Stephanie Vavron @stephanievavron

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Sam was pretty horrified when she said she would shut down all communications with girls for any man she was with and she in return wouldn’t be sitting on live with men when she was in a relationship.

It’s not a healthy attitude to see everyone else as a threat when you’re in a relationship. My man has respect for me and has boundaries so I don’t have to worry about him speaking to other women! He has a great relationship with all the women at his work. The more you have to control that the more you need to have words with yourself.

But the coercive control starts early as Steph is demonstrating with Korey. She told him she’d only go live with him if he put subs on. Then accepted sams uncontrolled chat fine just to show off. Does she even realise what she done there. Korey always says he will be back in 2 minutes. But he might as well say you’re ruining my vibe, my live and my life. do off.
Agree with this to the letter.

I trust my partner and he me, that if a female spoke to him he’s doing it on a platonic level. You police your own s, not other peoples.
Steph displays controlling and coercive behaviour constantly, as well as emotional abuse.
I don’t think she quite realises that all this ‘what can a man bring to the table, I finance myself’ would be considered financial abuse if she was to say this to a partner.

She might be able to finance a £2k rent a month (with DLA, housing benefits, two guys maintenance, and a life insurance policy), but everything she has can be taken away. Her name is not to anything. Not even her ‘make up’.

She won’t ever be happy because she isn’t happy. She’s too busy proving to a bunch of strangers on the internet that she’s self made 🤣

Every one is jealous and this is the narrative she runs with. But in terms of psychological reason behind that narrative is, low self esteem, projection, need for validation, misinterpretation of behaviour, social comparison, competitive nature.

Steph have a little read of this (if you can manage):
‘It's important to note that the perception of jealousy is subjective and can be influenced by individual experiences, biases, and psychological factors. It's essential for individuals to reflect on their own feelings and motivations and consider alternative explanations for others' behavior before assuming jealousy. Communication and understanding can help clarify misunderstandings and build healthier relationships’
 

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Agree with this to the letter.

I trust my partner and he me, that if a female spoke to him he’s doing it on a platonic level. You police your own s, not other peoples.
Steph displays controlling and coercive behaviour constantly, as well as emotional abuse.
I don’t think she quite realises that all this ‘what can a man bring to the table, I finance myself’ would be considered financial abuse if she was to say this to a partner.

She might be able to finance a £2k rent a month (with DLA, housing benefits, two guys maintenance, and a life insurance policy), but everything she has can be taken away. Her name is not to anything. Not even her ‘make up’.

She won’t ever be happy because she isn’t happy. She’s too busy proving to a bunch of strangers on the internet that she’s self made 🤣

Every one is jealous and this is the narrative she runs with. But in terms of psychological reason behind that narrative is, low self esteem, projection, need for validation, misinterpretation of behaviour, social comparison, competitive nature.

Steph have a little read of this (if you can manage):
‘It's important to note that the perception of jealousy is subjective and can be influenced by individual experiences, biases, and psychological factors. It's essential for individuals to reflect on their own feelings and motivations and consider alternative explanations for others' behavior before assuming jealousy. Communication and understanding can help clarify misunderstandings and build healthier relationships’
You couldn’t be more spot on. At one point sam said to her you won’t find a man with all these requirements and she chose to ignore it. He seems pretty clued up. He’s clout chasing. Nothing more.

She has deep deep Deep trauma somewhere and that’s not any new person she meets fault. But they will be subjected to coercive control and manipulation at her hands as she stops him from communicating with people in his life. Does she not realise that isn’t normal 🤦🏻‍♀️

She keeps insinuating that Harley did something. I doubt he had the ability or confidence to cheat on her so she’s been ‘ really hurt’ by him not shutting down conversations with other women. It’s not cheating Steph. It’s you being a controlling Cnut ! He would just be being the nice guy he seems to be chatting away with people. It’s her perception of that ‘hurt’ that is wrong.
 

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Yeasss 🙌🏼🙌🏼😂😂😂

I honestly hope she falls BIG for Sam because he’s honestly the biggest player of our town, him and his side kick Wayne 😂 he has NO loyalties 😂😂
Where is he from? He did look as if he lost interest after her spiel about not talking to the opposite sex when in a relationship 😭 like beefy hen that screams that you can’t trust yourself to have male friends 😂
 

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And you can 💯 tell she’s manipulating what happened cos she says like a flex ‘we still speak now’ as if it enables her as a good person when in actual fact it’s because he’s a nice guy.

I can guarantee you she wouldn’t stop speaking to him in a new relationship either cos she knows it’s a friendship so thinks it’s nothing wrong but if he met another person like her who comes along and shuts the friendship down for no reason she would see it then but still be unable to apply it to her own life. She is wild 🤦🏻‍♀️ narc.
 

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Where is he from? He did look as if he lost interest after her spiel about not talking to the opposite sex when in a relationship 😭 like beefy hen that screams that you can’t trust yourself to have male friends 😂
It’s cos she knows what her intentions are as a women and has no boundaries and she thinks all other women are like that. Bless her. That’s what happens when you sleep with your dying husbands best mate & don’t know who your baby daddy is I suppose 🤣🤣🤣
 

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Ahhhh I thought it was round about the NE way with the accent just couldn’t place where 😂 no direct flights down that way Flora so yer fkd 😭 don’t see him abandoning his kids like you do right enough either
She couldn’t have looked more uninterested when he was speaking about his kids she was just like aww probably because she can’t be assed with her own , plus taking the mick out of him over his hobby of fishing least the guy has a hobby Steph you do absolutely nothing your more of a ick to a guy you boring fud.
 
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She couldn’t have looked more uninterested when he was speaking about his kids she was just like aww probably because she can’t be assed with her own , plus taking the mick out of him over his hobby of fishing least the guy has a hobby Steph you do absolutely nothing your more of a ick to a guy you boring fud.
Steph’s hobby is gaslighting people over the internet
 
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I was just about to come say this 🤬 can’t believe she used that sound 🤦🏻‍♀️ she really is the gift that keeps on giving……
Secondly Flora, that dress and they clunkers are fing hideous 🤢 my 12 year old has better dress sense that you
Looks like max has never been out on his Christmas present in the corner, the wheels are still brand new. Poor kid
 

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She couldn’t have looked more uninterested when he was speaking about his kids she was just like aww probably because she can’t be assed with her own , plus taking the mick out of him over his hobby of fishing least the guy has a hobby Steph you do absolutely nothing your more of a ick to a guy you boring fud.
Her new name Flora Ick Vavron 😂😭 she’s not got two brain cells to run together to have a hobby 😏 but aye then she was sooking up as he mentioned it was for MH…. Trying to pull it back Flora then fed it by saying about not chatting to the opposite sex 😂 she must of mentioned M not sleeping about 10 times, I think she was waiting for him to ask her why or feel sorry for her
 

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Her new name Flora Ick Vavron 😂😭 she’s not got two brain cells to run together to have a hobby 😏 but aye then she was sooking up as he mentioned it was for MH…. Trying to pull it back Flora then fed it by saying about not chatting to the opposite sex 😂 she must of mentioned M not sleeping about 10 times, I think she was waiting for him to ask her why or feel sorry for her
Absolutely that was mortifying and that she is always in meetings and jet setting here their and everywhere he mentioned Marbella and she was like I went mad in Ibiza been their done that 20 years ago Steph plus you are pushing on 40 and all the folk your going with is a lot younger spot the odd one out 🤣🤣.
 
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