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Aitkens Rowie

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I’ve just caught up with today’s me, me, me videos. All 6 about her. That cry me a river was an utter disgrace. That wee boy is a gift but all she sees is imperfection with no vision of what he could achieve. He’s the one who could teach her not the other way around if she opened her mind and stopped the “he can’t do this or that“ but she would need to learn how to be selfless first. She might one day hear him speak

“Every man must decide whether he will walk in the light of creative altruism or in the darkness of destructive selfishness.” —Martin Luther King, Jr.
 

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Theirs a lot in and around Aberdeen now than their has ever been she just can’t be assed to do anything with him and it’s a sin, she just wants school to do everything including toilet train him. It is actually sick she claim she just wants him to talk but doesn’t actually do anything to help him talk.
My littlest is newly diagnosed, iv known since he was tiny though. We are 20 mins from her, he goes to an asn swimming class, we do the soft play asn sessions once a month and he's away to start horse riding school for kids with disabilities so the horses are trained for kids who might be louder, move about more etc. Those lessons are closer to her than me. The school have said they will be amazing for him and he is getting a half day off to attend, they encouraged it when I spoke to them about it. They only had a weekday session come up and said after school sessions rarely come up. If she looks there are soooo many things on offer. My son doesn't have CP but he does have very poor motor skills and hurts himself numerous times a day every day. She has no excuse for the lack of activity that boy does. My boy would sit in the house all day every day if I let him. It's his safe and happy place. But I know he needs some sort of socialising. He struggles with it so much at school. No excuse.
 

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She doesn't try anything, there are methods to help them when overstimulated and sensory seeking (in Ms case chewing everything) her answer is to take M out the equation rather than managing and trying to solve what is causing his distress. She is embarrassed by him so anywhere he may ofnhad a meltdown at before she automatically says he doesn't enjoy it. How does she know "I'm his mum I know my child" doesn't wash with me!
Excatly this cos why not sit in McDonald's kids love that instead of sitting in the car
 

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My littlest is newly diagnosed, iv known since he was tiny though. We are 20 mins from her, he goes to an asn swimming class, we do the soft play asn sessions once a month and he's away to start horse riding school for kids with disabilities so the horses are trained for kids who might be louder, move about more etc. Those lessons are closer to her than me. The school have said they will be amazing for him and he is getting a half day off to attend, they encouraged it when I spoke to them about it. They only had a weekday session come up and said after school sessions rarely come up. If she looks there are soooo many things on offer. My son doesn't have CP but he does have very poor motor skills and hurts himself numerous times a day every day. She has no excuse for the lack of activity that boy does. My boy would sit in the house all day every day if I let him. It's his safe and happy place. But I know he needs some sort of socialising. He struggles with it so much at school. No excuse.
He will love the horse riding I’m sure, I’ve been with a group to do that and only one of them didn’t want to go near a horse. The horses are so chilled out and they seem to just know and interact so nicely. The joy on the faces is priceless ❤️❤️❤️
 

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I’ve just caught up with today’s me, me, me videos. All 6 about her. That cry me a river was an utter disgrace. That wee boy is a gift but all she sees is imperfection with no vision of what he could achieve. He’s the one who could teach her not the other way around if she opened her mind and stopped the “he can’t do this or that“ but she would need to learn how to be selfless first. She might one day hear him speak

“Every man must decide whether he will walk in the light of creative altruism or in the darkness of destructive selfishness.” —Martin Luther King, Jr.
Just had the pleasure of seeing it 🙄🙄 how old is M now? How long has he been diagnosed? And she still can’t accept it. She so wanted to be the football mum 🙄🙄 not every boy wants to play football. She’s a manipulative dickhead with that vid. No something else is up & thats what she is upset about.
Also wtf is going on with the shape of her head and face here? Where’s onion head gone? 🤣🤣🤣
 

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Aitkens Rowie

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My littlest is newly diagnosed, iv known since he was tiny though. We are 20 mins from her, he goes to an asn swimming class, we do the soft play asn sessions once a month and he's away to start horse riding school for kids with disabilities so the horses are trained for kids who might be louder, move about more etc. Those lessons are closer to her than me. The school have said they will be amazing for him and he is getting a half day off to attend, they encouraged it when I spoke to them about it. They only had a weekday session come up and said after school sessions rarely come up. If she looks there are soooo many things on offer. My son doesn't have CP but he does have very poor motor skills and hurts himself numerous times a day every day. She has no excuse for the lack of activity that boy does. My boy would sit in the house all day every day if I let him. It's his safe and happy place. But I know he needs some sort of socialising. He struggles with it so much at school. No excuse.
Spot on, she’s not just a lazy selfish parent she’s a useless one for a child with special needs. Horse riding would be a wonderful thing for M
 

