Delusive angie @delusive_angie10

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Well I have officially been discharged, I'm absolutely over the moon very rarely will anyone see me cry (I'm an ugly crier-proper ugly) but I'm so pleased I was wearing waterproof mascara because i was a complete mess, I was already given the all-clear in December but after today I can now get back to the person I used to be without having that uncertainty of it returning.

Apart from a couple of members on here I've kept my diagnosis to myself mainly because my way of dealing with things is by not dwelling on them plus I'm no good at receiving sympathy, I get by mainly by using humour and I'd much rather someone tell me to put my glad rags on because we are hitting the tiles than them sitting holding my hand crying -I really don't like people being sad.

I know tensions have been high on here lately but regardless of what's going on I just like to take this opportunity to say, I beg each and everyone of you to please get yourself checked especially if you're concerned about something, don't be a fool by putting it off because cancer doesn't wait around for anyone and it doesn't discriminate, I spent most of my life thinking I was invincible and it proved me wrong.

I'm one of the lucky ones and sadly a beautiful family member wasn't, we carry the brca gene. (i dont want to say which relative because i know how sick and cruel some people on the app can be) I don't want to ram my advice down people's throats all I'm asking is please don't take your life for granted because it's way too precious.

I don't want to scare people either because I was extremely fortunate to still be able do the things I enjoyed and i lived a relatively normal life even when i was undergoing treatment and numerous surgeries, I'm not saying it's easy by any means but there's so many people who don't attend their cancer screenings out of fear, has my life changed? Absolutely, but cancer didn't and doesn't define me, in fact it's made me stronger and even though I had a cracking pair of tits before my diagnosis, I have an incredible pair now. (○)(○)

Don't think you're invincible guys because trust me life has it's ways of humbling you.

Rant over you may now all get back to what you were doing.

Celebrations pending until the weekend and thank you to everyone for your lovely messages i appreciate them all. 🤎🤎🤎
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I'm so delighted for you Medusa 🥰🥰🥰 fantastic news ❤️

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Nolan 🎵

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I know I might be seen as a fence sitter, but I'll always show love to those who show me love , it's how friendships and kindness generally works. I don't understand all the blocking , if you're happy to sit here with people for months surely you'd be happy to inbox them and talk to them. I do miss some of them , and I hope if they're still reading here I don't get blocked because I genuinely try and see the good in everyone. ZFT will always have a part of my heart as she was one of the few who reached out when they heard what had happened with Mum , genuine , nice people who care for others go out of their way to look out for others. I tolerate a lot of people , but I have a good laugh with the majority and a few I will always go out of my way for , not because of favouritism but because they showed me kindness when the world wasn't. 💙
 
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This is absolutely wild to me, Because every single one of us in here including people that have left have said something that could be deemed offensive to other people. If I was to start pulling all the s Tree said then I'm sure she could counter with s I've said because NONE of us are innocent. This is so fing disappointing.
I'd just have assumed if they've left they weren't reading here. Making it clear they don't want to be a part of the thread anymore, deleting their accounts but still actively reading seems odd. Making videos after everyone's been blocked on a private account anyway, doesn't make sense. Won't find me doing it back because I cannot be arsed
 
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For some reason the video didn’t attach, here it is.

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Don't post something addressing someone directly when you know they cannot see it or defend themselves/respond via normal means. That's just sty.

I don't have a problem with anyone who left here, but don't try and act like you weren't complicit just because you've stepped away. Move on with grace and stop reading here if you want to distance yourself. 🤷‍♂️

Anyone who has or does block me: I don't care why. Don't make a video about it - just do off. 👍🖕

I couldn't be arsed with the snidey high school behaviour while in high school - I'm certainly not bothered about it now.

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This is absolutely wild to me, Because every single one of us in here including people that have left have said something that could be deemed offensive to other people. If I was to start pulling all the s Tree said then I'm sure she could counter with s I've said because NONE of us are innocent. This is so fing disappointing.
It's really just showing their true characters. Everything always ends up coming out in the wash as they say.
 

Medusa

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I’m really sorry to have to reveal this but a video has been uploaded on Tree’s page. It features a screenshot of a joke made by @Birdie and that being the reason for her being blocked.

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Those who reacted (myself included), were then put on blast for laughing. I can only speak for myself here but it’s really sad I feel the need to defend myself. Humour is subjective, we all know this.

