Delusive angie @delusive_angie10

Mrs Doubtfire 👵🏼 said:

I’m really sorry to have to reveal this but a video has been uploaded on Tree’s page. It features a screenshot of a joke made by @Birdie and that being the reason for her being blocked.



Those who reacted (myself included), were then put on blast for laughing. I can only speak for myself here but it’s really sad I feel the need to defend myself. Humour is subjective, we all know this.

One of my favourite jokes from Gavin & Stacey, was when Nessa was talking about not seeing her best friend Carol:

“For all I know she could've been sex trafficked out of here. I doubt it mind, she was bigger than me.”​

That line always made me chuckle and was why I found the joke referred to, as funny. I think it’s absolutely insane to insinuate the joke, should in any way be taken as literal. If they had a genuine grievance, why not reach out privately? Posting publicly feels like selective outrage and virtue signalling.

We’ve always had dark humour in CC, many of us and those who’ve left, have made funny jokes - often very close to the edge. Should we take those as literal also or did we all enjoy a comedic lenience, that now seems to be misplaced?

Many of us have wished them all well and spoken of our upset and hurt over this split. We haven’t been digging through comments to react after the fact or spin some strange narrative.

I can’t believe it’s gotten to the level of making social media posts about CC. It sounds like she may be dedicating a video to each of us, about being blocked but I could be wrong. It’s a shame she couldn’t just reach out and talk to us

This was sent to me by someone else, as I am of course blocked. I won’t be revealing the source but I fear they may soon be blocked also. It’s possible they might have been set up to see this, by remaining unblocked and feeling pressured to pass it on.

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kozmickush said:

Oh I’m so proud of you!! Sending you lots of love and hugs! This is the news I wish I could’ve heard my Nan say, but every time I hear someone getting the all-clear, I think of her. Every victory gives me hope for this world, there’s good in so many things we do, unfortunately there are rotten apples in every basket, but the quicker we throw them away, the healthier the bunch will be. Here’s to hoping you have a long and prosperous journey ahead!

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Medusa said:

Well I have officially been discharged, I'm absolutely over the moon very rarely will anyone see me cry (I'm an ugly crier-proper ugly) but I'm so pleased I was wearing waterproof mascara because i was a complete mess, I was already given the all-clear in December but after today I can now get back to the person I used to be without having that uncertainty of it returning.

Apart from a couple of members on here I've kept my diagnosis to myself mainly because my way of dealing with things is by not dwelling on them plus I'm no good at receiving sympathy, I get by mainly by using humour and I'd much rather someone tell me to put my glad rags on because we are hitting the tiles than them sitting holding my hand crying -I really don't like people being sad.

I know tensions have been high on here lately but regardless of what's going on I just like to take this opportunity to say, I beg each and everyone of you to please get yourself checked especially if you're concerned about something, don't be a fool by putting it off because cancer doesn't wait around for anyone and it doesn't discriminate, I spent most of my life thinking I was invincible and it proved me wrong.

I'm one of the lucky ones and sadly a beautiful family member wasn't, we carry the brca gene. (i dont want to say which relative because i know how sick and cruel some people on the app can be) I don't want to ram my advice down people's throats all I'm asking is please don't take your life for granted because it's way too precious.

I don't want to scare people either because I was extremely fortunate to still be able do the things I enjoyed and i lived a relatively normal life even when i was undergoing treatment and numerous surgeries, I'm not saying it's easy by any means but there's so many people who don't attend their cancer screenings out of fear, has my life changed? Absolutely, but cancer didn't and doesn't define me, in fact it's made me stronger and even though I had a cracking pair of tits before my diagnosis, I have an incredible pair now. (○)(○)

Don't think you're invincible guys because trust me life has it's ways of humbling you.

Rant over you may now all get back to what you were doing.

Celebrations pending until the weekend and thank you to everyone for your lovely messages i appreciate them all.

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Mrs Doubtfire 👵🏼 said:

I’m really sorry to have to reveal this but a video has been uploaded on Tree’s page. It features a screenshot of a joke made by @Birdie and that being the reason for her being blocked.



Those who reacted (myself included), were then put on blast for laughing. I can only speak for myself here but it’s really sad I feel the need to defend myself. Humour is subjective, we all know this.

One of my favourite jokes from Gavin & Stacey, was when Nessa was talking about not seeing her best friend Carol:

“For all I know she could've been sex trafficked out of here. I doubt it mind, she was bigger than me.”​

That line always made me chuckle and was why I found the joke referred to, as funny. I think it’s absolutely insane to insinuate the joke, should in any way be taken as literal. If they had a genuine grievance, why not reach out privately? Posting publicly feels like selective outrage and virtue signalling.

We’ve always had dark humour in CC, many of us and those who’ve left, have made funny jokes - often very close to the edge. Should we take those as literal also or did we all enjoy a comedic lenience, that now seems to be misplaced?

Many of us have wished them all well and spoken of our upset and hurt over this split. We haven’t been digging through comments to react after the fact or spin some strange narrative.

I can’t believe it’s gotten to the level of making social media posts about CC. It sounds like she may be dedicating a video to each of us, about being blocked but I could be wrong. It’s a shame she couldn’t just reach out and talk to us

This was sent to me by someone else, as I am of course blocked. I won’t be revealing the source but I fear they may soon be blocked also. It’s possible they might have been set up to see this, by remaining unblocked and feeling pressured to pass it on.

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HereForTea said:

This is absolutely wild to me, Because every single one of us in here including people that have left have said something that could be deemed offensive to other people. If I was to start pulling all the s Tree said then I'm sure she could counter with s I've said because NONE of us are innocent. This is so fing disappointing.

