Sorry to hear all thatCancer took my dad out in the end at 57 ( alcohol , whisky most days ) So , you have my upmost sympathy . Mum passed a month after him with an undiagnosed disorder . Keep yer chin up I stopped alcohol 3 yrs ago . Your dad , has to take the steps to own it , but my dad would never have gone to AA / sought help !
My mums still battling the drink demon. There’s a human in there some days though.