I think our new member is wendy, with the user name and some of the things she has said. Maybe been frustrated at not being able to answer back to the comments on TL over the years and maybe some comments hit hard on a personal level, as - well the truth hurts! Why particularly focus on aimee being called a s? She is! Anyone that puts their own needs and desire to have a man before the safety and welfare of their child is quite frankly a slapper (does the cap fit wendy
). She is a single parent but she has more free time than most, so can safely date and sufficiently get to know a person before they are introduced and left alone with her child. The shack up after the divorce, D1 & D2 all introduced into a forced family situation far too quickly.
She had only known D1 a matter of weeks when she was on lives talking to the huns and D1 and H were in the other room with the door shut! A few weeks later and there is a new shag in aimless life being forced upon poor H! H's birthday - D2 will put that new TV up for you in your bedroom! Why is that OK? Why is H forced to get to know this conveyor belt of blokes and why is it appropriate she is left alone with these strangers and why is it OK for them to be in her private space?
There were pages on Tiktok that used pictures of H - that was wrong and it was called out on both here and on TL. Those pictures were publicly available posts put up on unlocked social media by her own mother though and nothing has been been done to rectify this as views and sympathy are more important than worrying about the impact on her child in the future!
Most people on both sites are parents or desperately want to be a parent so are calling out the terrible upbringing that child has, in the vain hope this toxic self centered mother actually listens and makes a change for the sake of her poor child!
Let's be honest H is no longer on TT's as aimee was forced into it due to the neglect, poor parenting and lack of safeguarding of the poor child. She posted videos of herself in her bedroom, desperately lonely asking for strangers on the internet to be her friend! Anything could have happened. When it was brought to aimees attention, she denied it and didn't do anything about it for days.
Her IG and FB are full of pictures of H half naked or in school uniform with the badge showing. Maybe she no longer goes to that infant school but it doesn't take a genius to work out what school she now goes to. Aimee has shown the outside of her house and even pointed out which is H room. Just this week has flashed her address online whilst opening packages. She also has an usual coloured car and has flashed the reg plate. All of this is very dangerous information and people on all platforms are begging her to protect her daughter!
The poor child is stuck in the house 24/7 with only school and the occasional trip to the shops to look forward to. She only started swimming lessons as aimee was shamed into it after the Portugal holiday. What was H's favourite thing about that holiday? The kids club so why isn't she out doing activities, groups and sports after school, weekends and holidays? Just like every other kid does! It's not like Aimee doesn't have the time of resources, she does, she just can't be arsed!
My final point and area of obvious neglect is H poor diet. A couple of pieces of broccoli on a Sunday, and steam bag of buttered veg mid week if she is lucky is not enough to sustain a growing child. Just look at the world book day photo on IG poor H looks gaunt, and frail and has dark circles under her eyes like I've never seen before on a child!
Aimee has all the time and resources to make a really happy healthy childhood for H but chooses not to. Are there pages and pages of people calling aimee out on her terrible parenting and the long term physical and mental damage she is doing to that child yes! And rightly so in my opinion. The whole family need to hang their heads in shame, protect that poor child and help turn things around before it's too late.
Being a good parent is not about never saying no to them or giving them everything they want, splashing money on them instead of care and attention!