mjbyrnex - Mel

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Cheers missy.
I heard of this one before and did dip into this thread to have a quick read a while back but she seemed a bit boaring TBH but it sounds like things are picking up. I got the main gist of her and her nonsense but i wonder has any of those she has lied about come out and called her out?
Her brother @themiddlebrother has called out her lies, people who love in her town have called out her lies. Hopefully more people will discover this page &come call out her many many lies.
 
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Mel doesn't take any responsibility for her behaviours. There's that acronym, DARVO, which applies to her. It's her mum's fault, brother's fault, police officers fault, every fcukers fault but hers, deny deny deny.
I hope her brother comes back & keeps sharing his stories as it's opposite to what she's saying. She hates us on here because we see straight through her bullsh1t & call her out. She can't fcuking control us! She denies her behaviour & tries attacking us or anyone who calls her out & she plays the victim. She's desperate to protect all the lies she's told at all costs. I've said it before, I think she's a fcuking psychopath
 
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What's so funny about Mel's narcissistic mum list is soooo many of her points about narcissism apply to herself!! So many!! She clearly can't see them or is choosing not to see them. We've observed her for a year now, observed how she treats others who don't agree with her, speaks about others who don't tow her line. The funniest part was about her mums Facebook not matching the reality of her life... Erm, Mel's happy happy clapper Facebook paints a picture of family bliss when we know is definitely not! What was it shag bandits son said about life before his girlfriend? Suicidal, boring, depressed?? She doesn't show her plate throwing on Facebook! She doesn't show her nasty angry side on Facebook. Mel's a walking contradiction who is very much a narcissist.
I don't know how she kept a straight face filming that.
I mean, it's like Katie Price saying she prefers the au natural look.
She's bloody cuckoo!
 

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What's so funny about Mel's narcissistic mum list is soooo many of her points about narcissism apply to herself!! So many!! She clearly can't see them or is choosing not to see them. We've observed her for a year now, observed how she treats others who don't agree with her, speaks about others who don't tow her line. The funniest part was about her mums Facebook not matching the reality of her life... Erm, Mel's happy happy clapper Facebook paints a picture of family bliss when we know is definitely not! What was it shag bandits son said about life before his girlfriend? Suicidal, boring, depressed?? She doesn't show her plate throwing on Facebook! She doesn't show her nasty angry side on Facebook. Mel's a walking contradiction who is very much a narcissist.
I snorted at the Facebook comment after she did that longwinded TT about Andrew loving and supporting her every day… the audacity, the nerve, the gumption.

I don’t know how she lies next to that dirty di*k. It’s giving desperate.
 
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I snorted at the Facebook comment after she did that longwinded TT about Andrew loving and supporting her every day… the audacity, the nerve, the gumption.

I don’t know how she lies next to that dirty di*k. It’s giving desperate.
Definitely giving fcuking desperate!
Shag bandit was clearly desperate for someone to take on his 4 kids that he parents 1 night a week & share the maintenance bill with.
Mel was desperate for someone to boss around as she couldn't boss anyone around when she lived at home. By the state of the Byrnes filthy pit the lazy fcukers were both desperate for someone to game with every night instead of making a nice clean home with. That cat p1ss carpet still haunts me 🤮 The lazy fcukers are too lazy to even lay a carpet or put wallpaper on the walls, it's been months 😳 bet it's like living in a squat sponsored by a charity shop with all the crud they buy.
 

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Her brother @themiddlebrother has called out her lies, people who love in her town have called out her lies. Hopefully more people will discover this page &come call out her many many lies.
Oh imagine if Aimee’s sister did the same to her 😂this revolting one is so like Aimee, Aimee lies about domestic abuse, illness, her size and basically just about anything to get views.
 
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"his trauma is his and my traumas are mine and they was similar"

No they wasn't Melissa.

You didn't get your head pulled to the floor and kicked multiple times by your stepdad.

Punched in the face.

Pushed off the arm chair and nearly cracked your head on the cabinet.

Kicked out of the family home because you wanted to be with your fiance.

Had to sleep in the nearest working men's clubs shed for a week and find a tent to sleep on for a further 2 weeks in the middle of December.

Had to sofa surf at mates house for 3months. Where I got jumped a few times walking to the local town hall to help with housing. To be told they needed signature to prove my mum didn't want me yeah like thats going to go down well.

Managed to get a bedsit but was invested in druggies and alcoholics. Got a knife pulled out on me countless times.

When I finally got back onto my feet I saved up and get out.

