Sorry for length and feel free to ignore 🩵we all know what she was implying
Admittedly, I wasn’t here for the fall out or the live - I’m catching up now but I want to put my Angie hat on (ew it’s gross) and play devil’s advocate. I have thick skin for a lot of things and thin skin for some others - triggers if you like. You’re great for being able to joke about yourself etc but I think Zia’s Badge caught a bit of thin skin without intending to. Hear me out…
Please excuse me if I come across patronising but you have said before you sometimes need help with having things explained to you and I’m trying to throw a damp cloth on the fire.
Drama/chaos when it comes to your lives and to you personally, was probably your recent live regarding Tam, where you were very upset (discounting today ). So, when you read Zia’s Badge saying they preferred drama lives and kept you on follow for such etc, you likely heard she was waiting for “autistic meltdowns” (to use your words), because that’s the drama/chaos that happened most recently. Let me explain with another example. We love Ang’s drama lives but we don’t like it when she self harms. So us saying we follow Ang for the drama, isn’t that we’re waiting with baited breath to watch her hurt herself - that’s the most extreme of drama/chaos when it comes to her.
Does that make sense? I just wanted to try and show it from a different perspective. Badge is good peoples and doesn’t mince what they’re trying to say. If they had intended to offend you, they would have said as such. I honestly believe this was miscommunication.
I’m not talking about what’s happened since but just what kicked it all off.