We could all wear fancy dress. Come dressed as AimehI would LOVE that
Thissinglemama @thissinglemamaofficial
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Been scrolling to find your original post and just wanna send you a BIG WARM FUZZY HUG and I'm throwing a handful of Maltesers in your face to either piss you off or make you happy to be getting free chocolate !!!I've just probably given far too much away on my post just now!I know I'm guilty of over sharing...🫣
I think a few of us are similar type of people.
Thanks againxxx
I give no fs in real life or on here just wanted send you some love and if I was a real life friend I'd be over in a heartbeat with wine and nibbles and music to cheer you up 
FabWe could all wear fancy dress. Come dressed as Aimeh
quickest get ready fing EVER, just drag any old mismatched se out the wardrobe and hope for the fing best and as for the face, just squirt a tube of gold paint over yourself 97p from Hobbycraft and fing BINGO
There's me thinking "WTF DID HE DO WITH THE SEEDED BREAD"?????
Then the penny dropped 
thick f I am 
Then the penny dropped thick f I am Follow your gut instincts on this one , sending love xxThanks everyone for the love.
It still amazes me how people think we are horrible human beings and trolls.
Couldn't be further from the truth. This is evidence of that. Just because we have opinions and concerns that other can't see....yet, does not mean we are not nice people.
I know the answer about my partner really.. I think.... I just think it's 2 years of me hoping things would get better. Also I feel it's my last chance. I stayed 20 years too long in an abusive marriage. I didn't think I would even date again. You know us woman torment ourselves..looking at pics and videos and listening to our playlist. Thinking of every place we have been to.
I was saying to some of the girls at work, if I'm this upset..what does it mean... does it mean I'm mourning what could have been, or I still love him...
I've kept him at arms length for 2 months. (We live quite far apart) Actually one said at work..could u see yourself living with him...and I was like..no way. She said there's your answer.
He keeps messaging every few days.
The other day he said..how are you?
I replied... not sure how to answer that.
His reply...well I'm fed up...been 2 months not seeing each other...this can't go on.
I was fuming. (Still not taking ownership..playing the victim etc over why we are at this point)
I just sent back...I guess there's my answer..it can't go on!
He then came back with...I didn't mean it like that etc etc. I said something childish like....leave me alone and get back on the fing dating apps!
I then went looking at msges from 2 years ago. He was making the same promises and asking for another chance.
Not saying there hasn't been nice times. He's very affectionate. Unfortunately we don't match on a maturity level or intellectual level (certainly not emotional intelligence) and i feel that's important even if it makes me sound like a b.
I told him to go to the Dr's and get some advice and a referral to look into possible Autism + personality disorders. He eventually did....that's another story.. He forgets I know how things work regarding this stuff and can smell bs a mile off.
He doesn't like the fact I figure stuff out about him.
I don't know if to call it, give him more time to see if he is demonstrating that he's getting help/advice or what tbh
I'm nearly 48..and don't know what is the right thing to do...pathetic really! You know when you know too much and are aware that I'm probably trauma bonded and prob been took advantage of and my empathy and care taken as a weakness.
He has said some insensitive things to me about my past which has really hurt. I guess I've given lots of chances..over compensating..in case he is on the spectrum. I've prob been a mug tbh!
My daughter can't stand him. Says he is weird and can't understand why I haven't "binned it off" as they say.
It's not easy when feelings are involved is it...
Oh dear...I've wrote loads
Back to A!
Thanks for all your messages. Means alot given you don't know me from Adam!
Hope I haven't triggered or upset anyone with some of the content.
And why would she SEE IT?There's me thinking "WTF DID HE DO WITH THE SEEDED BREAD"?????
We all need a @pussycatchat in our lifes u can throw all the malteasers at me there my favourite 
Harper’s 9 maybe 10 i don’t know. Vavs kids are 15,and max is what 4,5 I can’t see them having much in common to spend a week together ngl
Found a new word that applies to her
...and if Aimees watching this thinking "sad fers have no life " I will just put it out there, my kids are mid to late teens, I've cleaned the house, I've cooked tea washed up and I cracked open a bottle an hour ago, asked the kids if they wanted watch a film but tryna get them to come off Snapchat and Fifa to spend time with their mum it's a no brainer, and hubbies working tonight so yes Aimee, I have a life and a clean home and a happy family unit I work nights sun-thur so Friday I enjoy a drink, too tired to do do all else on a Friday but I'm seeing friends tomorrow for drinks and nibbles, I don't drink every fing night like you do, so pipe the do down, nobody's fing "jealous" of your lonely lifestyle. I have work colleagues who I have a fing laugh with, and an overall busy life which consists of more than having my fing nails done and pissing about on Tesco and M&S EVERY fIND DAY!!!!
The sheer bags underneath Hs eyes on instagram, it baffles me how she can’t see it!
The eye bags, earlier I noticed her hands looked bruised, that ain’t normal!
My heart breaks whenever I see her
The eye bags, earlier I noticed her hands looked bruised, that ain’t normal!
My heart breaks whenever I see her
“I’m not that hungry so let me stuff my face with a load of garlic bread and a giant bowl of noodles before I cram that giant cucumber up my dirty vag”
We all need a @pussycatchat in our lifes u can throw all the malteasers at me there my favourite
There ya go honey 
just pretend they're small round balls 
just pretend they're small round balls
once she’s done using them she just cuts them up and feeds them to Harper Twist so no more embarrassing finds of sex toys, she can just tel her mummy was eating cucumbers in bedSo THATS why she goes through so much fing cucumber????????
Omg harpers dark eye bags on Scruffbags IG, Harper doesn’t look well, honestly heart breaking…. Get that little girl some nutrients and sea air - you selfish Narc
I think your absolutely brilliant & love your vibe and it would definitely be a fin brilliant night out with you allSorry guys, you know me by now,and spend f words and fery like glitter
but just read this outpouring of emotion and I'm sorry, I don't know the backstory but Jesus girl, you offloaded A HELL of a lot there and just wanted to pipe up and say GO WITH YOUR HEART
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