She needs to go out make friends and act like a 44 year old adult. But no she will choose to stay in house with her dolls and idea of a child. No one is saying to forget Jamie but there are ways to honour his memory. She is making a mockery of death by letting on he’s still here and she knows what he likes and what he sees. No one knows what kind of child he would be. He passed away as a baby and unfortunately that’s all he will be. It’s terrible and many people have lost babies but to make it he whole life is so damaging. To herself and others around her.