Bore of ya silly t, first your Lou’s Mum now you’re talking like you’re a family member
Typing is very familiar……. Maybe this is why your kid can’t count to ten
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Typing is very familiar……. Maybe this is why your kid can’t count to ten
with all due respect you know nothing about people lives off here and what position they are in.
you contradict yourself a bit
her dads nearly 70 yet has the kids 2 days a week!
that leaves 5 days a week for them to maybe do something to help,Lou, (have her round for dinner or go to hers and help her a bit!)
the only help we see is them taking her to Asda once in a blue moon.
once stes out of the picture the real intervention will happen!!! Jog on will ya,
ste was in prison when she had Alfie so where was the intervention for Lou to get clean and help,Alfie then!!!
Bert parents can’t be that set against Ste since they bought him a fecking Xbox!
There are plenty of people here that DO have addicts in their family, whether that be son/daughter, brother/sister, aunt/uncle etc. They know what it's like to live through that experience so don't come in here acting like you're above us.
Maybe Marie should actually go round to Lou's house when she's posting suicide s online rather than just responding in the comment section on FB.
Do the kids need to stay with them 2 days a week? Is that more important than offering a room to your daughter if it meant you could offer her more support?
Her mum doesn't crucify herself at all. If she was, she would be round at Lou's a damn sight more and making her leave that hovel for something over than a bit of shoplifting and picking up her drugs.
They had the grandbairns for a year while Lou was in full addiction they had to put them first . They supervised her visitation.
They were Lou's worst enemy.
They were accused of stealing her children when all they were doing is keeping them from going into care.
It's a bad thing to choose between your daughter or two beautiful innocent children.
You slate Lou and rightly so for choosing Ste, well they had to choose, and they rightly or wrongly chose to protect the bairns.
They were Lou's worst enemy.
They were accused of stealing her children when all they were doing is keeping them from going into care.
It's a bad thing to choose between your daughter or two beautiful innocent children.
You slate Lou and rightly so for choosing Ste, well they had to choose, and they rightly or wrongly chose to protect the bairns.
Wait… I thought you were Lou’s mum? Weird to talk about oneself in the third person, no?
Lou needs the help now! What are they actively doing to help her right now???
i don’t care what they did back in the day..
she is so clearly struggling and they are no fing where
i don’t care what they did back in the day..
she is so clearly struggling and they are no fing where
That's about the only decent thing they have done
They live with their dad now though and have done for a while so again...why do they have to have them 2 days a week. Why don't they bother with Lou for the other 5 days a week. There is no excuse for it.
I am in no way saying it is her parent's fault that she is an addict but either admit that they have washed her hands of her (which they have the right to do) or do off with your bull s.
Exactly, real work start when ste gets banged up, should be helping now, should of helped when he was banged up b4 ,a trip to asda every now and then, what's that gonna do
They were court ordered two days a week
Maybe they should be doing more but they are physically and emotionally exhausted.also when they tried and begged her to come home she fought physically and verbally against them.
When they tried to help with showers and hot meals they were taken advantage of. They want her to at least try. When they thought there was progress they tried again. They were Nieve and gullible.
Many a time her mam cleaned various houses where Lou lived.
They just can't do it anymore. It was just enabling her.
So yes they let her go.
So yes they are crap.
Maybe they should be doing more but they are physically and emotionally exhausted.also when they tried and begged her to come home she fought physically and verbally against them.
When they tried to help with showers and hot meals they were taken advantage of. They want her to at least try. When they thought there was progress they tried again. They were Nieve and gullible.
Many a time her mam cleaned various houses where Lou lived.
They just can't do it anymore. It was just enabling her.
So yes they let her go.
So yes they are crap.
Who actually are you?
you aren’t her parents because of the way tyou are typing.
what have you done to help Lou seeing you seem to be close
you contradict yourself so much in the way you talk
Plot twist. It’s carol
I Wonder when she will reappear!!??
I'm going to go against the grain here and say I do actually feel for lous parents. They did used to be a lot more involved back in va day. We all know exactly what lous like. She lies constantly. She pretends to listen to advice and then just does what she wants anyway. I can imagine it has come to a point where her parents don't actually know how to help her anymore because nothing ever seems to work with lou. She's always been a lying beggy little manipulator. And I think its totally right that when it came down to it, they put the grandkids before lou. Because lou doesn't want to change. She just wants free money and gifts and drugs.
I have asked Lou to go to NA and said I will go with her. She's promised. So let's wait and see.
Everyone here never reveal themselves. So I don't feel safe to say who I am.
Everyone here never reveal themselves. So I don't feel safe to say who I am.
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