Worked hard for my fiance and me to leave.

Got a home and we had our first born.

Got a job that didn't understand my mental health issues so got sacked after having a day off.

Tried to rekindle relationships with everybody outside the family only to have it all throw back in my face.

Was accused of stealing a phone off my dying grandma but it was our cousin yet it's ok I don't need a apology.

Wasn't told that grandma was getting worse yet you got told and picked up and taken there and looked after.

I had to make my own way there and was subjected to the cold shoulder.

Uncle called me selfish and humiliated me for not paying for your 21st bday banners because I was skint but to him I was getting pissed and drugged up because it's where I live.

I didn't have a 18th b'day or 21st bday as no one bothered to find me or ask Melissa or my mum how I was.

You had the family home to live in.
You could go to your other families house anytime like you said your auntie had a room ready.

Never had mother kicked you out.

You moved into grandmas house rent free as its mortgage was already paid.

Got pissed up nearly every night with your pisshead of a cousin and used that house as a piss head house for your cousins friends.

Your work made for your therapy and when they didn't want to promote you you threatened to take it higher so they give you a promotion. And then after 6 years you left because you called it a "toxic work place". Yeah sounds really toxic when a company's willing to pay your therapy. And keep you on despite having sloads of days off.

Your job somehow keeps you after you're taking the piss and saying it's mental health yet your ok tiktok and somehow you keep the job.

Got your first car off your father.
Got your teeth paid for.
Got your wedding payed off.

Yeah our paths are the same 👀👀👀

She has such a warp thought process on her experiences.

She's mentioned that it was so "traumatic" at home yet after uni ran straight home to mummy and daddy 🤔

It's because you didn't save up or even thought about moving out if it was that bad you would leave but you took advantage of everything.

I didn't have the choice I was out on my ear and she seems to think I'm just playing the same tune even said" are Tom get over it no one cares you lived in a tent" like ???

Everything I have done I've done it from the ground up I had no choice to go up and work hard.

When my first born was born my mum or dad and Melissa didn't even come and see him.

Melissa got my fiance kicked out on Xmas eve.

Melissa used my mental health against me when I rung her up and cried about it on the phone. She ran to my mother and told it it's because I didn't love my fiance when she knew it's because I was struggling to find a meaning of living anymore due to having mental health issues and getting sacked because I had days where I couldn't do the job right.

Melissa says "go get therapy" 👍👍👍 nice one.

The angers me that you think our lives were so similar.

And she would literally just say I was jealous 🤷 but it's the facts Melissa love.
 
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"his trauma is his and my traumas are mine and they was similar"

No they wasn't Melissa.

You didn't get your head pulled to the floor and kicked multiple times by your stepdad.

Punched in the face.

Pushed off the arm chair and nearly cracked your head on the cabinet.

Kicked out of the family home because you wanted to be with your fiance.

Had to sleep in the nearest working men's clubs shed for a week and find a tent to sleep on for a further 2 weeks in the middle of December.

Had to sofa surf at mates house for 3months. Where I got jumped a few times walking to the local town hall to help with housing. To be told they needed signature to prove my mum didn't want me yeah like thats going to go down well.

Managed to get a bedsit but was invested in druggies and alcoholics. Got a knife pulled out on me countless times.

When I finally got back onto my feet I saved up and get out.

Worked hard for my fiance and me to leave.

Got a home and we had our first born.

Got a job that didn't understand my mental health issues so got sacked after having a day off.

Tried to rekindle relationships with everybody outside the family only to have it all throw back in my face.

Was accused of stealing a phone off my dying grandma but it was our cousin yet it's ok I don't need a apology.

Wasn't told that grandma was getting worse yet you got told and picked up and taken there and looked after.

I had to make my own way there and was subjected to the cold shoulder.

Uncle called me selfish and humiliated me for not paying for your 21st bday banners because I was skint but to him I was getting pissed and drugged up because it's where I live.

I didn't have a 18th b'day or 21st bday as no one bothered to find me or ask Melissa or my mum how I was.

You had the family home to live in.
You could go to your other families house anytime like you said your auntie had a room ready.

Never had mother kicked you out.

You moved into grandmas house rent free as its mortgage was already paid.

Got pissed up nearly every night with your pisshead of a cousin and used that house as a piss head house for your cousins friends.

Your work made for your therapy and when they didn't want to promote you you threatened to take it higher so they give you a promotion. And then after 6 years you left because you called it a "toxic work place". Yeah sounds really toxic when a company's willing to pay your therapy. And keep you on despite having sloads of days off.

