I was the same, I showered myself, washed myself at the basin the first few days. I had a puppy at the time so you could imagine, all she needs to do is take herself down to that level, on her knees
and clean it up. I had all my kids at home too but it was the holidays. The older ones helped, near the middle of the first week I took them out, I didnāt drive though, my OF did. There is absolutely no need for her to not be moving. I even took myself out the house myself for a walk to get my nails done