I don’t think Sedat is capable mentally to even know where to begin looking into getting physio or a knee support. He’s also extremely limited in his English. In various past videos, Sevda or her Dad take him into the shops where he needs to sort something out by returning something or getting something looked at, like his XBox once with Sevda’s dad. Sevda also once had to go along with him to the dentist in Turkey and another time, even Sedat’s elderly father went with Sedat for his (Sedat’s) dentist appointment. I think they go with him to do the talking part at reception because even though Sedat can speak Turkish fine, I don’t think he’s mentally always able to deal with lots of questions that may be complicated, etc.
Overall, you can sense Sedat has some kind of learning difficulties as he never says more than a few basic sentences the very most….. even when Sevda talks to him ….she talks in extremely basic sentences, even in Turkish (one of my lovely staff colleagues is Turkish and she confirmed this!). It’s like she’s talking to a 10 year old.
I’m not knocking the fact Sedat has mental issues. I’m just answering why I think he’s not researching into getting himself seen by a physio, etc.
This is where I’m appalled at Sevda! Maybe Sedat can help in part - actually try and talk himself to the relevant people…but Sevda should at the very least make the enquiries about who to contact and perhaps sit with Sedat when he finally has the right person on the phone to speak to. I honestly think Sevda cannot be bothered to help. I think she knows it will require effort for even her to sort things…so her selfishness stops her doing it.
I’m hoping Sedat’s sister, when visiting this weekend, will get onto helping Sedat with his knee injury …unless Sevda lies and pretends somehow nothing can be done or the exercises online that he was given are enough. Poor guy, may even have trouble getting these exercises up online everyday and he doesn’t want to ask Sevda for help. I expect Sedat tries to stay well out of Sevda’s way, especially since his accident. He doesn’t want her shouting at him…and we’ve all seen her do that! (the video where Sevda thought he was taking Kuki’s drink away from her AND when Kuki accidentally recorded Sevda talking about her (Sevda’s) drop in money and was shouting at Sedat something about he needed to give her more money).
What an absolute shambles of a family life. And I’m sure Ela has heard many times Sevda shouting at Sedat or moaning at him.