Your job somehow keeps you after you're taking the piss and saying it's mental health yet your ok tiktok and somehow you keep the job.

Got your first car off your father.
Got your teeth paid for.
Got your wedding payed off.

Yeah our paths are the same 👀👀👀

She has such a warp thought process on her experiences.

She's mentioned that it was so "traumatic" at home yet after uni ran straight home to mummy and daddy 🤔

It's because you didn't save up or even thought about moving out if it was that bad you would leave but you took advantage of everything.

I didn't have the choice I was out on my ear and she seems to think I'm just playing the same tune even said" are Tom get over it no one cares you lived in a tent" like ???

Everything I have done I've done it from the ground up I had no choice to go up and work hard.

When my first born was born my mum or dad and Melissa didn't even come and see him.

Melissa got my fiance kicked out on Xmas eve.

Melissa used my mental health against me when I rung her up and cried about it on the phone. She ran to my mother and told it it's because I didn't love my fiance when she knew it's because I was struggling to find a meaning of living anymore due to having mental health issues and getting sacked because I had days where I couldn't do the job right.

Melissa says "go get therapy" 👍👍👍 nice one.

The angers me that you think our lives were so similar.

And she would literally just say I was jealous 🤷 but it's the facts Melissa love.
Bloody hell. I don't mean to sound patronising as it's a phrase that I generally don't like, but seriously thank you for sharing all that. It can't have been easy to type and it can't be easy to be recall all those horrific unjust things.
You have got SO much to be proud of and you are where you are now DESPITE those twisted bastards.
You should be proud to hold your head up high knowing you beat the lot of them.
I have a lot of respect and admiration for you and I applaud your calm and measured way of responding to your toxic sister.
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
 
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Bloody hell. I don't mean to sound patronising as it's a phrase that I generally don't like, but seriously thank you for sharing all that. It can't have been easy to type and it can't be easy to be recall all those horrific unjust things.
You have got SO much to be proud of and you are where you are now DESPITE those twisted bastards.
You should be proud to hold your head up high knowing you beat the lot of them.
I have a lot of respect and admiration for you and I applaud your calm and measured way of responding to your toxic sister.
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Still trying to process all of this whilst being a fiance and a father is the hardest part.

I have been relying on myself and being independent for so long so it's hard to think it like that it's more "it is what is" I don't see it as be proud of yourself its what had to do 🤷 but 🙏
 
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Also just to add.

"I think mum just hates women"

Well that's exactly what she was like to my fiance.

When my fiance moved u in when I thought was a turning point in my mother's relationship she let her stay as my fiance had issues at home.

Little did I know it was a plan to try split us up.

My mother used to charge me board and she said " it's 200 pounds for you and your fiance together" I was working two part-time jobs and she thought that would piss me off but it didn't.

Then Melissa tried to get my mother to kick her out like I said and it worked but before my fiance heard Melissa called her horrible things and was just awful towards her.

Hmmm doesn't that sound like your mother Melissa?

Also when my stepdad daughter started a relationship with him Melissa was there to ruin it as she said to him "it's me or her" 🚩🚩🚩

Melissa never liked my fiance infact didn't like any women really.

Yet had a great relationship with Andrews sister but bitched about her behind her back to me. Saying "she genuinely can't look after her kids she just leaves them" and Andrews sister husband was a "perverted creep" after he said misogynistic comments towards Melissa wearing a skirt. See am not hiding 🤷

I stopped contact with Melissa because I was sick and tired of hearing gossip and bitching we wanted to see her since we see how she's doing not talk about others and she hated that.

For her friend Abbie well...... We never got on. I remember it was fiance bday and she was invited as Melissa's +1 and the instantly made a bad impression walks into my house whist my musics on ,(heavy metal). Instantly says "you can turn that s off". Then she got a nice reply off me " you can get do out of my house then it's my house!"

Very gobby and very much blinded to Melissa actions the amount of time she spoke about abbies boyfriend in a s way is remarkable telling us about his playing aways 👀 like Melissa I don't give a s about your friends poor choices with men.

Even with lovely pam. Melissa has bitched about how fing annoying she can be.👀👀👀

There is plenty she said about everyone trust me but that has kids involved and she has butchered the dads and I am not going to be that guy.

It's all a calculated facade.
 
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Also just to add.

"I think mum just hates women"

Well that's exactly what she was like to my fiance.

