I know it is awful the way she is. I remember the videos of him learning to pour the milk on his cereal, using cutlery by himself on my fyp way before I stumbled upon here. Now everything about that poor boy gets written off so easily. He can't do this, he won't be able to do that. She is too interested in eye fing herself in that phone to be bothered to help him. Tries things once and if it isn't an instant result or success it's dismissed as quick as her ugly tracksuits were. Consistency is key. I live close to a Supported Accomodation unit and I see a girl, well woman now that use to attend the summer respite thing I volunteered at as a teenager. I wasn't sure she would remember me but she did and it just made my heart full of joy seeing her living as independently as she can now. She's got a better social life than me too that's for sure always going out and it's wonderful to see.
You are spot on with what you have said
That made my heart happy you saying that the she recognised you how bloody wonderful is that. Xx