Stephanie Vavron @stephanievavron

Bartokthecgreat said:

My dad would have loved my wee boy to play football, as he had two daughters. Sadly He couldn’t hate football more. He’s NT. Should I post a black and white video?

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You’re spot on. There would be lists of things for any family with or without additional needs that we wish they would like. Prime example is my hubby is a massive football fan, played when he was younger at a semi serious level… and we have 3 boys who couldn’t give 2 fs about football. ( but he did not force this on them like some dads maybe would) my brother had a season ticked for his son before he was even here for example )

The problem is her level of expectation and it’s little to do with additional needs.

ChefsKissLeo said:

This is the woman who punted a child with a brain tumour for views so she could show off her weight loss.

Who used songs such as all I want for Christmas knowing full well joules wouldn’t even see Xmas.

Who made the post after her death about her feelings and hugging her child under the Christmas tree.

Karma train is coming for her. Don’t worry.

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It can't come soon enough. She's really annoyed me tonight. Joules's parents don't need to see her greeting over her son who is alive and well. I canna stand her. She is vile!!

Monty said:

‘I wish my mum could just love me for who I am’

‘I wish my mum accepted me’

‘I wish my mum loved me enough to stop telling people negative things about me’

‘I wish my mum could see me’

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“I wish my mum used her money to pay someone help my additional needs“

“ I wish my mum paid someone to do activities with me that she is ashamed to do”

“I wish my mum paid someone to spend time with me learning to communicate“

“I wish my mum paid someone to have patience to help me toilet train”

”I wish my mum would stop spending thousands on her own needs“

“I wish my mum would stop boasting about TikTok earnings when she spends feck all helping me“

“I wish I could stay with my dad full time and closer to Grandma and Grandad Vavron”

ky181244 said:

Fuk me the spelling and someone pointed out it’s an Ad - things not going too well today for her and her bank account eh

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Leave my Steph alone, aye ok hen. Why are you seeing a page saying horrible things about her, why would you even read it

Aitkens Rowie said:

Leave my Steph alone, aye ok hen. Why are you seeing a page saying horrible things about her, why would you even read it

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They’re all just one condescending comment away from joining us anyway.

Monty said:

Wonder if Max is wishing his mum was different like his mum wishes her son was different…

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Poor wee scones probably wishing he had a mummy like his school teacher.

ChefsKissLeo said:

You’re spot on. There would be lists of things for any family with or without additional needs that we wish they would like. Prime example is my hubby is a massive football fan, played when he was younger at a semi serious level… and we have 3 boys who couldn’t give 2 fs about football. ( but he did not force this on them like some dads maybe would) my brother had a season ticked for his son before he was even here for example )

The problem is her level of expectation and it’s little to do with additional needs.

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Her dad probably had higher expectations of her, dya thinks he's greeting about being in Holland because his daughters an evil t?

People might look at me and wish they had that bond with their child?

What bond? The one where he’s pushing you away or telling you to stop singing and shouting in his face using gestures.

He IS talking to you in HIS way but you only want to hear words. YOU are the one who can’t communicate with him.

Monty said:

Wonder if Max is wishing his mum was different like his mum wishes her son was different…

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This !!!

ChefsKissLeo said:

I wish my mum would read aloud to me rather than expecting me to sit on her knee for her benefit

I wish my mum would learn to communicate with me effectively

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Don’t !! I actually have tears in my eyes

I doubt any of us are shocked she is ashamed of max, we’ve seen and known how disappointed she is that she didn’t get the gold boy prize, in her eyes.
What vav fails to notice, M is a gold star prize, because he’s alive and with her, she lives this perfect insta life in her head, and she wanted a big son who was sporty etc, she’s written him off, and the older he gets his autism and Cerebal palsy is harder to hide, and she is embarrassed of him, personally I think he shouldn’t live with her, he needs someone who will realise his potential and help him flourish the best way he can, he will never be given the opportunity to try anything because it’s too much like hard work, and she’d have to sacrifice her TikTok time.
Vav give him to petyr, he blossoms when he’s with his dad.

vavisavag said:

Don’t !! I actually have tears in my eyes

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I've cried a few times tonight it's been quite emotional and big up to all you mums and what you do for your kids

Come to think of it she only took Petr to Disneyland because she knows deep down he’s the better parent.

And clearly jealous of Sharon’s co parenting relationship.

I’ve just had a row for having a 6 minute rant about beefy to the husband

ChefsKissLeo said:

I’ve just had a row for having a 6 minute rant about beefy to the husband

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I think that’s standard and leads to “her name is banned in this house and car“

fashionma said:

Maybe that’s why Danielle has done I mean she used to travel down to Edinburgh but hasn’t been to her since she has moved back up here something has definitely happened

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She asked Danielle to block and stop engaging with her “trolls” (the ones that she can’t see cos they are blocked) that were commenting and supporting Danielle on her TTs Danielle refused this and end the friendship, she also wanted to distance herself from Steph anyway.

Karma works in mysterious ways beefy! You can do all the self care you like but you already look like you're Iggy's age!

Oh and let's not make out you'd actually take that little boy football!!
Early mornings in all weathers . Traveling different places.
Stepping outside your front door.
Getting out of the car. But the biggest stumbling block for you would be, you'd actually have to get on with the other parents 🫤

I got thinking about the part where she said other mums must look at the bond she has with her son wishing they had the same. Sorry what? No mums are looking at her wishing their sons clung to them at the school drop off neither do they want their sons sleeping with them. Most mums want their ASN children to be as dependent as possible, they want them to enjoy school and sleep in their own beds. She hasn’t thought this bed situation through has she? What happens when a man comes on the scene, kicked into his own again like the Rylan episode? If none appear what about as he gets older, she really needs to get this sorted now, it’s about Ms needs not hers. I don’t believe he sleeps with his dad

here for their downfall said:

Karma works in mysterious ways beefy! You can do all the self care you like but you already look like you're Iggy's age!

Oh and let's not make out you'd actually take that little boy football!!
Early mornings in all weathers . Traveling different places.
Stepping outside your front door.
Getting out of the car. But the biggest stumbling block for you would be, you'd actually have to get on with the other parents 🫤

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What’s she on anyway. She ONLY does self care. do everyone else

She needs to just be thankful he is alive, after all didn’t get seriously ill when he was born?
The thankful after all that he went through to survive he CAN DO all that he does.

fing just grow the do up Stephanie.