I don't want to write an essay because I know they bore everyone , but the in house fighting needs to stop , nobody is winning with going round in circles and fighting with each other , we're all here for a reason , we all bring something to the forum , we all have different feelings on different people and we will always view things differently because that's human nature, it doesn't always mean somebody is right or wrong , it's how YOU as a person view it , that's the great thing with discussing things. I don't feel like I need to know who is messaging who , that isn't my business unless they're doing something that's off track but nobody owes anyone an explanation unless you've been sty for a reason. I'm just a nobody but I enjoy coming here , joining in and knowing my view won't get shut down because it doesn't go with the narrative , I'd like to think I know people and what they find acceptable and what they're like on here , I don't like that Judas has gone and I hope she comes back , because like 90% of other people on here , I have respect for her and respect her views and banter. I like most of you , I tolerate some (that I should have ignored yonks ago) but I just want to enjoy reading here like I once did.