When my fiance moved u in when I thought was a turning point in my mother's relationship she let her stay as my fiance had issues at home.

Little did I know it was a plan to try split us up.

My mother used to charge me board and she said " it's 200 pounds for you and your fiance together" I was working two part-time jobs and she thought that would piss me off but it didn't.

Then Melissa tried to get my mother to kick her out like I said and it worked but before my fiance heard Melissa called her horrible things and was just awful towards her.

Hmmm doesn't that sound like your mother Melissa?

Also when my stepdad daughter started a relationship with him Melissa was there to ruin it as she said to him "it's me or her" 🚩🚩🚩

Melissa never liked my fiance infact didn't like any women really.

Yet had a great relationship with Andrews sister but bitched about her behind her back to me. Saying "she genuinely can't look after her kids she just leaves them" and Andrews sister husband was a "perverted creep" after he said misogynistic comments towards Melissa wearing a skirt. See am not hiding 🤷

I stopped contact with Melissa because I was sick and tired of hearing gossip and bitching we wanted to see her since we see how she's doing not talk about others and she hated that.

For her friend Abbie well...... We never got on. I remember it was fiance bday and she was invited as Melissa's +1 and the instantly made a bad impression walks into my house whist my musics on ,(heavy metal). Instantly says "you can turn that s off". Then she got a nice reply off me " you can get do out of my house then it's my house!"

Very gobby and very much blinded to Melissa actions the amount of time she spoke about abbies boyfriend in a s way is remarkable telling us about his playing aways 👀 like Melissa I don't give a s about your friends poor choices with men.

Even with lovely pam. Melissa has bitched about how fing annoying she can be.👀👀👀

There is plenty she said about everyone trust me but that has kids involved and she has butchered the dads and I am not going to be that guy.

It's all a calculated facade.
100% believe this.
She's going to be extremely lonely one day. She thinks she's riding the crest of a wave at the moment, but all waves come crashing down eventually.
 
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"his trauma is his and my traumas are mine and they was similar"

No they wasn't Melissa.

You didn't get your head pulled to the floor and kicked multiple times by your stepdad.

Punched in the face.

Pushed off the arm chair and nearly cracked your head on the cabinet.

Kicked out of the family home because you wanted to be with your fiance.

Had to sleep in the nearest working men's clubs shed for a week and find a tent to sleep on for a further 2 weeks in the middle of December.

Had to sofa surf at mates house for 3months. Where I got jumped a few times walking to the local town hall to help with housing. To be told they needed signature to prove my mum didn't want me yeah like thats going to go down well.

Managed to get a bedsit but was invested in druggies and alcoholics. Got a knife pulled out on me countless times.

When I finally got back onto my feet I saved up and get out.

Worked hard for my fiance and me to leave.

Got a home and we had our first born.

Got a job that didn't understand my mental health issues so got sacked after having a day off.

Tried to rekindle relationships with everybody outside the family only to have it all throw back in my face.

Was accused of stealing a phone off my dying grandma but it was our cousin yet it's ok I don't need a apology.

Wasn't told that grandma was getting worse yet you got told and picked up and taken there and looked after.

I had to make my own way there and was subjected to the cold shoulder.

Uncle called me selfish and humiliated me for not paying for your 21st bday banners because I was skint but to him I was getting pissed and drugged up because it's where I live.

I didn't have a 18th b'day or 21st bday as no one bothered to find me or ask Melissa or my mum how I was.

You had the family home to live in.
You could go to your other families house anytime like you said your auntie had a room ready.

Never had mother kicked you out.

You moved into grandmas house rent free as its mortgage was already paid.

Got pissed up nearly every night with your pisshead of a cousin and used that house as a piss head house for your cousins friends.

Your work made for your therapy and when they didn't want to promote you you threatened to take it higher so they give you a promotion. And then after 6 years you left because you called it a "toxic work place". Yeah sounds really toxic when a company's willing to pay your therapy. And keep you on despite having sloads of days off.

Your job somehow keeps you after you're taking the piss and saying it's mental health yet your ok tiktok and somehow you keep the job.

Got your first car off your father.
Got your teeth paid for.
Got your wedding payed off.

Yeah our paths are the same 👀👀👀

She has such a warp thought process on her experiences.

She's mentioned that it was so "traumatic" at home yet after uni ran straight home to mummy and daddy 🤔

It's because you didn't save up or even thought about moving out if it was that bad you would leave but you took advantage of everything.