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Mrs Doubtfire 👵🏼 said:

I’m really sorry to have to reveal this but a video has been uploaded on Tree’s page. It features a screenshot of a joke made by @Birdie and that being the reason for her being blocked.



Those who reacted (myself included), were then put on blast for laughing. I can only speak for myself here but it’s really sad I feel the need to defend myself. Humour is subjective, we all know this.

One of my favourite jokes from Gavin & Stacey, was when Nessa was talking about not seeing her best friend Carol:

“For all I know she could've been sex trafficked out of here. I doubt it mind, she was bigger than me.”​

That line always made me chuckle and was why I found the joke referred to, as funny. I think it’s absolutely insane to insinuate the joke, should in any way be taken as literal. If they had a genuine grievance, why not reach out privately? Posting publicly feels like selective outrage and virtue signalling.

We’ve always had dark humour in CC, many of us and those who’ve left, have made funny jokes - often very close to the edge. Should we take those as literal also or did we all enjoy a comedic lenience, that now seems to be misplaced?

Many of us have wished them all well and spoken of our upset and hurt over this split. We haven’t been digging through comments to react after the fact or spin some strange narrative.

I can’t believe it’s gotten to the level of making social media posts about CC. It sounds like she may be dedicating a video to each of us, about being blocked but I could be wrong. It’s a shame she couldn’t just reach out and talk to us

This was sent to me by someone else, as I am of course blocked. I won’t be revealing the source but I fear they may soon be blocked also. It’s possible they might have been set up to see this, by remaining unblocked and feeling pressured to pass it on.

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Medusa said:

Well I have officially been discharged, I'm absolutely over the moon very rarely will anyone see me cry (I'm an ugly crier-proper ugly) but I'm so pleased I was wearing waterproof mascara because i was a complete mess, I was already given the all-clear in December but after today I can now get back to the person I used to be without having that uncertainty of it returning.

Apart from a couple of members on here I've kept my diagnosis to myself mainly because my way of dealing with things is by not dwelling on them plus I'm no good at receiving sympathy, I get by mainly by using humour and I'd much rather someone tell me to put my glad rags on because we are hitting the tiles than them sitting holding my hand crying -I really don't like people being sad.

I know tensions have been high on here lately but regardless of what's going on I just like to take this opportunity to say, I beg each and everyone of you to please get yourself checked especially if you're concerned about something, don't be a fool by putting it off because cancer doesn't wait around for anyone and it doesn't discriminate, I spent most of my life thinking I was invincible and it proved me wrong.

I'm one of the lucky ones and sadly a beautiful family member wasn't, we carry the brca gene. (i dont want to say which relative because i know how sick and cruel some people on the app can be) I don't want to ram my advice down people's throats all I'm asking is please don't take your life for granted because it's way too precious.

I don't want to scare people either because I was extremely fortunate to still be able do the things I enjoyed and i lived a relatively normal life even when i was undergoing treatment and numerous surgeries, I'm not saying it's easy by any means but there's so many people who don't attend their cancer screenings out of fear, has my life changed? Absolutely, but cancer didn't and doesn't define me, in fact it's made me stronger and even though I had a cracking pair of tits before my diagnosis, I have an incredible pair now. (○)(○)

Don't think you're invincible guys because trust me life has it's ways of humbling you.

Rant over you may now all get back to what you were doing.

Celebrations pending until the weekend and thank you to everyone for your lovely messages i appreciate them all.

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HereForTea said:

This is absolutely wild to me, Because every single one of us in here including people that have left have said something that could be deemed offensive to other people. If I was to start pulling all the s Tree said then I'm sure she could counter with s I've said because NONE of us are innocent. This is so fing disappointing.

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Mrs Doubtfire 👵🏼 said:

For some reason the video didn’t attach, here it is.

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HereForTea said:

This is absolutely wild to me, Because every single one of us in here including people that have left have said something that could be deemed offensive to other people. If I was to start pulling all the s Tree said then I'm sure she could counter with s I've said because NONE of us are innocent. This is so fing disappointing.

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Delainey_cc said:

It's really just showing their true characters. Everything always ends up coming out in the wash as they say.

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Patty B said:

People need to get a fing life. So ex members of comment cafe never left an inappropriate comment did they not or react to something that was brutal. I don’t need to know why I’m blocked because I couldn’t give a do

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Mrs Doubtfire 👵🏼 said:

I’m really sorry to have to reveal this but a video has been uploaded on Tree’s page. It features a screenshot of a joke made by @Birdie and that being the reason for her being blocked.



Those who reacted (myself included), were then put on blast for laughing. I can only speak for myself here but it’s really sad I feel the need to defend myself. Humour is subjective, we all know this.

One of my favourite jokes from Gavin & Stacey, was when Nessa was talking about not seeing her best friend Carol:

“For all I know she could've been sex trafficked out of here. I doubt it mind, she was bigger than me.”​

That line always made me chuckle and was why I found the joke referred to, as funny. I think it’s absolutely insane to insinuate the joke, should in any way be taken as literal. If they had a genuine grievance, why not reach out privately? Posting publicly feels like selective outrage and virtue signalling.

We’ve always had dark humour in CC, many of us and those who’ve left, have made funny jokes - often very close to the edge. Should we take those as literal also or did we all enjoy a comedic lenience, that now seems to be misplaced?

Many of us have wished them all well and spoken of our upset and hurt over this split. We haven’t been digging through comments to react after the fact or spin some strange narrative.

I can’t believe it’s gotten to the level of making social media posts about CC. It sounds like she may be dedicating a video to each of us, about being blocked but I could be wrong. It’s a shame she couldn’t just reach out and talk to us

This was sent to me by someone else, as I am of course blocked. I won’t be revealing the source but I fear they may soon be blocked also. It’s possible they might have been set up to see this, by remaining unblocked and feeling pressured to pass it on.

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