I'm Chonky....but as I said before I am actually making changes, no munching a 1000Kcal baguette to myself. I am 1st 8lb down in 8 weeks...and I have had a Chinese or a pizza once a week. She hasn't made any changes so far in my eyes that will help her loose weight!I love a takeaway or meal out, I’m sure we all do, and you can still have them in moderation but she cannot do anything in moderation can she. Everything is massive, always extras, always sides, always the most. I agree something drastic needs to happen, and after her gastric band backtrack I actually commented to her to try hypnotherapy - her enablers did not like it.