I didn't have the choice I was out on my ear and she seems to think I'm just playing the same tune even said" are Tom get over it no one cares you lived in a tent" like ???

Everything I have done I've done it from the ground up I had no choice to go up and work hard.

When my first born was born my mum or dad and Melissa didn't even come and see him.

Melissa got my fiance kicked out on Xmas eve.

Melissa used my mental health against me when I rung her up and cried about it on the phone. She ran to my mother and told it it's because I didn't love my fiance when she knew it's because I was struggling to find a meaning of living anymore due to having mental health issues and getting sacked because I had days where I couldn't do the job right.

Melissa says "go get therapy" 👍👍👍 nice one.

The angers me that you think our lives were so similar.

And she would literally just say I was jealous 🤷 but it's the facts Melissa love.
Nothing you say surprises me about Saint Melissa. My sister is a psychologist & I've told her about Melissa as when I found Mel I thought I'd found a kindred spirit. How wrong was I! The reality was I found a vindictive, rude, arrogant liar who trauma dumps on many people & someone who I found to be more narcissistic than any of the narcissists I know. She really is vile & she just cannot stop talking about you & making incorrect assumptions. She's obsessed with you.
I am extremely sorry to read your story. Your mother & Mel were a nasty double act & your stepdad sounds as sadistic as Melissa. Like stepfather like stepdaughter!
Melissa baffles me & I think many others, she can be quite eloquent on one hand which pulls people in, then when you actually see what she's doing & how she's behaving it's horrific. I asked my sister about Mel who keeps saying she was trauma bonded to your mum, Mel's excuse for everything!! My psychologist sister said "dysfunctional relationship & undiagnosed ADHD need thoroughly exploring before jumping to the trauma bond conclusion as trauma bonding is a lot more complex than a couple of words to be used to explain behaviours"
It's good to read you have your fiance & your own family. It's everyone's loss in your ex family that they are all missing out on the joy of your children. I wouldn't let your children anywhere near Melissa the way she behaves. When they are old enough to realise how she's treated their parents & how she's humiliated your children so publicly, they won't want anything to do with her. Who would?
 
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Nothing you say surprises me about Saint Melissa. My sister is a psychologist & I've told her about Melissa as when I found Mel I thought I'd found a kindred spirit. How wrong was I! The reality was I found a vindictive, rude, arrogant liar who trauma dumps on many people & someone who I found to be more narcissistic than any of the narcissists I know. She really is vile & she just cannot stop talking about you & making incorrect assumptions. She's obsessed with you.
I am extremely sorry to read your story. Your mother & Mel were a nasty double act & your stepdad sounds as sadistic as Melissa. Like stepfather like stepdaughter!
Melissa baffles me & I think many others, she can be quite eloquent on one hand which pulls people in, then when you actually see what she's doing & how she's behaving it's horrific. I asked my sister about Mel who keeps saying she was trauma bonded to your mum, Mel's excuse for everything!! My psychologist sister said "dysfunctional relationship & undiagnosed ADHD need thoroughly exploring before jumping to the trauma bond conclusion as trauma bonding is a lot more complex than a couple of words to be used to explain behaviours"
It's good to read you have your fiance & your own family. It's everyone's loss in your ex family that they are all missing out on the joy of your children. I wouldn't let your children anywhere near Melissa the way she behaves. When they are old enough to realise how she's treated their parents & how she's humiliated your children so publicly, they won't want anything to do with her. Who would?
My eldest is old enough to understand and doesn't want anything to do with her after what she said on lives. I don't lie to my kids and they said " she needs help and it doesn't matter because she never makes effort to see me play"

Everything you said is absolutely spot on.
 
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My eldest is old enough to understand and doesn't want anything to do with her after what she said on lives. I don't lie to my kids and they said " she needs help and it doesn't matter because she never makes effort to see me play"

Everything you said is absolutely spot on.
Out of the mouths of babes!! Your eldest is right. Who needs enemies when you have an Aunty like their ex Aunty Mel who says heartbreaking things about young children online!!

How's Mel going to explain you articulating yourself so well on here I wonder? She's called you such derogatory names since she started obsessing over you. She's said horrible things about your intelligence many times over. Yet here you are, clearly articulating your story with your right to reply. PROVING MEL IS A LIAR. She infuriates many of us as she's playing with fire. Nothing she's ever said about you or your children has anything to do with helping strangers with their trauma!! She's just intent on assassinating yours & your ex families character. I'm so pleased you have your opportunity to set the record straight.
I've gotta go back to work. Take care.