ah ok, that poor person doesn't know what she's doing with his photos. full on revenge porn. paul you definitely need to go to the police though.
she is choosing to view this forum, she isnt being contacted by you directly, shes messaging your family and now shes blackmailing you with all your other private information. this is harassment and blackmail. we all have witnessed this before as shes harassed people and blackmailed people previously and shes got done for it. Dont let her get away with it. Be the person who finally brings her down. Do it for the team. (and yourself
), no on a serious note, you seem like a lovely man and I don't want you to go through what others have.