Agree with this to the letter.
I trust my partner and he me, that if a female spoke to him he’s doing it on a platonic level. You police your own s, not other peoples.
Steph displays controlling and coercive behaviour constantly, as well as emotional abuse.
I don’t think she quite realises that all this ‘what can a man bring to the table, I finance myself’ would be considered financial abuse if she was to say this to a partner.
She might be able to finance a £2k rent a month (with DLA, housing benefits, two guys maintenance, and a life insurance policy), but everything she has can be taken away. Her name is not to anything. Not even her ‘make up’.
She won’t ever be happy because she isn’t happy. She’s too busy proving to a bunch of strangers on the internet that she’s self made
Every one is jealous and this is the narrative she runs with. But in terms of psychological reason behind that narrative is, low self esteem, projection, need for validation, misinterpretation of behaviour, social comparison, competitive nature.
Steph have a little read of this (if you can manage):
‘It's important to note that the perception of jealousy is subjective and can be influenced by individual experiences, biases, and psychological factors. It's essential for individuals to reflect on their own feelings and motivations and consider alternative explanations for others' behavior before assuming jealousy. Communication and understanding can help clarify misunderstandings and build healthier relationships’
aye hen a starter of charity thief, main of narcissist with a side of gaslighting and a dessert of coercive behavior 