One of my favourite jokes from Gavin & Stacey, was when Nessa was talking about not seeing her best friend Carol:

“For all I know she could've been sex trafficked out of here. I doubt it mind, she was bigger than me.”

That line always made me chuckle and was why I found the joke referred to, as funny. I think it’s absolutely insane to insinuate the joke, should in any way be taken as literal. If they had a genuine grievance, why not reach out privately? Posting publicly feels like selective outrage and virtue signalling.

We’ve always had dark humour in CC, many of us and those who’ve left, have made funny jokes - often very close to the edge. Should we take those as literal also or did we all enjoy a comedic lenience, that now seems to be misplaced?

Many of us have wished them all well and spoken of our upset and hurt over this split. We haven’t been digging through comments to react after the fact or spin some strange narrative.

I can’t believe it’s gotten to the level of making social media posts about CC. It sounds like she may be dedicating a video to each of us, about being blocked but I could be wrong. It’s a shame she couldn’t just reach out and talk to us 💔

This was sent to me by someone else, as I am of course blocked. I won’t be revealing the source but I fear they may soon be blocked also. It’s possible they might have been set up to see this, by remaining unblocked and feeling pressured to pass it on.
I'm not gonna lie, I'm gutted it's come from Elm. I just thought she wanted to do her own thing and venture out.

As far as I'm concerned I'll like, laugh and love whatever post I want to, and won't have anyone questioning my morals and if I happen to be called out then I really couldn't give a do.

There's so many reasons why someone can like or laugh at a post, i hope all cc members on here are not going to feed into this and stop interacting with fellow members posts just because they fear they are going to be called out by an ex cc member on tiktok. .. I'm so disappointed right now
 

Witchy_woowoo

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Why would you block someone on a private account, then make a video addressing them? That’s wild to me 🤷‍♀️

As for the PLM comment that was made, honestly have a day off! Nothing in here, remotely indicates to anyone being PLM, if they are, I don’t know, therefore don’t give two shiny ses. I can’t control who I talk to on an anon profile, if people are decent to me, I give the same energy back.

Time some stop making excuses, and just move on. I’m proud of everyone here, who isn’t making snidey videos, or clapping back on TikTok, shows the moral high ground, everything started here, so should end here.
 

Birdie

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I’m really sorry to have to reveal this but a video has been uploaded on Tree’s page. It features a screenshot of a joke made by @Birdie and that being the reason for her being blocked.

IMG_6602.jpeg

Those who reacted (myself included), were then put on blast for laughing. I can only speak for myself here but it’s really sad I feel the need to defend myself. Humour is subjective, we all know this.

One of my favourite jokes from Gavin & Stacey, was when Nessa was talking about not seeing her best friend Carol:

“For all I know she could've been sex trafficked out of here. I doubt it mind, she was bigger than me.”

That line always made me chuckle and was why I found the joke referred to, as funny. I think it’s absolutely insane to insinuate the joke, should in any way be taken as literal. If they had a genuine grievance, why not reach out privately? Posting publicly feels like selective outrage and virtue signalling.

We’ve always had dark humour in CC, many of us and those who’ve left, have made funny jokes - often very close to the edge. Should we take those as literal also or did we all enjoy a comedic lenience, that now seems to be misplaced?

Many of us have wished them all well and spoken of our upset and hurt over this split. We haven’t been digging through comments to react after the fact or spin some strange narrative.

I can’t believe it’s gotten to the level of making social media posts about CC. It sounds like she may be dedicating a video to each of us, about being blocked but I could be wrong. It’s a shame she couldn’t just reach out and talk to us 💔

This was sent to me by someone else, as I am of course blocked. I won’t be revealing the source but I fear they may soon be blocked also. It’s possible they might have been set up to see this, by remaining unblocked and feeling pressured to pass it on.
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It wasn’t even an “i hope” they’ve been situation.

This is what I get for caring about a couple of missing women’s welfare 😭
 
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Thanks guys for your messages I am grateful for every single one of them, I won't quote your posts as I don't want to flood the thread.
You're all an amazing bunch of people and I appreciate it. 🤎🤎
So happy for you, the anxiety and stress for you and your family now I hope can pass. Also so brave for you to share this. Ladies make sure you get your boobies checked and have your smears. Honestly it can save your life! Have you plans to celebrate 🤗🤗