Bless you babesAnother warrior sorry you’ve been through that but also, well done for coming through that!
There is a reason there is so many like minded people on these forums with the same up bringing who have the same views on protecting children and calling out bullshit. Because we weren’t, we can’t see it happen to others, it whatever form that may be!!
My mum is trying to make amends through being an amazing granny, and so long as she watches herself around my daughter, I don’t care how she is with me now. Didn’t need her then, don’t need her now, but I won’t keep my daughter from her gran like my mum hid me from mine. They need a relationship.
Not all children raised in trauma can break the cycle and not continue the toxic cycle and pass it on to their children, so well done ladies for want better for your children.
Vav… take notes. You do nothing but continue the toxic female cycle in your family.
There’s been times in my life when the thought process kicks in mayby I should try this might numb the pain of everyday life with asd kids past trauma dad in prison for murder has been in and out all my life but this 18 years has been the longest and he is the best despite his actions
My parents are in my life accepted what they done wrong and who they let into my life and what happened to me (that was never on them never have blamed them never will) their outstanding with my kids my oldest 2 know where he is and what he’s done (tbh ladies he was protecting his family grown men physically attacking his wife and daughter (didn’t just wake up and think I’m gonna kill hom today)
But yes babe so lucky we’ve managed to break the cycle as you say some kids and even some adults can’t it’s their way of coping unfortunately it’s all they know