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He will love the horse riding I’m sure, I’ve been with a group to do that and only one of them didn’t want to go near a horse. The horses are so chilled out and they seem to just know and interact so nicely. The joy on the faces is priceless ❤️❤️❤️
I'm so excited to see him start. He loves all things animals so I have high hopes. The school looks great and the only one this side of the shire so absolutely delighted he got a space. He hasnt been told about the half day from school yet but he will be all for that 😂 it really seems to be an amazing place 🥰
 

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Spot on, she’s not just a lazy selfish parent she’s a useless one for a child with special needs. Horse riding would be a wonderful thing for M
I read quite a few things about horse riding being good for autistic kids and for helping them with social skills which he really struggles with. I don't understand why she doesn't do a thing to help her boy, he could thrive doing something like this.
 

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Just had the pleasure of seeing it 🙄🙄 how old is M now? How long has he been diagnosed? And she still can’t accept it. She so wanted to be the football mum 🙄🙄 not every boy wants to play football. She’s a manipulative dickhead with that vid. No something else is up & thats what she is upset about.
Also wtf is going on with the shape of her head and face here? Where’s onion head gone? 🤣🤣🤣

Wowowow where did the spock lugs come from?
 

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My littlest is newly diagnosed, iv known since he was tiny though. We are 20 mins from her, he goes to an asn swimming class, we do the soft play asn sessions once a month and he's away to start horse riding school for kids with disabilities so the horses are trained for kids who might be louder, move about more etc. Those lessons are closer to her than me. The school have said they will be amazing for him and he is getting a half day off to attend, they encouraged it when I spoke to them about it. They only had a weekday session come up and said after school sessions rarely come up. If she looks there are soooo many things on offer. My son doesn't have CP but he does have very poor motor skills and hurts himself numerous times a day every day. She has no excuse for the lack of activity that boy does. My boy would sit in the house all day every day if I let him. It's his safe and happy place. But I know he needs some sort of socialising. He struggles with it so much at school. No excuse.
Love this !
 

Monty

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Just had the pleasure of seeing it 🙄🙄 how old is M now? How long has he been diagnosed? And she still can’t accept it. She so wanted to be the football mum 🙄🙄 not every boy wants to play football. She’s a manipulative dickhead with that vid. No something else is up & thats what she is upset about.
Also wtf is going on with the shape of her head and face here? Where’s onion head gone? 🤣🤣🤣
She wanted to be the dedicated mum…

She still can be for do sake. Dedicated to his needs, his progress, his development, getting him his resources.
She needs to accept M is her son and son has autism and that’s it. No amount of crying will change it.
Do right by the boy.
Or seek therapy for grieving the child you told yourself you were having so you can be a good mother to the son you had.
 

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I'm so excited to see him start. He loves all things animals so I have high hopes. The school looks great and the only one this side of the shire so absolutely delighted he got a space. He hasnt been told about the half day from school yet but he will be all for that 😂 it really seems to be an amazing place 🥰
Aww I bet he has the best time. Horses are wonderful animals.
I think M would love something like this. I remember her saying before his favourite book was an animal book with all the pictures of animals. And he always has a squishy lizard or snake in his hand.
 

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I read quite a few things about horse riding being good for autistic kids and for helping them with social skills which he really struggles with. I don't understand why she doesn't do a thing to help her boy, he could thrive doing something like this.
Cos it's all about how much money she can get for M
 

cntybawz

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She wanted to be the dedicated mum…

She still can be for do sake. Dedicated to his needs, his progress, his development, getting him his resources.
She needs to accept M is her son and son has autism and that’s it. No amount of crying will change it.
Do right by the boy.
Or seek therapy for grieving the child you told yourself you were having so you can be a good mother to the son you had.

Exactly this!!! I'm guessing she didn't bother reading the last part of the poem!!


"But... if you spend your life mourning the fact that you didn't get to Italy, you may never be free to enjoy the very special, the very lovely things ... about Holland."