So glad cc has appeared and others can comment on it and put their two-pence worth. I don't know vag but she triggers me when I see her. She's pretty much the female personality of my ex husband who was done with domestic abuse. I know it's easy to throw the word around but I 100% believe she ticks every box of being a narcissist. She has classic narcissist eyes.
Maybe this has been discussed here or on tl and I've missed it but what bugs me on some comments is talking about all the men in her life having no balls, no backbone and that they should just leave, I truly see these men as victims of her and victims of domestic abuse. And it's maybe hard to understand why they "put up with" certain things if you haven't been in a relationship where you're manipulated and abused by someone. I bet these men have proof of her behaviour, through texts, voice notes, videos, witnesses etc, but I think the stigma around men being victims of domestic abuse, is why they've not reported her.
One video with Rylan stood out (can't remember if it was her or him that posted it, want to say him) cos she couldn't gaslight him anymore if she tried, they were playing a game on a wee wobble thing with Tetris type blocks and the whole video she was telling him he said something he never, all because she wasn't "winning" at some stupid game.
The emotional abuse is horrific and it destroys you and it was clear to see in the videos of rylan and how she spoke to him. Her nana acts the same way, and it's clearly a toxic behaviour cycle continuing to be passed on down the generations.
She also strikes me as the type to get physical if she doesn't get her own way and I pray she hasn't put her hands on those kids. You can totally see the aggressiveness in her through her videos.
I believe she has taken into consideration how much dlp will overstimulate M but she wants thr bragging rights of it being the perfect "family" holiday with P and wouldn't put it past her to drug M, let's face it, she was happy enough shoving tiktok gummies down his throat and post the results of them. What she does to that wee boy on camera is child abuse. No other way to describe it.
She let lily use her voice and not be on camera (article 12 and 16 of UNCRC), But M doesn't get the same rights as his sister as per article 2. She's not fit to be a mum. But as per any narcissistic mother, she doesn't care about those kids, her actions show that, but she'll use them to project an image of herself into vulnerable people who are as manipulated by her as all her exes.