mjbyrnex - Mel

May 23, 2024
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My heart is actually racing. What a complete cluster fcuk! Please don't tell me Saint Mel the patron saint of abuse victims harbours an 18 year old stepson who is a ecnonasixela 😳😳😳😳😳
Is that why her stepson is never at Mel's when his younger siblings are there? All those TikToks about how mels whole family keep in touch with her elder brother who she calls a ecnon and she's doing the same! She's let him be on her lives with her vulnerable followers who she's out to protect! All those vulnerable people who follow her and she has a ecnon in her house? Where is Aphrodite when we need her?
 

Garlicdep

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Puts hand up to answer☝️
I've noticed a members name that is spelt in reverse, the name spells a very serious allegation.
Only just cottoned on to this… is this the lad she said his gf is probably sitting on his face on a live 💀
I remember her talking about her parents being overly sexual in front of her, but she was ok to do this on a live chat to strangers?!
If that was my daughter she was talking about like that, I would be so angry. 😮‍💨
 
May 23, 2024
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Only just cottoned on to this… is this the lad she said his gf is probably sitting on his face on a live 💀
I remember her talking about her parents being overly sexual in front of her, but she was ok to do this on a live chat to strangers?!
If that was my daughter she was talking about like that, I would be so angry. 😮‍💨
No wonder her eldest stepson is never at Mel's house when his young brothers and sisters are there!
 

cantshutmeup

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Only just cottoned on to this… is this the lad she said his gf is probably sitting on his face on a live 💀
I remember her talking about her parents being overly sexual in front of her, but she was ok to do this on a live chat to strangers?!
If that was my daughter she was talking about like that, I would be so angry. 😮‍💨
Someone spill i think worked out the user cant work out what it spells though
 
Jul 4, 2024
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The account has been posting since last week but the name had gone unnoticed. Well it had by me anyway.
I didn't notice it until I was looking for what elicited THAT TikTok response earlier.
I've no doubt that denials will be forthcoming because it is just an allegation but it's a pretty damning one IF - and I stress IF it's true because it undermines everything that she claims to stand for.
And despite all my opinions on Melissa and her true motivations behind her contentless content (and whether she is or not a size 16 😁) I feel inexplicably sad for her right now.
 

virgotea

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Big essay coming but I’m knee deep in insomnia and intrigued by this whole debacle. So.. It started out as a page to share childhood trauma and the intention was to help others/help herself. Mel’s said it herself, she would love to quit work and be a full time ‘tiktoker’. You say you’re estranged from your family, yet you continue to use their stories to boost your ‘fame’. They’re not just your stories because you include their personal info. Technically you have your family to thank for your followers. Considering you think so little of them, why would you want them having the satisfaction of knowing that they’re the reason you’ve got a following on TikTok? When will you stop sharing your family’s personal memoirs to the world? When you get 1mil followers? 250k? Like, what’s the business plan? You’ve clearly got a price on it. This instantly will devoid you of any authenticity, when people see your motive is for monetary gain/status. You can’t say it isn’t either, especially since you’re now advertising the gifting. Everyone knew that was coming. This is why people are talking, not because they’re trolls, but because they can see it for what it is. You’re sharing stuff to the public, expect the negative stuff. It’s one of the reasons I wouldn’t want a TikTok account. If you can’t take the criticism, then stop?

People share their stories with you and they quite often get in return, ‘aw that’s awful, sorry about that’ and that’s it, it’s onto what you’re cooking for dinner? I’ve not once heard you ask questions to followers in lives or offer much in return, it’s always minimal and so focused on you. I thought you wanted to help people? In reality it’s social media at its finest and you wanting to earn a handsome pocket from it.
You’ve slated the mental health services available, probably put people off contacting them to be honest.
All of this over-sharing, shock factoring is because you know you need more than a couple of b&m hauls to get the ball rolling and get noticed. You’re clued up on algorithms and how long videos should be etc. No sane person that I know of would allow an estranged family member to use a social platform to recall such personal and private stories without some form of retaliation. Imagine they set up a tiktok and gave their accounts, because believe me they’ll see you in a light that you don’t see yourself in, every person you meet in life sees you in a different way than others do, or yourself does. It’s the way of life. Your closest friend will know a different version of you than say your boss at work, etc etc. You’re telling me Mel wouldn’t retaliate and dissect her families versions of events and make a tiktok?

