R to @HollandDiabetes: It’s not personal. Sunk cost fallacy - they’ve emotionally invested so hard in this fictional villain narrative where they hate the character that they’ve invented, that they’re never ever going to climb down from it now. I have to remember that they don’t KNOW me, that they actually hate someone who literally doesn’t exist outside of their own imaginations. Sorry you got caught in the crossfire - look after yourself! X