Morning,
Not carrying it on but wanted to respond to some of the comments.
If I upset anyone then I apologise.
My feelings still stand on the posters comments tbh. I could have done without reading that straight away after and it was quite blunt imo.
Should I have jumped on them straight away..no. i admit I was upset and triggered.
It has been said that there was an apology...this is incorrect. I got a sty response back saying if u took it like that I cba or something like that.
I did not want anyone going after the poster though. I just expected a bit of acknowledgement that I was upset and why.
I felt my feelings were being invalidated at times and my issue minimised. Saying it was silly is not very helpful with regards to moving on. Bit unfair to say that.
I'm more than aware others have been targeted by this dani and I am sorry for that and have supported when ive been on. There were 3 posts related to me but the one I was referring to was putting info about me in the hope my daughter would see it and my words.
I have reflected on the fact I've overshared and prob only have myself to blame for that.
I've never had a run in with anyone on here previously. I've not been on as much as s going on myself. I take on board the comments that someone said about not everyone is going to say what you want or react the same way though, but that applies to everyone, me included. I've always tried to support others whether it's related to A or not.
I think it is probably best for everyone if I left this particular group.
Like I said apologise if anyone thinks I'm wrong or if I have upset anyone. Wasn't actually my intention.
I'm not going to lie and say I take all my feelings back because that would not be an honest reflection of my feelings.
I feel the response to how you were feeling wasn't necessary and very unhelpful. I know that your response was probably one that was anxiety lead and when you are in that spiral the last thing anyone needs is someone being like that towards them. I understand that spiral as I can get like that sometimes especially if I feel like my life may be impacted, even if its not, its catatrophising, it isnt easy to just snap out of. If someone can't be helpful or supportive then they should be quiet. I hope you feel better today, I really don't want to lose you from this group as I said last night and I'm sure majority of us feel the same. If you do leave I hope you return at some stage. Take care