attention your tiktok got. Like I said before to you on Whatsapp that how YOU cope with things and that's talking about it but some of my best friends didn't even know this happened. You know I only told my fiance and people I love. Yet thousands of strangers now know.

I don't care if you speak about me in future because I stand by why I said as I believe it's the truth.
The only people who hold social media huns to account is their critics on forums like this. People like your sister influence vulnerable people & use them & it's fcuking wrong. All she's really interested in is becoming Tik Tok famous. She's thrown you & your entire family under the bus. I for one think its fcuking psychotic what she's doing. I don't have to justify my reasons for calling her out, she's a nasty piece of work & I think she deserves all the criticism she gets.
Asking for peace towards your sister is a bit rich. That's like pulling a grenade pin, lobbing it, and asking for peace!
This page is a reaction to your sister's behaviour. She speaks fcuking awfully about you & your kids hence why many on here have stood up for you. Mel's a tw@t. You or I have no idea who reported Mel to the police, why do you assume it's someone on here? it could be other other people in your family who she's p1ssed off, it could be her ex friends? It could be Mel herself to distract from the step son story, it could be so many people! After all the sh1tty things Mel's said about you & your kids it could be you & your here trying to point the finger at us instead. Owts possible. Your definitely in the wrong place if you wanna support Mel though! You must know she's a conniving b1tch who deliberately seeks out drama. All you've done is put money in her pocket by posting in here.