This.
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I think the change in her content can be placed to around about her giving up work. Her life is insular now, revolving around hauls and posting, (what she thinks) are sassy comebacks. I would see her on my FYP, but quickly took a dislike at the rate with which she buys things. It’s continuous. Her overdraft must be the size of the National debt. I have a really good job and so does Mr Bandit. We do ok, but I couldn’t warrant spending that much money and I don’t wish I could either. I love saving for things, because when I get it, I feel super pleased and I cherish it.
Her followers stating that people who dislike or disagree with her lifestyle because we are jealous really rile me. I thank my lucky stars every day for my family, my health, my lifestyle and I think that’s my biggest issue. Disagreeing is not the same as jealousy.
If she was to post that she’s saving for Christmas or saving for a holiday or saving for school uniform, it would start to send a proper message. Is she contributing to a pension, saving for H’s first car or Uni (cos that s’s expensive!!) What’s she teaching H about a work ethic or life in general? I know she doesn’t post her on Tik Tok but when I cooked, my daughter was with me learning. She was washing up, wiping the work tops, reading the recipe to me.
I dunno, I feel sad for H, I feel sad for the people aspiring to this and I feel sadder that it would seem us normal folk are a minority. Her life is not glamorous and I wish she’d stop making out like she’s some kind of celebrity. The comparison to Caroline Flack was distasteful. Kindness is a cycle. Be kind and you’ll find people are kind back.
Rant over…am hopping off my soap box to go to a full house reset (I’m going to clean my house!!) xx