Exactly she seeks validation from strangers because she is a very unhappy person. Also a very strange person! I don’t care what total strangers would think of me! My families opinion of me is what’s important.Sev must know deep down that sedat didn’t marry her personality/looks but for a right to stay here, and it must hurt her that’s why she’s so resentful of him. At the beginning she was probably grateful for marriage but as time has gone on she hates him and sadly hates herself too. This TT life is a way for her to feel fulfilled but it’s making her worse cos it needs to first start with her, she needs to make herself happy first and everything else will fall into place. Her life is incredibly sad no matter the Cheshire grin she puts on, we can all see straight through it