4 years is a big difference in terms of mental cognition and conditioning.
It also grinds my gears when people say “we was all doing it at that age and if you say you didn’t your a liar”
Firstly just cos some teenagers where in that position it doesn’t mean we should be encouraging it to the teenagers of today. I got myself into some situation when I was a teenager that could have been very dangerous, don’t want to say too much and dox myself (although some people do know who I am) and I can guarantee that half of these women on TikTok who do endorse it, wouldn’t do it with their own kids. They just want to be part of the group most talked about for exposure.
when I went from a foster home to a kids home at 14/15 my periods had stopped (obviously due to stress) I remember the manger of the home asking if I was pregnant (the day I arrived) I hadn't even kissed a boy never mind anything else. Unfortunately being young and vulnerable in the care system that changed. 
They are always empty when I try.
thank you so much for caring 🥹