It shocks me that she is so distraught that she’s being contacted by her brother (I’m assuming this is who she thinks is contacting her?) when she is constantly over sharing confidential information about family members to the world. It’s collateral damage. Speaking about her mother’s health online, what warrants this kind of behaviour? I wouldn’t dream of doing this and I have also had a rough upbringing (in some aspects, albeit different to hers). I find it unbelievable that she says she has the perfect life that she’s always dreamt about but then the next video will be a play about a scene from 2006 with her mother neglecting her? It can’t be perfect, if it was you wouldn’t let any of those negative playbacks enter your head space. You’d be too busy and happy with your perfect life to even reflect. So it’s either, a) not perfect or b) perfect but the stories boost the followers. This is why people are talking on here Mel, because there’s holes everywhere. People aren’t going to admire someone wanting a moral high ground when they’re coming through with 0 morals themselves.

Also, the lengths people will go to on that app baffle me… I have sons, if she knows her stepson is following her tiktok, then can somebody answer as to why she gets undressed on lives, exposing herself in a way that you’d never want your teenage son seeing? Sharing bedroom antics? None of it makes sense, none of it. Recalling a time when her stepdad spoke about her mothers breast size/hers yet makes comments on her own stepsons s/life and boasts to people that she has a pillow behind the headboard? All in the presence of her own stepson? Talk about history repeating itself. It you didn’t like that kind of talk, then why are you subjecting your stepson to the same?

If you want a solution to the msgs from your family, I’d say stop sharing personal information online about them, and gather up some decorum about what you do share, until that stops then you’re quite figuratively poking the bear. Oh but if you did, you know the page won’t grow? Maybe delete the app and carry on with the perfect life… I know after years of trauma that I wouldn’t be inflicting more onto myself. Make it make sense. You could of orchestrated your page in a way that didn’t divulge unnecessary information, you could of created a group for victims, you could of told your story without making it so obvious about who it was about, or share stories without including such irrelevant personal information, instead you’re acting with vengeance and involving the whole of tiktok. The people enabling you Mel are the ones who are loving the drama of the stories, people love a good controversy. It’s like a modern day ‘That’s Life’ mag. You can’t ask for a harmonious life when you’re digging up the corpses and letting them rot around you. Put a rotting piece of fruit in a fruit bowl, everything around it rots too. You couldn’t put a price on my peace, or a TikTok following for that matter. Todays society is ruined by the likes of that app. And ftr, I’m not one of these ‘trolls’ that’s on here to be mean or hurtful, I’d never come here and comment on your appearance, it isn’t me. But for real, I’d take the police advice and stop posting about your family’s personal lives, it’s harassment if you ask me. Your family must be so much more patient than mine considering how mean they are, I’d of had a knock at the door by now had I of shared stuff about my mum in the way you have. I wouldn’t dare. So many influencers on the app will have accounts of trauma, if you can’t get ‘TikTok famous’ by your personality alone, without dragging people into it that aren’t there to tell their side, or without their consent to share, then I’d say it’s time to think of another business plan.
 
Jul 4, 2024
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Big essay coming but I’m knee deep in insomnia and intrigued by this whole debacle. So.. It started out as a page to share childhood trauma and the intention was to help others/help herself. Mel’s said it herself, she would love to quit work and be a full time ‘tiktoker’. You say you’re estranged from your family, yet you continue to use their stories to boost your ‘fame’. They’re not just your stories because you include their personal info. Technically you have your family to thank for your followers. Considering you think so little of them, why would you want them having the satisfaction of knowing that they’re the reason you’ve got a following on TikTok? When will you stop sharing your family’s personal memoirs to the world? When you get 1mil followers? 250k? Like, what’s the business plan? You’ve clearly got a price on it. This instantly will devoid you of any authenticity, when people see your motive is for monetary gain/status. You can’t say it isn’t either, especially since you’re now advertising the gifting. Everyone knew that was coming. This is why people are talking, not because they’re trolls, but because they can see it for what it is. You’re sharing stuff to the public, expect the negative stuff. It’s one of the reasons I wouldn’t want a TikTok account. If you can’t take the criticism, then stop?

People share their stories with you and they quite often get in return, ‘aw that’s awful, sorry about that’ and that’s it, it’s onto what you’re cooking for dinner? I’ve not once heard you ask questions to followers in lives or offer much in return, it’s always minimal and so focused on you. I thought you wanted to help people? In reality it’s social media at its finest and you wanting to earn a handsome pocket from it.
You’ve slated the mental health services available, probably put people off contacting them to be honest.
All of this over-sharing, shock factoring is because you know you need more than a couple of b&m hauls to get the ball rolling and get noticed. You’re clued up on algorithms and how long videos should be etc. No sane person that I know of would allow an estranged family member to use a social platform to recall such personal and private stories without some form of retaliation. Imagine they set up a tiktok and gave their accounts, because believe me they’ll see you in a light that you don’t see yourself in, every person you meet in life sees you in a different way than others do, or yourself does. It’s the way of life. Your closest friend will know a different version of you than say your boss at work, etc etc. You’re telling me Mel wouldn’t retaliate and dissect her families versions of events and make a tiktok?

