Stephanie Vavron @stephanievavron

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Sorry Steph you’re back to -4,826.
I gave you credit because I agree it’s not your responsibility to regulate other people’s emotions and limit your life for the sake of others.

However, after my good troll friends pointed out, you could have just not responded at all. Yes she put herself out there on your comments but could easily have gone unnoticed.
Plenty others you don’t respond to.

I’ve seen the light. I must have woke up in a friendlier mood today 😂

Thank god you have seen the light I was thinking I was needing to call you and be like eh you ok HUN🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Let you off bubs 😝❤️🥰
 
May 24, 2024
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When I pop off and am no longer in this world.if I have spread the word about PIP/DLA, and have educated ( nod to vav there😉) at least one parent about the claims criteria for these benefits. Then my job is done.
You are 100% correct that a diagnosis is not needed to claim. A claim is successful when the form has been filled in. And the information is clear and well set out. The decision maker might not know anything about the diagnosis a claimant may have. They do not necessarily have any medical background.so don’t ever assume that these people have knowledge about medical conditions. Saying your child ( adults too) has cerebral palsy/asd/Down syndrome etc means nothing to someone without medical training. It is not down to the assessor to research those conditions to determine what help they may need. That is not their job. Their job is to allocate points for certain activities ,and they have only the information in the form to go by.
This is why the successful application is one where the form has been filled out in great detail, outlining ALL the help needed and for how long ( minutes in the day) and how often the help and assistance is needed.and for a claim for a child,how much more help the child needs in comparison to children of the same age, who have no difficulties.
And help is not just physical.help can also mean how much encouragement and prompting the child needs to complete tasks.
Which needs a lot more information than a diagnosis alone can give.
If a child ,or adult is in need of DLA/PIP then they are entitled to make a claim.and it is not means tasted.claimants can work and claim .and should do so.it is there to help.and nobody should ever be put off claiming for whatever reason.
Another myth that needs to be knocked on the head is how the money is spent.
It is nobody’s business.it does not need to be accounted for. Nobody needs to justify what these benefits are spent on. No more than an earned wage should be justified. Nobody’s business.
My last points in this rant are that the Scottish system that all disability benefits are migrating across to, is a much more dignified and humanised one. We are no longer dealing with the DWP, where everyone claiming seems to be treated as if they are trying to defraud the system.
Eg if you are terminally ill and claim PIP,the claim will be fast tracked ( with confirmation from doctors/ diagnosis) that the condition is terminal. As will a claim made to the Scottish system. The difference being that for PIP there must be an expectation that the claimants prognosis should be that they have a year left to live.
The Scottish system have removed that 12 month time scale.
Terminal in Scotland means that the claimant will not recover from their condition, and that they will probably die from their condition.but places no time limit on this. A lot more humane way to treat the terminally ill.
So if in doubt, claim.
If the form is too difficult to fill in ,get help.there are a few charities out there who will help with it.
Don’t wait for a diagnosis.it can be added into a claim at a later stage.
Disability benefits are a right. It’s not charity. And if it’s for a child, and they have a disability. Claim for what they are entitled to. For them. they can’t do it for themselves.
Apologies again for this long rant. It is my mission to make sure parents/children get what they are entitled to.
This is so so helpful. 🫶🏼🫶🏼

I was rejected my first DLA application because although it was the worst of my time, I was too busy being a martyr and independent that they seen me as capable, despite the fact I really really wasnt.
Second time round I answered the form as honest as I could about my condition and how it affects me, and it was successful. Same diagnosis, second time round less harsh experience but instead I described how bad my days actually were.
Like you say, I just thought they would realise how serious it was first time on their own.
 
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Just having my morning slurp/chew

Yeah I'm 50/50 I think it's true you can't pander to everyone on tiktok

But coming from Vav you can just hear the attitude & venom behind every word ( maybe because we know who and what she's all about...herself)
I defo heard the undertone, you could tell she was biting back what she really wanted to say
 

Missy

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Here we go , start to the the day . The empathetic wee clap back .... Triggered .
She could learn makaton and communicate with her son. She can’t be arsed and thinks he should talk 🙄
Well he can’t at the moment so how about you step into his world like other mums do?
She finds time to sell crap on TT so surely she can find time to learn one makaton sign a week????
 

