She really is a t. Saying she does it all and has noone to fall back on. Your grandma and mother help out and he has his dad. I've one sibling that helps out as best they can. But I'm on my own with my complex sen teen. She really needs to put the work in now or will regret it when he's a teen. My child used to attack me when overwhelmed. I did time out and all the books hands are not for hitting feet our not for kicking. He is the most kindest gentle soul ever. He had a meltdown where he lashed out last week. It last a minute if that. He was apologising and upset with out me even talking to him. Previous meltdowns would have lasted hours but the hard work I've done and yes just me has been worth it. Toilet train him as its not easy as an adult to be changing nappies. Also she really is like a cringe qvc presenter on that live.