You know when Mel says she will never be silenced? Why would we want to silence her? Seeing Mel's lies get unveiled is fantastic! She's had the stage to herself for a year & now it's getting shared & she cannot cope. Each day there's a new twist & turn! Never a dull moment on here!
mjbyrnex - Mel
Hi, an oldie here who has followed Mel on TikTok since she started (I’m a silent watcher) and I have never spoken to her in the comments section but I’ve seen it all .. I’ve also followed this forum from the very beginning so know everything that has been said. I was so happy to see the middle brother join the forum and to give us his side of ‘the story’ as I wasn’t fully convinced that Mel was giving a full picture .. bits of contradictions and what have you. Anyway, I thought I would put my two penneth in and add what I THINK (note think). Short and sweet, they had a sty childhood. Mel and TMB, they both appear to have really struggled and because years go by “recollections may vary”. It doesn’t have to be a debate on who had it worse, they both appear to have lived in a family who were bat s crazy! From what I’ve seen, heard and read, Mum had her own health issues, diagnosed with MS at 30, has a hearing impairment, is a drinker, is flirtatious, hates women etc etc. well, perhaps she does see other women as a threat (they are probably or Mum assumes, healthy and well) drinks to blur out her health problems which were from early adulthood and hits out at those that are close .. this shouldn’t have happened but I imagine she is a very bitter woman (I am not condoning her behaviour at all, Mel and TMB were children and none of it was their fault) Mum may be flirtatious as she thinks that’s all she has left to offer! Who knows? Birth dad seems to be a wimp who hasn’t got the balls to stand up fully for his kids but again, Mum appears to have ruled him also. Step dad sounds like a twit (left his own children to raise 3 that weren’t his) and probably shouldn’t have been in a family with any children at all.
It’s messed up for sure!! But messed up for all involved ..
Do I think Mel should be giving it her all on TikTok? Absolutely if she wants to tell her story but the narrative needs to change, she needs to really think about “her story” it isn’t just about her and how she was treated .. it’s much more than that .. I don’t know, I just think Mel talks about having a narcissistic mother but doesn’t try or give her viewers a look at the bigger picture and there does appear to be a much bigger picture .. I think it would be far more interesting to listen to the ‘bigger picture’ an insight into the family as a whole and how it affected all of them. I can’t comment on the eldest brother as he hasn’t spoken but do I think he abused Mel? Yes, definitely yes! at 9 and 13, they were both children and he was possibly already having “inappropriate thoughts” and acted on them feelings but again, Mel says she told Mum and Mum didn’t do anything .. it shouldn’t have happened this way but I think Mum was burying her head in the sand (mum needs therapy on a really deep level) Mum has definitely failed as a parent but did she mean to? Did Mel and TMB have a s childhood? 100 per cent yes! But there does also appear to be glimpses of normality .. Mel went to uni, Mum had to be involved in the form filling as my hubby and I did for our children .. I understand it’s only a small glimpse of normality but it’s there. So so much more to Mel
on TikTok and I for one would be interested to hear the whole story and to be more insightful with a nod to other family members.
It’s messed up for sure!! But messed up for all involved ..
Do I think Mel should be giving it her all on TikTok? Absolutely if she wants to tell her story but the narrative needs to change, she needs to really think about “her story” it isn’t just about her and how she was treated .. it’s much more than that .. I don’t know, I just think Mel talks about having a narcissistic mother but doesn’t try or give her viewers a look at the bigger picture and there does appear to be a much bigger picture .. I think it would be far more interesting to listen to the ‘bigger picture’ an insight into the family as a whole and how it affected all of them. I can’t comment on the eldest brother as he hasn’t spoken but do I think he abused Mel? Yes, definitely yes! at 9 and 13, they were both children and he was possibly already having “inappropriate thoughts” and acted on them feelings but again, Mel says she told Mum and Mum didn’t do anything .. it shouldn’t have happened this way but I think Mum was burying her head in the sand (mum needs therapy on a really deep level) Mum has definitely failed as a parent but did she mean to? Did Mel and TMB have a s childhood? 100 per cent yes! But there does also appear to be glimpses of normality .. Mel went to uni, Mum had to be involved in the form filling as my hubby and I did for our children .. I understand it’s only a small glimpse of normality but it’s there. So so much more to Mel
on TikTok and I for one would be interested to hear the whole story and to be more insightful with a nod to other family members.I have always said. Melissa can talk about herself as it's her coping mechanism.Hi, an oldie here who has followed Mel on TikTok since she started (I’m a silent watcher) and I have never spoken to her in the comments section but I’ve seen it all .. I’ve also followed this forum from the very beginning so know everything that has been said. I was so happy to see the middle brother join the forum and to give us his side of ‘the story’ as I wasn’t fully convinced that Mel was giving a full picture .. bits of contradictions and what have you. Anyway, I thought I would put my two penneth in and add what I THINK (note think). Short and sweet, they had a sty childhood. Mel and TMB, they both appear to have really struggled and because years go by “recollections may vary”. It doesn’t have to be a debate on who had it worse, they both appear to have lived in a family who were bat s crazy! From what I’ve seen, heard and read, Mum had her own health issues, diagnosed with MS at 30, has a hearing impairment, is a drinker, is flirtatious, hates women etc etc. well, perhaps she does see other women as a threat (they are probably or Mum assumes, healthy and well) drinks to blur out her health problems which were from early adulthood and hits out at those that are close .. this shouldn’t have happened but I imagine she is a very bitter woman (I am not condoning her behaviour at all, Mel and TMB were children and none of it was their fault) Mum may be flirtatious as she thinks that’s all she has left to offer! Who knows? Birth dad seems to be a wimp who hasn’t got the balls to stand up fully for his kids but again, Mum appears to have ruled him also. Step dad sounds like a twit (left his own children to raise 3 that weren’t his) and probably shouldn’t have been in a family with any children at all.
