You are bang on and its fing frustrating watching her! But she isn't a true SEN mum.
She isn't trying any strategies.
She isn't using now next then boards.
She is refusing to learn makaton.
She breaks his personal boundaries both publicly and at home by forcing affection and parading him on the internet
A true sen parent learns about their childs difficulties and marches out into the world looking for ways to help their kid.
She isnt even a cerebral palsy advocate and voice cos she chooses designer shoes instead of max's splints and gives him gummies that are contraindicated with anti - spasm medication (baclofen if anyone looks it up magnesium is a huge no!)
So she cant do anything but clap back to comments that call her out, she cant give advice because she has none to give has no boundaries so when max is in public she has no control over him. This is why she ignored Sabrina Kinsella, and only responds to negativity.
But all that aside - I said yesterday that Max isn't autistic, and I'm 100% sticking with it. So for me she isn't even a SEN Mum, she isn't in an ASN community and her content is soooooo unrelatable to true SEN parents.
Don't let her make you feel bad because you're genuinely fried having an authentic ASN journey, Its bloody hard, especially in the holidays and the routine has gone to se. Our kids have high needs which means there is no you time. Do you have some support? Once the kids have had their melatonin tonight, pencil in some you time, put a wee facemask on, read a book in a cosy bath and try not to think about your kids for just ten minutes/ half an hour and don't feel guilty about it. If you cant clear your mind, hum - you cant think and hum at the same time for some reason it doesn't work! Dont forget that you are amazing and its ok to feel that your're pouring from an empty cup. You got this Mama xxxxxx