It shocks me that she is so distraught that she’s being contacted by her brother (I’m assuming this is who she thinks is contacting her?) when she is constantly over sharing confidential information about family members to the world. It’s collateral damage. Speaking about her mother’s health online, what warrants this kind of behaviour? I wouldn’t dream of doing this and I have also had a rough upbringing (in some aspects, albeit different to hers). I find it unbelievable that she says she has the perfect life that she’s always dreamt about but then the next video will be a play about a scene from 2006 with her mother neglecting her? It can’t be perfect, if it was you wouldn’t let any of those negative playbacks enter your head space. You’d be too busy and happy with your perfect life to even reflect. So it’s either, a) not perfect or b) perfect but the stories boost the followers. This is why people are talking on here Mel, because there’s holes everywhere. People aren’t going to admire someone wanting a moral high ground when they’re coming through with 0 morals themselves.

Also, the lengths people will go to on that app baffle me… I have sons, if she knows her stepson is following her tiktok, then can somebody answer as to why she gets undressed on lives, exposing herself in a way that you’d never want your teenage son seeing? Sharing bedroom antics? None of it makes sense, none of it. Recalling a time when her stepdad spoke about her mothers breast size/hers yet makes comments on her own stepsons s/life and boasts to people that she has a pillow behind the headboard? All in the presence of her own stepson? Talk about history repeating itself. It you didn’t like that kind of talk, then why are you subjecting your stepson to the same?

If you want a solution to the msgs from your family, I’d say stop sharing personal information online about them, and gather up some decorum about what you do share, until that stops then you’re quite figuratively poking the bear. Oh but if you did, you know the page won’t grow? Maybe delete the app and carry on with the perfect life… I know after years of trauma that I wouldn’t be inflicting more onto myself. Make it make sense. You could of orchestrated your page in a way that didn’t divulge unnecessary information, you could of created a group for victims, you could of told your story without making it so obvious about who it was about, or share stories without including such irrelevant personal information, instead you’re acting with vengeance and involving the whole of tiktok. The people enabling you Mel are the ones who are loving the drama of the stories, people love a good controversy. It’s like a modern day ‘That’s Life’ mag. You can’t ask for a harmonious life when you’re digging up the corpses and letting them rot around you. Put a rotting piece of fruit in a fruit bowl, everything around it rots too. You couldn’t put a price on my peace, or a TikTok following for that matter. Todays society is ruined by the likes of that app. And ftr, I’m not one of these ‘trolls’ that’s on here to be mean or hurtful, I’d never come here and comment on your appearance, it isn’t me. But for real, I’d take the police advice and stop posting about your family’s personal lives, it’s harassment if you ask me. Your family must be so much more patient than mine considering how mean they are, I’d of had a knock at the door by now had I of shared stuff about my mum in the way you have. I wouldn’t dare. So many influencers on the app will have accounts of trauma, if you can’t get ‘TikTok famous’ by your personality alone, without dragging people into it that aren’t there to tell their side, or without their consent to share, then I’d say it’s time to think of another business plan.
This! 100% this ❤️
Superbly written.
Absolutely everything is spot on.
 

virgotea

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Jeez, sorry that was so long 🫣 but seriously, I just came back from watching the video about the worry of being exposed? Why would you run the risk of the info being exposed? Surely by constantly over-sharing confidential info about someone that they don’t consent to being shared then they’re going to retaliate? Just seen Mel saying she’s estranged but they’re still not gone? Well no, because you’re keeping them relevant by telling the world about them? She’s slating the police which isn’t fair, as are her followers. All because the police have told her to stop posting information about him online? Well of course!! This would be my first action if it was happening to me. Telling her to go to a solicitor? I think her family will have a case themselves the way this is going. She isn’t listening to the police, never mind a solicitor. Is anyone else as baffled?
 
Sep 24, 2024
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I am one of her followers, i regularly comment and join her lives . I comment support and wish her well .
Well up until her TikTok panicking ! I was all confused and wondered what was going on so found this site as well as the other .
I’ve read most recent posts on here and noticed one user with a backwards name . It all made sense . I always did cringe at her POV anyway specially the teacher ones . ( degree 🤔)
Her husband I’ve never really been that keen on . He’s a wimp . If what’s being said is true then he needs to leave .
 
Sep 24, 2024
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She’s just posted . I was going to comment this : Mel you need to delete TikTok . You say your step children are important , then go about your life because if one of his friends / or anyone sees these post about him he’s gunna get repercussions. We all know what happens to them ! If it was me I’d be off , like the danger associated with the word is scary and she’s treading thin. Them poor children . The mother of the children stating it’s not her fault it’s okay , I’m sorry I’d be going mad ! I’d be saying look Mel stop what you doing my children are at risk !