Exactly!
Being an adult and a parent can be bloody hard work and some chores are a pain in the ass at times but you do it because you want to give your children the very best.
Today my eldest is back at high school whilst the other two still have a week off and we played in the garden and then baked a cake for when the eldest got home from school. It a gorgeous cake but one slice after tea is enough!
I don’t get all this overspending on se for herself she does either. I can’t spend money on myself as feel the mum guilt each time and much rather spend on my kids than myself. Even my birthday or Christmas money goes on the kids!
She isn’t giving H anything when she grows up except diabetes and heart disease at this rate.
The amount of fat and sugar she lets H consume is madness.
She would save so much money too meal prepping and H is at the age now where she can help make the meal too - my kids love helping me out. My youngest is almost 10 and makes a mean lasagna
(I help with the oven and hob) but she is very good at chopping the veg and loves seeing her creations at the end!