Dishthedirt

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To be honest I think the original comment is silly.
Does this person go up to every one in the street walking with a grandparent asking them to not come out in public with them because some people can’t?

She could have just ignored it rather than use it for content.
Or not posted it herself to use ? Her comments have been dire on all her posts till this clap back as usual and bang on time to build up to her sell sell sell live !!!
 
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what are those jogger they looks like a big nappy and her legs are massive in them she is definitely losing anything off thoses legs she has no knees they are just solid and the white joggers so absolutely nothing for her does she never look on that mirror and thing that looks fing awful.
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When you have Lipodaema I don’t think losing weight actually loses fat from the affected areas so unfortunately for old Lipo Legs the balloon or jabs won’t work. She looks like a junkie up top and still the size of an Aberdeen Angus on the bottom
 
May 24, 2024
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Or not posted it herself to use ? Her comments have been dire on all her posts till this clap back as usual and bang on time to build up to her sell sell sell live !!!
Well that would be fed up.
I just got a look at the profile, followers and following are weird and random AF.

I shouldn’t watch her before I’ve had coffee, not me thinking this was a genuine person commenting 😤
 
Nov 6, 2024
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One and only time I will hand it to her. She answered that well, and even took a wee bit recognition for her own judgment in the past.

She can’t not post absolutely everything because some people feel a type of way about it, especially family members, Jesus.

That’s all you’re getting fae me doll 😂😂

I still think you’re a raging sociopathic fo.

Happy Wednesday all ❤️

I agree with you 🥰 but she’s still a t 😆

Steph, Max may not be able to verbalise but he definitely tries to communicate with you, but you just ignore the signs because you’re too busy looking at yourself
 

Dantheman07

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This is so so helpful. 🫶🏼🫶🏼

I was rejected my first DLA application because although it was the worst of my time, I was too busy being a martyr and independent that they seen me as capable, despite the fact I really really wasnt.
Second time round I answered the form as honest as I could about my condition and how it affects me, and it was successful. Same diagnosis, second time round less harsh experience but instead I described how bad my days actually were.
Like you say, I just thought they would realise how serious it was first time on their own.

It's taken me 5 yrs to be recognised . Thank god they've changed it to SDP . Worked 36 years of my life .
 

medusalou

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This is so so helpful. 🫶🏼🫶🏼

I was rejected my first DLA application because although it was the worst of my time, I was too busy being a martyr and independent that they seen me as capable, despite the fact I really really wasnt.
Second time round I answered the form as honest as I could about my condition and how it affects me, and it was successful. Same diagnosis, second time round less harsh experience but instead I described how bad my days actually were.
Like you say, I just thought they would realise how serious it was first time on their own.
It’s a very difficult form to fill in .really designed to put people off I believe.
The other bit that’s important is that if the claim is refused first time round .you can ask for a mandatory reconsideration where they take another look at your claim.
If the claim is still refused then you can take it to a tribunal.and this is the point that it’s best to get local welfare rights involved.they will advocate on the claimants behalf and they do all the form filling from there on as it gets a bit legal and complicated.
Going to a tribunal sounds scary but it isn’t.the welfare rights officer can appear for on your behalf.but the chances of winning the appeal are very much higher when the claimant does appear, With the welfare rights officer as an advisor.
The process can take months and months but the date of claim is when the first application is made.and if the tribunal finds in the claimants favour, the money due is backdated to when the claim was first made. As the maximum award is approx £780 a month, if the process takes a year, the backdated payment can be huge. And interestingly back payments are usually ignored if the claimant is also on a Benefit where the savings rule applies.
Recieving a disability benefit for a child has the added knock on effect with other benefits. It means increases in most of them as premiums are added.
 
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See this t I can’t stand her. Her stupid whispering this morning.. her stressing over an event and lives😂😂😂😂 she just loves to cosplay a busy woman. What a pointless fing video. It’s all to show how she doesn’t sleep and how busy she is. Imagine being that desperate for attention off strangers though 😂😂😂 her lips in the video look weird like she has migration but she’s not had them done 😂🙈 she’s one ugly t. Can’t even watch her past a few seconds. State of her in that video with her nana.. who by the way looks like she’s as boring as do.. the bun is horrible. That white top needs to go in the bin.. and her fake behaviour she’s filming is just embarrassing. Can’t even watch her reply to that women’s comment. She replies to anyone that gives her attention. Sad t.