It’s messed up for sure!! But messed up for all involved ..
Do I think Mel should be giving it her all on TikTok? Absolutely if she wants to tell her story but the narrative needs to change, she needs to really think about “her story” it isn’t just about her and how she was treated .. it’s much more than that .. I don’t know, I just think Mel talks about having a narcissistic mother but doesn’t try or give her viewers a look at the bigger picture and there does appear to be a much bigger picture .. I think it would be far more interesting to listen to the ‘bigger picture’ an insight into the family as a whole and how it affected all of them. I can’t comment on the eldest brother as he hasn’t spoken but do I think he abused Mel? Yes, definitely yes! at 9 and 13, they were both children and he was possibly already having “inappropriate thoughts” and acted on them feelings but again, Mel says she told Mum and Mum didn’t do anything .. it shouldn’t have happened this way but I think Mum was burying her head in the sand (mum needs therapy on a really deep level) Mum has definitely failed as a parent but did she mean to? Did Mel and TMB have a s childhood? 100 per cent yes! But there does also appear to be glimpses of normality .. Mel went to uni, Mum had to be involved in the form filling as my hubby and I did for our children .. I understand it’s only a small glimpse of normality but it’s there. So so much more to Mel
But as soon as she told 40k followers at the time my traumas as a kid and mentioned my kids on a live in a very disgusting way and spreading hurtful lies about my kids that's when it was the final straw.
That's when I got involved with the police because she was mentioning that she wanted social services to take them away and all her followers was egging her on.
That's it
Am I wrong in protecting my children from this malicious act?
Ex colleagues found out my history and I barely even knew them and it's because of Melissa's tiktok she mentioned my name on lives before also never differentiated which brothers who so you can imagine how dangerous that can be.
Only started "eldest brother" "middle brother" some people that's follow her have got me a my eldest brother completely mixed up and that could be dangerous for me and my family. Melissa even implied that I could be a violent person she said it in a very calculator manipulatively way.
Like I said before.
Do what you want with your tiktok.
It's about your trauma.
Not mine so keep my kids and my traumas out of it
simple.Yes I did also corrected the lies and fabricated lies.
I could of left it as "leave my kids and me out of it" but I couldn't stand here and let her get away with her lies and the way she is with people online.
She says she's there for people a open book yet she's been dishonest to them. people are paying her from their own bank accounts and she's lying about her life. She's at vulnerable people say that they've looked up to Melissa because what she's done yet doesn't care about them you're not allowed to tell your dramas because it's " trauma dumping" That's exploiting! I have noticed there's always a loophole.
Firstly if you disagree with Melissa you are automatically a narcissist.
Another excuse for her to not be arses about all that people's traumas she calls it "trauma dumping"
These are excuses because one you disagree she hates you two if you don't talk about her she doesn't like it so she calls it "trauma dumping" it generally doesn't make sense.
I have bonded over some people in the past over our traumas and we let each other speak and compared as that's how you grow as a human being.
It's not fair for people who are vulnerable or still fighting to come to terms with what's happened to them and to have Melissa exploit them it's just disgusting.
I could of left it as "leave my kids and me out of it" but I couldn't stand here and let her get away with her lies and the way she is with people online.
She says she's there for people a open book yet she's been dishonest to them. people are paying her from their own bank accounts and she's lying about her life. She's at vulnerable people say that they've looked up to Melissa because what she's done yet doesn't care about them you're not allowed to tell your dramas because it's " trauma dumping" That's exploiting! I have noticed there's always a loophole.
Firstly if you disagree with Melissa you are automatically a narcissist.
