That's exactly what those two are doing. They haven't lost anyone. Show empathy and compassion like most people but don't make it about you. You haven't been directly impacted. You haven't lost anyone. You aren't grieving anyone and your daughter hasn't lost anyone nor was she near the place it happened. Stop the dramatics, stop doing videos for views. Stop with the self importance. There are parents sitting right now without their child to hold and watch grow up. Their pain is immeasurable. Stop trying to steal their grief.