Sounds like her own family gave her the body issues not men!!She’s just as obsessed as her mum and nana was gotta be skinny with the perpetual diets not eating certain foods, it’s confusing and quite jarring to anybody never mind an impressionable teen. She’s passing the same trauma onto Lily by carrying on the tradition. If she truly didn’t care what she looked like or was happy with her weight and size she wouldn’t keep commenting about it. It bothers her so much she is consumed by it. I can think of much better ways to teach my daughter about caring for her body and loving the skin she is in than me flashing off my flabby bits to tiktok with some non inspirational quote. What a prick she looks