Another excuse for her to not be arses about all that people's traumas she calls it "trauma dumping"
These are excuses because one you disagree she hates you two if you don't talk about her she doesn't like it so she calls it "trauma dumping" it generally doesn't make sense.
I have bonded over some people in the past over our traumas and we let each other speak and compared as that's how you grow as a human being.
It's not fair for people who are vulnerable or still fighting to come to terms with what's happened to them and to have Melissa exploit them it's just disgusting.
hahahaha So shag bandit slept with Melissa's two cousins who are twins 
no wonder he's known as a shag bandit.
no wonder he's known as a shag bandit.how on earth could you have his penis inside you knowing it's been in a family member melissa ? 0.0
Its sad really.Tell me someone else saw the insta story of the most boring Halloween party you've ever seen in your life?
Shag bandit & Sid sat round the dining room table looking bored sh1tless with Shag Bandits family who looked equally bored! Sid knows how to throw a party!
Because Melissa doesn't really have any mates.
4 of them was best mates years before but Melissa cut ties with them because they didn't like Andrew due to the cheating.
People at her old work didn't like her but Melissa invited them to the hen do why? To bump up the numbers.
My fiance didn't go to the hen do because she didn't fill comfortable of going and it was a pity invite.
And my God she kicked off.
It's keeping up appearances.
That stag do Andrew when on was the first night away from him and she hated it. Understandable right?
Yet took the piss out of me and my fiance for spending too much time together
She said we would never let her look after the kids on her own.
No we didn't let you because as far as we knew we was a family
nothing else.Then after Andrew decided to give me some words
Melissa asked to spend some time with the kids......like it was normal
She sent bday card before but stopped now
why stop ? You said in the cards "you will never stop loving them"Even said that you're going to wait for them when they are old enough.
Didn't you kick off at our biological father for doing this as a kid and you classed it as manipulation???
Apparently it's a green flag kinda guy vibe.
Hi, an oldie here who has followed Mel on TikTok since she started (I’m a silent watcher) and I have never spoken to her in the comments section but I’ve seen it all .. I’ve also followed this forum from the very beginning so know everything that has been said. I was so happy to see the middle brother join the forum and to give us his side of ‘the story’ as I wasn’t fully convinced that Mel was giving a full picture .. bits of contradictions and what have you. Anyway, I thought I would put my two penneth in and add what I THINK (note think). Short and sweet, they had a sty childhood. Mel and TMB, they both appear to have really struggled and because years go by “recollections may vary”. It doesn’t have to be a debate on who had it worse, they both appear to have lived in a family who were bat s crazy! From what I’ve seen, heard and read, Mum had her own health issues, diagnosed with MS at 30, has a hearing impairment, is a drinker, is flirtatious, hates women etc etc. well, perhaps she does see other women as a threat (they are probably or Mum assumes, healthy and well) drinks to blur out her health problems which were from early adulthood and hits out at those that are close .. this shouldn’t have happened but I imagine she is a very bitter woman (I am not condoning her behaviour at all, Mel and TMB were children and none of it was their fault) Mum may be flirtatious as she thinks that’s all she has left to offer! Who knows? Birth dad seems to be a wimp who hasn’t got the balls to stand up fully for his kids but again, Mum appears to have ruled him also. Step dad sounds like a twit (left his own children to raise 3 that weren’t his) and probably shouldn’t have been in a family with any children at all.
It’s messed up for sure!! But messed up for all involved ..
Do I think Mel should be giving it her all on TikTok? Absolutely if she wants to tell her story but the narrative needs to change, she needs to really think about “her story” it isn’t just about her and how she was treated .. it’s much more than that .. I don’t know, I just think Mel talks about having a narcissistic mother but doesn’t try or give her viewers a look at the bigger picture and there does appear to be a much bigger picture .. I think it would be far more interesting to listen to the ‘bigger picture’ an insight into the family as a whole and how it affected all of them. I can’t comment on the eldest brother as he hasn’t spoken but do I think he abused Mel? Yes, definitely yes! at 9 and 13, they were both children and he was possibly already having “inappropriate thoughts” and acted on them feelings but again, Mel says she told Mum and Mum didn’t do anything .. it shouldn’t have happened this way but I think Mum was burying her head in the sand (mum needs therapy on a really deep level) Mum has definitely failed as a parent but did she mean to? Did Mel and TMB have a s childhood? 100 per cent yes! But there does also appear to be glimpses of normality .. Mel went to uni, Mum had to be involved in the form filling as my hubby and I did for our children .. I understand it’s only a small glimpse of normality but it’s there. So so much more to Mel
I have always said. Melissa can talk about herself as it's her coping mechanism.
But as soon as she told 40k followers at the time my traumas as a kid and mentioned my kids on a live in a very disgusting way and spreading hurtful lies about my kids that's when it was the final straw.
