I understand exactly what you are trying to say, and I agree with what you have said.
As far as I'm concerned I've said my bit and i have nothing more to say about it, I don't have any issues with anyone else who had chosen to walk away from CC my post was only aimed at one ex member and I had valid reasons for how I was feeling and i couldn't remain silent any longer.
I had a lot of respect for the other members who have left and I still do, I won't hold it against them for cutting ties with cc as they have their own reasons for wanting to leave, and I do wish them well and I mean that sincerely.
I hope the thread can return back to normal soon and I understand the only way that will happen is by not mentioning those who have left.
We can still feel hurt and miss those who are no longer part of the fourm because that's human nature especially when people had made bonds with ex members, but speaking about it will only damped the mood and bring negativity.
I'm sure no one thinks you are being passive aggressive Mrs D you have a huge heart and you're also hurting, I'm sure everyone can see that. 🩵
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