I think we all have these moments where we feel some compassion despite what people say about us we are only human and it shows that we are indeed not “psychopaths” as Aimee would label us and have the ability to have empathy.I feel a bit torn as part of me is actually starting to pity her as I think she needs help/an intervention . She is spiralling at a rapid speed, she has lost all self pride and respect in the way she dresses and acts, and the rapid weight gain . She was never mother of the year we all know that but shes got worse. She is completely consumed by TT. I can’t stand her but I still wouldn’t want her to come to any harm so I hope she gets some help.
The other parts of me thinks she doesn’t deserve my pity and is just a spoilt, rotten to the core, repulsive t who has self sabotaged out of greed so you reap what you sow kind of thing.
I don’t know if I’m explaining what I mean right
I’ve learned to quickly disregard my empathy at times as she would fail to have any for anyone else, she’ll insist she’s happy with her life staying indoors and shopping, filling her home with tat and would label us all sorts even if we did have empathy for her with a smug smile on her face.
It is clear she does need some intervention from her “mummy” or “daddy” other than them enabling her because quite frankly I’ve never looked at someone other than her and thought I could smell them through a screen.
The main person I have empathy for is H because I dread to think what she is exposed to off camera I.e “boozies” daily and a mum who is consumed with tiktok and validation of strangers.
Hs dad may do more than we are aware off but should be doing far more to protect his child.
One day tiktok will crash and burn and people will move on either that or more and more people will wise up to her crap and move on to the next person.