That's when I got involved with the police because she was mentioning that she wanted social services to take them away and all her followers was egging her on.
That's it
Am I wrong in protecting my children from this malicious act?
Ex colleagues found out my history and I barely even knew them and it's because of Melissa's tiktok she mentioned my name on lives before also never differentiated which brothers who so you can imagine how dangerous that can be.
Only started "eldest brother" "middle brother" some people that's follow her have got me a my eldest brother completely mixed up and that could be dangerous for me and my family. Melissa even implied that I could be a violent person she said it in a very calculator manipulatively way.
Like I said before.
Do what you want with your tiktok.
It's about your trauma.
Not mine so keep my kids and my traumas out of it
Not sure what’s funny about the post @Abbie T, you’ve just made yourself look like an absolute tit for a “friend” who tells everybody about your personal life.
You can mask it and say, sex is sex, it absolutely is. But knowing your best mate is going behind your back talking about your partners affairs? I don’t know if you’ve got any other friends, as your idea on how friendships work appears to be skewed but that is NEVER OK.
She's a shouse for doing that to you and you know it. More fool you OneHitBlunder.
Two family members that we know of
Unfortunately she is not going to understand that.
Because apparently that's what best friends do!
Melissa you can send over the army any day of the week.
Because am only saying what YOU TOLD ME.
Next time probably tell them to have a sit down with English a-level star lecturer dibby Abbie for a English lesson.
Because Abbie has single handedly made you both look psychotic with the best friend s you got going on.
I never talk about my intimate details to my best mate and we are men!
All my best friends know full well that is very inappropriate to speak about your girlfriends or fiance sexual encounters with each other.
It's called fing respect.
We never stabbed from the back we always stabbed from the front.
Maybe you might have to keep it a try sometime.
Because am only saying what YOU TOLD ME.
Next time probably tell them to have a sit down with English a-level star lecturer dibby Abbie for a English lesson.
Because Abbie has single handedly made you both look psychotic with the best friend s you got going on.
I never talk about my intimate details to my best mate and we are men!
All my best friends know full well that is very inappropriate to speak about your girlfriends or fiance sexual encounters with each other.
It's called fing respect.
We never stabbed from the back we always stabbed from the front.
Maybe you might have to keep it a try sometime.
Wow Mel is a terrible ‘best friend’
I'm all for friends defending friends. It's what we'd all hope our friends would do if it was needed.
But I'd also hope my friends would tell me when they thought I was doing wrong. I know I would tell any of them if I thought they were heading down a rocky road.
So I can't help but wonder why Abbie isn't being the best kind of friend there is by actually telling Melvyn that she's crossed many a line and that she would serve herself well if she was to just pause for a moment and look at the path that she's going down.
We all know that nothing short of Putin pressing the button will stop Melvyn from making TikToks but she really does need to look at the bigger picture here. And she needs to drop her defiant front to really look at it.
There's obviously something about her middle brother posting here that has unsettled her. She clearly doesn't feel it fair or just that he should have a right to reply and that in itself should scream UNFAIR to everyone, no matter which camp they're in.
It seems somewhat ironic that a person who repeatedly says they will not be silenced has friends who seem hellbent on silencing her brother by trying to create havoc over here.
I'd suggest everyone stays in their lanes before there's an almighty crash into the central reservation because that's exactly what I can envisage happening.
But I'd also hope my friends would tell me when they thought I was doing wrong. I know I would tell any of them if I thought they were heading down a rocky road.
So I can't help but wonder why Abbie isn't being the best kind of friend there is by actually telling Melvyn that she's crossed many a line and that she would serve herself well if she was to just pause for a moment and look at the path that she's going down.
We all know that nothing short of Putin pressing the button will stop Melvyn from making TikToks but she really does need to look at the bigger picture here. And she needs to drop her defiant front to really look at it.
There's obviously something about her middle brother posting here that has unsettled her. She clearly doesn't feel it fair or just that he should have a right to reply and that in itself should scream UNFAIR to everyone, no matter which camp they're in.
It seems somewhat ironic that a person who repeatedly says they will not be silenced has friends who seem hellbent on silencing her brother by trying to create havoc over here.
I'd suggest everyone stays in their lanes before there's an almighty crash into the central reservation because that's exactly what I can envisage happening.
Does anybody remember Melissa’s day of step mum content? I feel like she pulled away from that, because she didn’t want to use them for content, and then she just stumbled upon this, after mentioning it a couple of times. The truth is, Melissa is simply wanting to be a content creator, and this gets views. To say that she is trying to help is disingenuous; she’s trying to make money. That’s fine, but please own it Mel.
Also, it is very clear that Andrew is autistic. He’s so awkward, and he seems to go after women who are a bit on the lesser side of attractiveness, which is probably an insecurity thing.