I'm rapidly going off Mel and her content. Primarily because it's getting boring. And it's getting very contrived.
One minute she's posting a video wistfully looking off into the distance as she displays things that are upsetting her. Usually her own body. Or screenshots of the other website where she's talked about. All done to maximise sympathy and alert the fawning fairies that her feel good reserves need topping up, so hopefully they'll rush along to tell her how wonderful she is. And the next minute she's posting snarky videos in reply to comments that really don't warrant a reply. There's a definite nasty edge to her.
I don't agree with some of the comments on the other site but I am beginning to see what they're saying.
And I can't say it over there so am saying it here instead!
She’s a total narcissist and she can’t see it (and it’s not a bad thing, we’ve all got levels of it!!).
She listed all her immediate family members in terms of toxicity and narcissism and shock horror, she was the only one who was squeaky clean. Bull
I had a very similar experience to Mel, and honestly she needs to open her eyes to it all. Yes what happened was very awful, but her parents had to process and deal with it all TOO; it’s like losing both their children at the same and so many emotions. Your feelings don’t just switch off and she should know that. However, she also doesn’t have children so she cannot comprehend the pain and love elements of it all.
Her parents probably did deal with it very poorly, but there’s no textbook on this s… parents do up so badly. I wouldn’t wish any of it on any family.
Mel really needs to get help, as she is not healed and nowhere near it, she can’t cope with basic tasks like laundry and basic cleaning without her head falling off and I say that out of kindness. TikTok is not for her and she’s not very good at it..