Sevda.Ela @sevda.ela

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He is not allowed to spend his own money. Remember the time when kuki spilled everything about money in Turkish (good times) she was telling him off saying you need to give £800 for mortgage!!!
Oh did she?! Didn’t know that. Oh she’s hideous. He’s definitely being emotionally, physically and financially abused in that relationship. She’s one nasty controlling t
 

Beagle70

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She’s disgusting, why does she behave like this? it’s so uncivilised, Ela sees it all and will copy her believing that it’s an okay thing to do when it most certainly is not. The poor child will get ridiculed and bullied in the junior school if she eats her school dinners in the way that her mother does. Another big parenting failure, Sevda is the utter PITS! 😡😡😡😡
That dress again.Needs setting alight. She will be wearing it in the winter. Sleeves are foul,cheap and nasty.
 
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Can we discuss how much she continually pesters Sedat about his injury? Every chance she gets, she brings it up with comments like, "Everybody's been asking about you." You can tell by Sedat's responses that it makes him uncomfortable and defensive. His tone of voice really gives it away.

Her responses come across as manipulative. For instance, when she says, "I think that it’s going to maybe be a problem that you might have for a long time," it feels like she’s deliberately targeting his vulnerabilities. Sedat seems like a very prideful person, and her constant reminders at the dinner table about his injury seem almost calculated.

The most telling moment is when she ends by saying, "It’s hard being at home, and you can get really depressed, isn’t it?" It’s as if she’s strategically pushing him towards a certain reaction.
I’d probably get depressed too if I was stuck at home with Sevda 24/7.
 
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I was joking about his TikTok soft launch haha
How did you hurt you knee? Actually how did sedat hurt his knee?
I believe he got hurt while working at Kolay Grill (or some other place) where he’s getting paid cash under the table. Sevda doesn’t want to pay taxes on that extra income so they’re all lying about it. It’s sad because he’s really hurt considering now he’s unable to work at his regular binman job for weeks, maybe months now.
 
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Funny how “Ela really fancied Toby Carvery breakfast”, but wasn’t shown at all enjoying said TC meal. Sevda shows Ela every chance she can get to up her views, but not this time…why? Methinks Ela didn’t like/want this meal and wasn’t eating. Sevda was better off saying she or her mom wanted this meal out instead of Ela.
 
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Can we discuss how much she continually pesters Sedat about his injury? Every chance she gets, she brings it up with comments like, "Everybody's been asking about you." You can tell by Sedat's responses that it makes him uncomfortable and defensive. His tone of voice really gives it away.

Her responses come across as manipulative. For instance, when she says, "I think that it’s going to maybe be a problem that you might have for a long time," it feels like she’s deliberately targeting his vulnerabilities. Sedat seems like a very prideful person, and her constant reminders at the dinner table about his injury seem almost calculated.

The most telling moment is when she ends by saying, "It’s hard being at home, and you can get really depressed, isn’t it?" It’s as if she’s strategically pushing him towards a certain reaction.
She’s a right b for doing this, she doesn’t even ask in a caring way. Wonder how many times she’s asked how he is in a sincere way off camera, probably zero. Instead of supporting her husband and being positive she’s planting things in his mind implying that his injury could be long term and he’ll likely get depressed, wtf. I try not to comment on her or any other influencers personally but honestly she has to be a right s person for saying this. They say half of the problem of not recovering from a physical injury is the negative attitude so if sedats surrounded by his negative wife then yes it’s very likely he will start to feel really down. She hasn’t even bought him a knee support or any physio although I don’t know why sedat hasn’t looked into this himself
 
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So brought flowers for herself and treats for her and Ela… but none for Sedat because he doesn’t like them.. how about she get something he like as well for him so he doesn’t misses out. Buys herself tweats and fwowers for herself but no ohysio or knee brace for Sedat
She can’t even say the name of the treats she bought for them. She calls them Crispy creams! Dumb b it’s Crispy Kreme! Absolutely useless
 
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Surely earning all this money via SM is so because yes you can enjoy the finer things but more importantly the money can be used for things that you otherwise may not be able to afford like healthcare and other essential things. By the sounds of it she spends money on herself as priority on crap, buys cheap quality things for Ela and can’t even be bothered to buy things for sedats knee. I wonder if sedat knows that you can pay for private physio cos in the dinner conversation ages ago she said to him the NHS queue is long, even if he knew she probably said no to him paying from his own pocket for physio. Proper abusive she is
 

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She can’t even say the name of the treats she bought for them. She calls them Crispy creams! Dumb b it’s Crispy Kreme! Absolutely useless
It’s so bad she hasn’t put her hand in her pocket to get him a brace, about as much as a Costco cake. As long as she is treating her self that’s all that matters - how about looking after your family. Had a busy day yesterday???? Come and do a 12.5 hour shift in a hospital, then you will know what tired is 😡😡😡😡
 

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She’s a right b for doing this, she doesn’t even ask in a caring way. Wonder how many times she’s asked how he is in a sincere way off camera, probably zero. Instead of supporting her husband and being positive she’s planting things in his mind implying that his injury could be long term and he’ll likely get depressed, wtf. I try not to comment on her or any other influencers personally but honestly she has to be a right s person for saying this. They say half of the problem of not recovering from a physical injury is the negative attitude so if sedats surrounded by his negative wife then yes it’s very likely he will start to feel really down. She hasn’t even bought him a knee support or any physio although I don’t know why sedat hasn’t looked into this himself
I don’t think Sedat is capable mentally to even know where to begin looking into getting physio or a knee support. He’s also extremely limited in his English. In various past videos, Sevda or her Dad take him into the shops where he needs to sort something out by returning something or getting something looked at, like his XBox once with Sevda’s dad. Sevda also once had to go along with him to the dentist in Turkey and another time, even Sedat’s elderly father went with Sedat for his (Sedat’s) dentist appointment. I think they go with him to do the talking part at reception because even though Sedat can speak Turkish fine, I don’t think he’s mentally always able to deal with lots of questions that may be complicated, etc.

Overall, you can sense Sedat has some kind of learning difficulties as he never says more than a few basic sentences the very most….. even when Sevda talks to him ….she talks in extremely basic sentences, even in Turkish (one of my lovely staff colleagues is Turkish and she confirmed this!). It’s like she’s talking to a 10 year old.

I’m not knocking the fact Sedat has mental issues. I’m just answering why I think he’s not researching into getting himself seen by a physio, etc.

This is where I’m appalled at Sevda! Maybe Sedat can help in part - actually try and talk himself to the relevant people…but Sevda should at the very least make the enquiries about who to contact and perhaps sit with Sedat when he finally has the right person on the phone to speak to. I honestly think Sevda cannot be bothered to help. I think she knows it will require effort for even her to sort things…so her selfishness stops her doing it.

I’m hoping Sedat’s sister, when visiting this weekend, will get onto helping Sedat with his knee injury …unless Sevda lies and pretends somehow nothing can be done or the exercises online that he was given are enough. Poor guy, may even have trouble getting these exercises up online everyday and he doesn’t want to ask Sevda for help. I expect Sedat tries to stay well out of Sevda’s way, especially since his accident. He doesn’t want her shouting at him…and we’ve all seen her do that! (the video where Sevda thought he was taking Kuki’s drink away from her AND when Kuki accidentally recorded Sevda talking about her (Sevda’s) drop in money and was shouting at Sedat something about he needed to give her more money).

What an absolute shambles of a family life. And I’m sure Ela has heard many times Sevda shouting at Sedat or moaning at him.
 
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